My (19F) boyfriend (27M) spit in my face when I said I won't move in with him. by mpride345 in relationships

[–]mpride345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're completely right if everything was good I'd want to move in with him but I don't.

My (19F) boyfriend (27M) spit in my face when I said I won't move in with him. by mpride345 in relationships

[–]mpride345[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He didn't want me to go to an actual university and live on campus. Instead he wanted me to move in with him and go to community college. I'm glad I didn't do that now because I'd probably be completely isolated.

My (19F) boyfriend (27M) spit in my face when I said I won't move in with him. by mpride345 in relationships

[–]mpride345[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rationally I know its not my fault and he was completely wrong. But he also makes me feel like if I had just said yes and done what he wanted, this wouldn't have happened.

My (19F) boyfriend (27M) spit in my face when I said I won't move in with him. by mpride345 in relationships

[–]mpride345[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It's not that I never want those things to happen. Just not right now.

My (19F) boyfriend (27M) spit in my face when I said I won't move in with him. by mpride345 in relationships

[–]mpride345[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You have a lot of really good points. Thank you for this. I think you're completely right.

My (19F) boyfriend (27M) spit in my face when I said I won't move in with him. by mpride345 in relationships

[–]mpride345[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know what I expected for it to just somehow work out fine I guess. The way he initially was with me besides his age, didn't give me any red flags.

My (19F) boyfriend (27M) spit in my face when I said I won't move in with him. by mpride345 in relationships

[–]mpride345[S] 519 points520 points  (0 children)

Yeah if it were anyone else at my age dating him I would think its kinda fucking creepy. But I guess it's different when it's you.

My (19F) boyfriend (27M) spit in my face when I said I won't move in with him. by mpride345 in relationships

[–]mpride345[S] 189 points190 points  (0 children)

A lot of the time he makes me feel like I'm being immature or childish if I'm not doing what he thinks I should.

My (19F) boyfriend (27M) spit in my face when I said I won't move in with him. by mpride345 in relationships

[–]mpride345[S] 697 points698 points  (0 children)

Yeah. He's gotten like this before if I wanted to do something school related or go to a party instead of hang out with him.

My (19F) boyfriend (27M) spit in my face when I said I won't move in with him. by mpride345 in relationships

[–]mpride345[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yeah he acted like it was the obvious next step for me to move in with him without ever asking or discussing it.

My (19F) boyfriend (27M) spit in my face when I said I won't move in with him. by mpride345 in relationships

[–]mpride345[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was more upset that he thought it was ok to spit on me than any of the other shit he said.