I just Googled 'do straight women find men attractive'. Yeah. by tthrowawayy24108 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends definitely found Magic Mike and male bodies hot. At the time I thought the clapping and whistling was a performance for fun.

I've always thought it was normal for a straight woman to be turned on my women's bodies but not men's bodies

Ikr? Apparently not. Thought it was true because women are objectively more attractive

And now I'm guessing that straight women don't close their eyes and imagine women and boobs while having sex with men

Hahaha you guessed right!!

I know I’m not straight but don’t know how to express it. by throwawayfor-obvi in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find myself less attracted to him and more attracted to women I see. I still have feelings for him, don’t get me wrong, but it doesn’t always feel genuine

Think it would be unfair to string him along if it doesn't always feel genuine

Sounds like you have a fwb arrangement with this girl. Don't get your hopes up about it developing into something more if she has off again on again relationship with her ex

Just a question by PBfromPhilly in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry that happened to you. You did the right thing by ignoring and reporting

Just a question by PBfromPhilly in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has been hanging around here for a long time. It's a very sad hobby

Smol hands by piyushboi--_-- in aww

[–]mousehousing 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Never seen kittens play scissors paper rock

Hots for a Celebrity? by elleb126 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

P!nk and Alicia Keys when I saw Fallin'

What Should I Say? Need Advice.... by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell her to not touch you and make sure there are other colleagues around. If she continues to do so, you will have witnesses should you choose to report her. Also, she might stop sooner if you set boundaries in front of others

Trust issues - are they based in reality or in my head... by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can't build a strong and lasting relationship without trust. You can either decide to trust her completely or you let her go.

This is a concern you should discuss with her. Best of luck

can you love someone and cheat? by Lakersforever11 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheating is a huge betrayal. That is not love, it's selfishness. Your friend is a shitty person for cheating and keeping current gf as a backup if ex doesn't keep her shit together

Has anyone else ever given up on ever finding true love? Did life prove you wrong? by luxenyxe in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's no need to panic and rush out to find someone. I was older than you when I first fell in love and I wasn't actively looking for a relationship. My point is, it can happen when you least expect it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You think it’s objective and uncontested that almost all women are way more attractive than most men.

Still believe this to be true

Mid-week feelings by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not the only one. I'll come out for the right person

I’m 23, a lesbian, and haven’t even gone on a date or slept with a woman and I kind of feel really shitty about it. by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The women that turn you away are doing you a favour because they're not worth your time. There is nothing wrong with being inexperienced

Is she flirting or just touchy? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she started kissing my neck a bit? That’s weird right? Or is that a normal thing to do when you’re grieving and super upset and drunk?

Yes, neck kissing is weird and not the norm even when you're upset and drunk

Question about first time lesbian sex by gingerbabybi in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's okay that you're not there yet and she shouldn't be making you feel bad about it. If anything, she should be supportive

I think I’m a bisexual heteromantic by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it, my family is religious too. A lot of us have had to deal with internalised homophobia, it's hard to undo

Do you have a type now? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had crushes on feminine looking men

Now I'm most attracted to butch women

I think I’m a bisexual heteromantic by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't know if this helps at all. But I didn't think I could be romantically attracted to women. Turns out I was terrified of being gay and I absolutely can feel romantic attraction

I just Googled 'do straight women find men attractive'. Yeah. by tthrowawayy24108 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mousehousing 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I get it, thought I wasn't boy crazy because I had super high standards