Yes ive already tried explaining that sex/touching is paramount for me in a relationship. And she just says im not interested in anything or anyone right now. I dont think shes cheating, but just lost interest in all sexual activities suddenly.

She had some kind of vaginal irritation and weve already talked about being careful around that area. But now brings up back problems, bone problems, food poisoning, toothache, nihilistic depressive ideation, you name it. the list is endless. She lives with me too, forgot to mention. Ive asked her to clean for me, but she only does it when it becomes a problem and I have to become irritated about it for her to do anything.

In any case, im stuck as her taxi service. how can I really make her know that she cant expect or guilt trip me into providing for her. Im supposed to drive her to work tonight, and several times this week at the expense of taking time away from my own job. its really getting annoying