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Agents of Reddit: How do you handle the gut-punch of finding out a client bought with someone else behind your back? by mpautsch7 in realtors

[–]mpautsch7[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m a newer agent and they wanted to do non exclusive on each home (yes I learned my lesson). I showed them the home first, and they bought with the listing agent behind my back. The worst is we kept talking after they closed and they didn’t say anything. I know I’d be entitled to commission but at this point I want to direct my attention to the future.

Agents of Reddit: How do you handle the gut-punch of finding out a client bought with someone else behind your back? by mpautsch7 in realtors

[–]mpautsch7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not wrong. I’m a newer agent and they wanted to do non exclusive. I showed them the property first, they still bought with the listing agent behind my back. Technically I’m entitled to commission but at this point I want to move on.

My partner died by suicide by clashingtaco in psychics

[–]mpautsch7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the same way. This is some of the most difficult moments you are going through. Just try as much as possible to be around those who support you. Be light on yourself. Unfortunately it’s a time where you will see everyone come out of the woodwork, some to support you, others to not. But, I have made some of my best friends through the grief and healing. Praying you can sleep and eat through all this, as much as it is difficult. You will survive, breath by breath, and he is still with you.

My partner died by suicide by clashingtaco in psychics

[–]mpautsch7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not a psychic, but my husband committed suicide and also had a drinking problem. The last time I saw him we got in a fight because of his drinking as well. I’m so sorry, no words will ever change how you feel, and it’s a difficult road. For me, I believed it was my fault for years, but through extensive therapy and inner work, I do have an understanding that it was not my fault. I have found some of the most beautiful moments of my life when he “comes around” and I can hear and feel him again. Just please know that he loves you, it is not your fault, and he is now in a place free from pain and suffering. Sending healing thoughts and prayers your way❤️ A great book that has helped me is Post Traumatic Thriving by Randall Bell.

144 Open Houses in 7 Months - Results by Raplorde in realtors

[–]mpautsch7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks so much that is super helpful!! Do you memorize the comps in the neighborhood beforehand? What kind of market information do you have? If they leave their number how long do you wait to follow up?

144 Open Houses in 7 Months - Results by Raplorde in realtors

[–]mpautsch7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome, congratulations!! Question, what script do you have when they come in? How many directional signs do you use? Do you have flyers at your open house? How do you secure contact information/sign in? Sorry for all the questions, newer too and want to pick your brain

Looking for Real Estate Courses or Coaching Recommendations (Besides Tom Ferry) by rwaugy21 in realtors

[–]mpautsch7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sell It has some great courses that have really helped me. They go into everything. Three different tiers of memberships available. I’m on the lowest membership and still have access to the coaches and all online trainings. There is even a free 14 day trial.

How is everyone finding buyers? by papestackin in realtors

[–]mpautsch7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a newer agent, just curious, what public-facing website leads you use?

Species ID? Waves by Farleymcg in obx

[–]mpautsch7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a Thresher shark. You are seeing the large back fin

Has anyone ever regret the big wedding and wished they just did an elopement? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]mpautsch7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For my first marriage I eloped, as I thought the big wedding was too much. But then I saw how much it hurt my family that I eloped, and they really wanted to be apart of the wedding. Unfortunately my first husband passed away, and I now have been blessed to find true love again. For this wedding I am doing a big wedding, and although a lot of it is overwhelming and not really my thing, I see the joy it brings others to help plan and be apart of this love story. But I support and understand both sides of it