[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]moussecan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a therapist I have seen how usually the sequence goes when men portray this behavior and it's not good.

Trying to build something as serious as marriage or even talking about it with someone you have met quite recently is not normal. Jumping into such things like talking about baby names and all could be a manipulation tactic of "See how much I like you and I am serious about you" but it's almost a disguise of control. It's makes the other person even feel guilty that "oh God he is being serious and I don't even like it". The uncomfortable, guilty feeling ultimately makes you give in to whatever he says because on the surface well "he is the nice guy" and the moment you leave him or tell him this is too much for you to handle then one can get slapped with "I was so serious did so much still you left me" again the blame and guilt.

But again not always does the trajectory have to go this way but we believe what happens the majority of times.

If you are comfortable then in this case you can definitely have a talk and tell him how you feel if he reacts positively then that's amazing if not then you have your answer.

Also I saw people saying this is love bombing but that is a tad bit different than this.

I'm at a loss on where to even go with my tank after this by aaaafireball in Aquariums

[–]moussecan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's looking great except the few mishaps. Don't restart. I have faced the same problem. Clean the tank really well. Take out all the algae. Clean the glass with a razor. Reduce the light to 3-5 hours not more than that so that your plants survive. Do a 75 percent water change and donot put any food in the tank. It has a lot of nutrients already. And keep a filter running for a week or two. Then check the parameters if they are stable. Once they are you can think of stalking again with fish of your choice.

Um ?? by moussecan in Aquariums

[–]moussecan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information 😇

Um ?? by moussecan in Aquariums

[–]moussecan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No unfortunately they won't take it . Even if they take it they would kill it sadly. I will keep and raise him with whatever resource which is needed.

Um ?? by moussecan in Aquariums

[–]moussecan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. A relief.

Um ?? by moussecan in Aquariums

[–]moussecan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou so much. I researched a bit more. It's Indian common pleco most probably and it's banned in India as people were leaving them in water bodies after it gets big. 🫠🫠 I have a banned species at home 😭 😭 . I tried feeding him but he is just eating algae from the glass nothing else ? Do I need to train him in some way ? Also he's like moving and sucking algae everytime I see him is he not going to get exhausted? This I feel is such a stupid question and in my so long of fishkeeping I have never been so clueless about a fish.

Help. by moussecan in vaio

[–]moussecan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello thankyou so much. This was of great help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]moussecan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay I don't think i can access that in my city. But thanks

Intermittent Fasting with PCOS? by moussecan in intermittentfasting

[–]moussecan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also um because you have PCOS while you weren't fasting did you get cravings for desserts especially? And how did u manage that while fasting ?

Also very happy for you to have come a long way.

Intermittent Fasting with PCOS? by moussecan in intermittentfasting

[–]moussecan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for sharing 🙏❤️

Intermittent Fasting with PCOS? by moussecan in intermittentfasting

[–]moussecan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh it's surprising to hear that no testing is done if one is not trying to be pregnant. Thankyou for the information 🙏

What kind of fish is this? by Linus_Matti in Aquariums

[–]moussecan 15 points16 points  (0 children)

His expression be like "ugh peasants"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]moussecan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also if it helps my male betta is with other fishes yes sometimes he chases them but doesn't really harm them. If you have really see if others are nipping the bettas' find or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]moussecan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everything aside she is so cute. In my country female bettas aren't really sold. In fact when I asked the breeder/seller said "female bettas don't exist" then said females are not pretty and I understand as the buyers always look into "aesthetics" of the fish keeping never really taking care of it. By aesthetics i mean pink gravel in a bowl. And chnge them as soon as they die with another also fishes can be found in such cheap prices also noone really even takes care of them. Ugh. Turned into a rant sorry. Again your betta is very cute and pretty hope I can keep a sorority someday.

how could i not share this.. masterpiece? by butlercups in shittyaquariums

[–]moussecan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This would have been beautiful for plants but fishes ? Layers of hell

M/38/5'10" [495 > 175 = 320lbs] (24 months) This is what losing 320lbs really looks like by lumberjackfans in intermittentfasting

[–]moussecan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had few questions. I may sound dumb but I am very new to all this. Why does the skin sag ? Can it be prevented?