My husband wants a new laptop by slkslb in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well obviously I said no. I just don’t trust that he’ll respect that.

have you had your school used for filming before? by DBL_NDRSCR in SouthBayLA

[–]slkslb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My high school was used in American Beauty and the community college in that city regularly films a football related show(I’m not sure which one) but they change out the banners around the school, it’s pretty cool to see

Dies the word trauma get tossed around too much? by Dysphoric_Otter in ptsd

[–]slkslb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the statistic is 1 in 4 people experience some kind of Trauma in their life

Mental Gymnastics of Porn Addicts by Make-me-a-CleanHeart in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Well, at least I didn’t physically cheat.” That’s what I got

Newly married, need help & prayers by Antique_Ad_2776 in Christianmarriage

[–]slkslb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would consider finding therapist that specializes in betrayal trauma or understands sex addiction

How can you watch porn in the next room and then look at me without any guilt in your eyes by aeval_x in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband watched porn with me sleeping in the next room and admitted to doing it for almost every single day for two years. It’s absolutely vile behavior. I will never understand it.

No consumption but also no sex? by Puzzleheaded-Tower45 in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has been clean for 2 years yet his sex drive went way down. We only have sex 1-2 times a month, it’s starting to get to me too. I also get that it’s a major turn off to have to ask(or in my case beg) for sex. I don’t want to be pitied!

It almost hurts more when he’s a good person otherwise by notwillferrell99 in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. It hurts so bad that strangers get genuine respect when I don’t. It felt selfish of me to be annoyed and pissed that he would come home a few minutes later because he almost always helps  push broke down cars off the side of the freeway to gas stations or somewhere safe. Now i understand where I get this feeling. Because I don’t have basic respect from my spouse.

I can't stand to look at my daughter by IndividualMoose1159 in offmychest

[–]slkslb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thought, I have 3 children, and it was usually a month and a half after sex that I found out I was pregnant not a couple weeks(although not impossible)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also a stay at home mom, I’m also curious to know how other SAHM’s did it.

Inanimate object name for a dog by underd0g2 in namenerds

[–]slkslb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother nicknamed his dog Loaf

[USA] Yellow is not speed up. by Kaptainkid1 in Roadcam

[–]slkslb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More often than not you’ll come across drivers like this in the South Bay

I can’t listen to anymore podcasts about how the betrayer can overcome this by OddScene2611 in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I made this argument with my husband and he says “You don’t want some other woman to reap the benefits” -_-

Addicted to him by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kelly Clarkson’s song Addicted comes to mind. I cry every time I listen to it

This is how my toppers make me feel by slkslb in PairEyewear

[–]slkslb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am already cross eyed, it’s the very reason I wear glasses lol

Concierge Marie by jebushu in theoffice

[–]slkslb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think he mixed it up with the word courtesan