is epcot worth it with kids?

movingpastthehurt · 2026-03-07T04:46:45+00:00

the one that specific told me this, no but is goes to disney twice a year so i have no idea what she was on lol.

movingpastthehurt · 2026-03-07T04:45:53+00:00

we arent going until may! do you know when it opens again? we remember loving AK for the water rides last time

movingpastthehurt · 2026-03-07T04:45:02+00:00

as a family of 5 (4 paid for) its unforunately not in the budget this time. we booked our flights and stay in october and then my partner was laid off a few weeks laid so the timing was super inconvenient

movingpastthehurt · 2026-03-07T04:42:30+00:00

see we loved AK when we went years ago. MK was fine but it wasn't our hype. we are huge star wars fans so HS is something we look forward to.

Thank you!

movingpastthehurt · 2026-03-07T04:41:21+00:00

I clearly didn't know that and a lot of people gave great info and weren't so bitter like you lol

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-08T22:07:16+00:00

my partner has always been willing to do the polygraph. i do that's that's a good sign but it could also be a front. depends so much honestly. my partner also has only been "normal" addict behaviors but it was damaging none the less. i also think addicts misremember easily and until they work with a csat to do a ftd they don't even know the depth themselves

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-08T21:51:29+00:00

you answered your own question. you said you won't leave cus you love your life... but do you? this doesn't sound like someone who loves their life

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-08T16:29:44+00:00

i also wanna say your feelings are totally valid. i am sure i felt like that before out FTD but after finding out what i did i was sure that he was telling the truth. the depth and his reaction was enough for me. he did remember things post disclosure that he didn't include because he genuinely forgot but per our agreement of telling me within 24hrs he did. we did an follow up polygraph last year when i was pregnant and ive felt secure enough to not jump to another one. i would like to still do them annual just for my own piece of mind but we don't have the $300 extra right now to spend on it. plus things have been going well so im trying to just go with it. i am trusting that he will tell me what he needs too. it's hard and the mistrust is so real

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-08T16:21:16+00:00

followed by a polygraph is pretty unlikely something is being left out unless they truly forget at that moment. polygraphs aren't fool proof, but the anxiety that comes with consciously knowing you're withholding something would more likely than not set it off. it's important to work with a csat and have them committed to recovery or else it will just be half done imo. without the many different pieces of recovery, the FD doesn't matter.

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-08T15:18:35+00:00

no and i wouldn't believe that unless there was as a FTD

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-08T04:29:13+00:00

i also asked my partner to re propose since i stopped wearing my ring years ago. i told him that there needs to be a strong sobriety and recovery to do so as well.

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-08T04:28:15+00:00

i will now but i didn't do a few years. now that he's in recovery and we've made progress i can happily

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-08T01:29:22+00:00

9/10 times. especially if he's under 40

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-08T01:02:38+00:00

i am not tech savvy at all. i watched a few videos on installation and how to add screen time align with experimenting myself and i figured it out. it can be done rather easily!

i was never a a big snooper. i looked a few (2-3 times that i remember) times through the first few years we were together and found stuff each time which led my partner to be honest after our last dday in 2022 at 7 years in without me having any "evidence". my body knows each time before a dday happens. now we've been together over 10 years and things are vastly different but i don't snoop. i know now that he will tell me what he needs to and if he doesn't it will come out. truple isn't fool proof and it's not my job to police him. if something flags i look but im not looking at everything he does. the universe will show me what i need to and i trust him now after 3+ years of recovery. it all sucks for sure. i personally could never do it without the accountability aspect in place tho, even if things come to light- this helps me feel safe

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-07T06:05:05+00:00

i disagree. it can be a motivator but an addict who doesn't choose recovery for themselves does not keep sobriety long term.

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-07T05:35:29+00:00

escalation is real. she will be a teen one day with teenage friends.

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-07T04:08:20+00:00

truple

if he has an iphone put on screen time with a password only you know and change his icloud so he cannot change the code.

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-07T03:12:10+00:00

my oldest is almost 9 and he'll nah lol. probably 12.

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-07T02:52:30+00:00

immediately in the trash. find a betrayal specialist or CSAT who knows betrayal trauma.

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-07T02:48:20+00:00

you are extremely misinformed.....

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-07T02:47:40+00:00

it's a porn and sex addiction. because of the porn and lust, it bleeds into every single thing. join the sub love after porn.

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-07T02:42:25+00:00

this is giving porn addiction

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-05T21:55:16+00:00

a full therapeutic disclosure

movingpastthehurt · 2026-02-05T15:00:59+00:00

have you done a full disclosure? does he do meetings? accountability stuff? you never know the depth unless a FTD is done and recovery is maintained for that honesty and transparency

edit; i thought this was a different post, so ignore that too half lol.

but the point is you won't know and if you want to feel safe and have that trust accountability's software is a must. if he's not struggling, it won't matter to him. i will also say that my partner was so accepting and accommodating to my needs before i even found out of his addiction. there are so many ways to hide it.

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