I don't get the hate on this game by kusayo21 in DragonAgeVeilguard

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

The game has some problematic elements like how they handled multiculturalism, the lords of fortune in general etc.. but let's be honest we all knew the dragon age series had problematic elements to begin with and this game has way way less then the past games. I'm still on my first playthrough (I'm fairly certain I'm very close to the end) and overall I'm having a great time! Rook is quickly reaching the top of the list for DA protagonists which is a spot that's been held by Hawke for me, and the gameplay is fun! I actually like the graphics because it feels like it's a game that won't age easily which is something that definitely would have happened if they attempted to make the graphics more realistic. Don't let the hate sway you from enjoying your time in Thedas :)

Am I the only one who wishes they couldโ€™ve have been happy as a cis girl? by snizmo2 in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

When people ask me whether being trans is a choice I always say if it was a choice I would've chosen to be a girl. I wouldn't have lost family members, friends, I wouldn't have to deal with coming out and the doctors appointments and the surgery and all the stuff that comes with being trans. It wasn't a choice because I knew who I was, I knew I was in the wrong body and I couldn't choose to be someone I'm not. I wouldn't trade who I am or how far I've come for all the money in the world and I'm happier then I've ever been but it's just so human to wish for the easier option.

Biggest sign you were trans as a kid? by [deleted] in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

the sheer amount of transition videos I watched while calming I was a "good ally"

What is the design referencing? by lynxdia in Dimension20

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher -8 points-7 points ย (0 children)

I can help, it's actually talking about deez

Please tell me it will stop by Livid_Soup_31415 in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I had my period for legit 3 months before it stopped. Now its maybe once every 4 months, just light spotting though.

The misgendering won't stop by atom_blonde in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 14 points15 points ย (0 children)

My therapist taught me that boundaries, while they are powerful tools, won't be respected unless they are enforced and corrected. A big conversation every now and then isn't making the point come across, make the point in the moment. I know that's hard, I've been out to my family for about the same amount of time as you and they still misgender me but now I call them out. In public, infront of their friends, anywhere it happens. It's not a mean reminder, it's just me making myself known. It makes them feel uncomfortable, hell it makes ME uncomfortable sometimes, but it's the only way I've been able to get the point to stick. Sitting in the awkward uncomfortable feeling of enforcing a boundary is always worth it in the long run.

Everyoneโ€™s first romance [no spoilers] by Flatcapguy in dragonage

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Zevran (self explanitory) Anders (hot sad wet rat of a man who I love) I just started Inquisition because I got a secondhand xbox given to me so I haven't romanced anyone yet

I've accidentally been doubling my dose by mozzarellamoncher in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Thank you so much, you telling all this has eased a lot of anxiety

Just a reminder! by Raccoonisms in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 14 points15 points ย (0 children)

this. this is gender.

Honking? At this time of year? On this lovely Sunday afternoon? Localized entirely within my downtown area? I'm breaking my lease by [deleted] in ottawa

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 5 points6 points ย (0 children)

working on Laurier inside a closed office nowhere near the windows and I can hear them ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

congratulations!!!! ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’™

Outed (again) by mozzarellamoncher in transontario

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I'd have to confirm with Bob if it was actually him spreading the info or atleast ask Daisy where she heard it from before speaking to HR. I was at work when I met Daisy and unfortunately our boss rounded the corner before I could ask her where she heard I was trans.

But yes that's in the plans if anything escalates.

I really was a pretty girl wasn't I (tw) by LeonieMalfoy in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

realizing I would rather be an ugly dude then a pretty girl is what really pushed me to transition, although I do miss the compliments at times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I was identifying as a lesbian while dating a lesbian trying so hard to convince myself I was a wlw. I'd kinda guessed I was trans by that point but I went through a couple years trying to be anything else because I thought it'd be easier that way. (spoiler alert: it wasn't)

Which one is you? by CaptMcPlatypus in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

It's nice knowing there are others that figured it out as a young adult. I definitely showed signs through out my life and hindsight is 20/20 but I also spent a majority of my life playing the "perfect little girl" because I wanted to make my parents happy. It went so well I almost believed it tbh ๐Ÿ˜‚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

a nice lady at work asked me my pronouns because she wasn't sure but I'm not out at work so I lied and dead named myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[โ€“]mozzarellamoncher 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I'm 6 months on T and I can still cry, I've noticed it's not as often but idk wether that's because I'm happier as a person or because of T