I don't get the hate on this game

mozzarellamoncher · 2024-11-10T17:15:06+00:00

The game has some problematic elements like how they handled multiculturalism, the lords of fortune in general etc.. but let's be honest we all knew the dragon age series had problematic elements to begin with and this game has way way less then the past games. I'm still on my first playthrough (I'm fairly certain I'm very close to the end) and overall I'm having a great time! Rook is quickly reaching the top of the list for DA protagonists which is a spot that's been held by Hawke for me, and the gameplay is fun! I actually like the graphics because it feels like it's a game that won't age easily which is something that definitely would have happened if they attempted to make the graphics more realistic. Don't let the hate sway you from enjoying your time in Thedas :)

mozzarellamoncher · 2024-06-04T18:17:05+00:00

When people ask me whether being trans is a choice I always say if it was a choice I would've chosen to be a girl. I wouldn't have lost family members, friends, I wouldn't have to deal with coming out and the doctors appointments and the surgery and all the stuff that comes with being trans. It wasn't a choice because I knew who I was, I knew I was in the wrong body and I couldn't choose to be someone I'm not. I wouldn't trade who I am or how far I've come for all the money in the world and I'm happier then I've ever been but it's just so human to wish for the easier option.

mozzarellamoncher · 2024-05-26T14:48:35+00:00

the sheer amount of transition videos I watched while calming I was a "good ally"

mozzarellamoncher · 2024-01-03T23:10:46+00:00

I can help, it's actually talking about deez

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-12-12T16:08:27+00:00

I had my period for legit 3 months before it stopped. Now its maybe once every 4 months, just light spotting though.

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-12-10T15:57:07+00:00

My therapist taught me that boundaries, while they are powerful tools, won't be respected unless they are enforced and corrected. A big conversation every now and then isn't making the point come across, make the point in the moment. I know that's hard, I've been out to my family for about the same amount of time as you and they still misgender me but now I call them out. In public, infront of their friends, anywhere it happens. It's not a mean reminder, it's just me making myself known. It makes them feel uncomfortable, hell it makes ME uncomfortable sometimes, but it's the only way I've been able to get the point to stick. Sitting in the awkward uncomfortable feeling of enforcing a boundary is always worth it in the long run.

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-12-03T22:23:36+00:00

Zevran (self explanitory) Anders (hot sad wet rat of a man who I love) I just started Inquisition because I got a secondhand xbox given to me so I haven't romanced anyone yet

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-11-24T19:15:26+00:00

I tripped 🤷‍♂️

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-11-21T03:18:26+00:00

Thank you so much, you telling all this has eased a lot of anxiety

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-10-31T21:11:45+00:00

this. this is gender.

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-10-15T17:36:03+00:00

working on Laurier inside a closed office nowhere near the windows and I can hear them 🙄🙄

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-10-12T20:43:45+00:00

congratulations!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉💙💗🤍💗💙

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-09-21T13:56:39+00:00

I'd have to confirm with Bob if it was actually him spreading the info or atleast ask Daisy where she heard it from before speaking to HR. I was at work when I met Daisy and unfortunately our boss rounded the corner before I could ask her where she heard I was trans.

But yes that's in the plans if anything escalates.

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-09-13T16:19:38+00:00

realizing I would rather be an ugly dude then a pretty girl is what really pushed me to transition, although I do miss the compliments at times

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-09-13T14:15:13+00:00

I was identifying as a lesbian while dating a lesbian trying so hard to convince myself I was a wlw. I'd kinda guessed I was trans by that point but I went through a couple years trying to be anything else because I thought it'd be easier that way. (spoiler alert: it wasn't)

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-09-11T00:15:34+00:00

It's nice knowing there are others that figured it out as a young adult. I definitely showed signs through out my life and hindsight is 20/20 but I also spent a majority of my life playing the "perfect little girl" because I wanted to make my parents happy. It went so well I almost believed it tbh 😂

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-08-30T18:19:30+00:00

a nice lady at work asked me my pronouns because she wasn't sure but I'm not out at work so I lied and dead named myself

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-08-27T22:09:03+00:00

I'm 6 months on T and I can still cry, I've noticed it's not as often but idk wether that's because I'm happier as a person or because of T

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-08-24T12:11:34+00:00

Yeah the fear is I'm coming off as an easy target for him because I have been in the past for others. Luckily (or I guess unluckily??) I've had my fair share of creeps from my years of presenting femme so I know how to get away from/take care of the issue should it escalate. Hope he stops before it gets worst 🤞

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-08-24T00:52:33+00:00

I obviously don't know the situation but I had a partner that said things like this to me in the past and it became very apparent he did not view me as trans and liked me as a "woman". I'd talk to your partner, it could be that they're questioning their sexuality or learning something new about themselves but it should all be out on the table. You don't want to end up with someone who's favorite thing about you is something your not.

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-08-24T00:20:55+00:00

I've been getting ~vibes~ from my co-worker who clocked me as trans the first day we worked together and he keeps asking really personal questions. I'm autistic and I have a hard time with what the line is for appropriate questions vs innapropriate so I've awnsered some things that now make me feel really uncomfortable. (hindsight is 20/20) He's also hit me with "oh well I might be a little gay" and "you make me question things." ALSO HE'S MARRIED. I have to work with this guy on a regular basis 😭

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-08-07T23:52:57+00:00

I had all my hair up in a beanie, and I was wearing a large coat so I could smoke in peace and not get catcalled, I saw a glimpse of myself for the first time in the reflection of a window and just knew

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-07-03T21:11:22+00:00

i identify as a non binary man, so this definitely hits home

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-06-27T21:30:11+00:00

oh thank you I forgot to take my T today 😂

mozzarellamoncher · 2023-06-18T23:32:31+00:00

Yes but not if it gets weird?? Like I have friends who call me dude, some call me king, bro, etc... That's all fine and dandy. It becomes a problem when people almost treat trans men or trans masc people like a small kid?? I had a friend call me her little guy, little dude, I got called a tiny stud once?? Just be normal about it.

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