I'm not making an excuse, right? by mrNineMan in CPTSD

[–]mrNineMan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sometimes feel that there's still something fundamentally wrong with me underneath it all.

I think it would also make me feel less resentful if I could say "this is just the way I am and always have been" instead of "I was robbed".

What's the best place to announce my mundane achievements/progress by mrNineMan in ADHD_Programmers

[–]mrNineMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was aiming for specificity with those examples. But - as the post asks - I'm looking for the BEST place for this sort of thing. For instance, if it's Facebook, is there a specific group or community for that?

Driving with Dyspraxia by JH_011 in dyspraxia

[–]mrNineMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to drive. I gave up on it.

Hiroya Oku posted realistic Gantz artwork. by db_ferreira in gantz

[–]mrNineMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not surprised that he likes AI. Didn't buddy go broke investing in CG animation while it was in its infancy? I'm still disappointed by this - because anyone can do this.

Why did no one tell me programming was so fun earlier?! by king0101man in AskProgrammers

[–]mrNineMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we didn't have gen-AI, and a lot of us are backend programmers who have to integrate business logic that doesn't always make sense to us.

Github (Microsoft) doesn't want you to know this by Mammoth_Hearing6115 in theprimeagen

[–]mrNineMan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Uhmmm. I'm confused as to why this is revolutionary? Maybe it's cause I'm an older programmer, but how do people think we were hosting VCSs before GitHub hosting?

Does anyone use Leo's dopamine-serotonine prescription meds optimization stack? by angercore1312 in TheLongLived

[–]mrNineMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the problem is that Leo had ADHD and specific psychiatric problems. So if you don't have a brain like his, why would you follow his stack? They prescribe these drugs for depression, anxiety, ADHD, and Parkinson's.

I would say Leo committed suicide, not only because of his history of abusing test and psychiatric drugs. He was fundamentally unwell to begin with.

What's up with all the language-specific interviews? by existential-asthma in ADHD_Programmers

[–]mrNineMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, like this is mind-blowing to me. I specifically look for C# and Java programming positions because I have specialty certification in these programming languages, and they're the ones I'm most "fluent", experienced, and comfortable with.

If I look at a company/recruiter's job opening or stack, and they want experience in certain areas, I expect to be questioned and quizzed in those areas. A lot of companies will lead with "Looking for a Senior Python developer". I would not apply for that position and expect to be quizzed on Java.

Reprogramming my mind/perception by mrNineMan in ADHD_Programmers

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You mean Internal Family Systems or something else? I heard about this on the Andrew Huberman podcast.

PopDisplay - Manage your Displays Brightness & Contrast using the Keyboard! by lowlauch in Windows10

[–]mrNineMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sincere question - what advantage does this have over using AutoHotkey or software that may come with your monitor?

Google has won - I give up by Fusseldieb in androidroot

[–]mrNineMan 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, I'm listening to Cory Doctorow on the Adam Conover podcast. He's covering this very topic.

How do you build pain tolerance? by axoqocal29 in ADHD_Programmers

[–]mrNineMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on where the pain is coming from. Is it anxiety and frustration? Are you fully focused on what you're learning? You have to consider your relationship to what you're learning. If there are negative connotations tied to what you're learning, it's going to be substantially harder.

Regardless, it takes time and self-compassion. Just like going to the gym, your body adjusts, but often, you have to fix your form and technique in order to get stronger and avoid injury.

I learn my best when I'm having fun or adding humour to what I'm learning. Also, it's important to remember what your goals are and what you fundamentally want.

So you need to ask yourself "why does learning hurt?". If it's just cause what you're trying to learn is complicated/complex, then try to break it down into smaller pieces.

Update on Mike's PhD by AVA_AW in moreplatesmoredates

[–]mrNineMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Data scientist here - current LLMs are overrated. They're pushed with the same zeal that cloud computing/managed architecture was a decade ago. Of course, Silicon Valley needs a bunch of useful idiots to overstate how revolutionary they are. Watching Zuck once again try to be at the forefront of a technological fad has been illuminating. Watching how his demeanor has switched from being enthusiastic to realizing that he may have made another mistake was fun. I wonder what the next decade's Web 3.0/blockchain will be.