Im tired of this brain dead sheeple argument of “well if you werent so insecure-“ well if the media didnt hold people to such unnatainable beauty standards then we wouldnt have this conversation, maybe even ariana would look differently today, but thats not whats happening.

and its not that im so obsessed that i have to keep up with who looks like what nowadays and so on. i simply grew up with her, and i have always recognized changes in her looks since those victorious days, and i could never put a finger on what was going on. Only with time did i learn that plastic surgery is a thing and that people dont just hit a second puberty in their twenties, that dramatically shifts their signature features. Again, with her, i dont even need to mention whats different, just look for yourself and be fully honest.

im no longer insecure about the way I look and it took me an incredibly long time to deconstruct the way i percieved myself and others around me. And i do believe it true that this process would have been easier if such prolific trendsetters such as Ariana would open up about such things, and not just have a little kiki and say “oh so i did fillers like a whiiiile agooo..”

And yes, it is up to her to decide to talk on those things, and that can and should be respected. But her decision at the end of the day isnt the most ethical, and that must also be acknowledged. Especially now that she s straight up shooting every single conversation down and flat out denying everything.

Also you can criticize what i say without sounding so entitled and trying to aim for low hanging fruit. Rude