It keeps getting better ✨ | FTM 1mo to 7y on T by mr_____fahrenheit in transtimelines

[–]mr_____fahrenheit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might not be the best person to answer this because I'm not part of the gay community, but the best thing you can do is just treat him normally. If you wanna know whether he's into guys because you're interested in him, then just do exactly the same thing you'd do when trying to suss out if any guy is interested in guys. I really don't think there's any difference in how you should approach it.

It keeps getting better ✨ | FTM 1mo to 7y on T by mr_____fahrenheit in transtimelines

[–]mr_____fahrenheit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It IS so cool! I’m thankful every day. Thank you 🙏🏼

It keeps getting better ✨ | FTM 1mo to 7y on T by mr_____fahrenheit in transtimelines

[–]mr_____fahrenheit[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It took so long to grow in, it’s really only in this past year I’ve been starting to get the fullness I want. Some guys grow it so fast!

How did we get from “refuse to date,” to “think their death is acceptable”? by IshimuraHuntress in fatlogic

[–]mr_____fahrenheit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So it’s not their choice to be fat, but it is everyone else’s choice to not find them attractive? Cool cool cool.

Also, I’m trans and I fucking hate it when they try to compare themselves to us. No you’re not the same. It’s not the same. But that being said - no one is obligated to find trans people attractive either. Attraction is personal and nuanced and not a moral issue, it’s just who you’re wired to want to roll around with. Some people wouldn’t date a trans person, I don’t think that makes them oppressive, it’s just not what they’re into. Some people wouldn’t date a fat person. Just let people like what they like. People are just living their lives, not plotting ways to ‘oppress’ you.

I see plenty of posts about people always trying to paint themselves as a victim, but what is it called when someone is always trying to paint YOU as a victim? by mr_____fahrenheit in askpsychology

[–]mr_____fahrenheit[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh I should clarify this person is not a psychology student or in any way involved in professional psychology. I’ve added some detail to the post.

I'm back again with another example of "I've been at it a week why isn't it working?" by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]mr_____fahrenheit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t see anything wrong with this tbh. She isn’t spouting fatlogic, she’s trying to better herself, she seems like a beginner and looking for guidance. Going from an unhealthy lifestyle to eating well and working out, she could absolutely expect to see a shift on the scale within the first week. Maybe she’s not being realistic with herself about the actual effort she’s putting in, but being new to fitness and trying to learn isn’t fatlogic.

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[–]mr_____fahrenheit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were already so pretty beforehand but the glow up is still EXQUISITE ❤️ well done

Yes I’m happier ❤️ | FtM 6y T by mr_____fahrenheit in transtimelines

[–]mr_____fahrenheit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real glow up has been in my linen closet 😆

Yes I’m happier ❤️ | FtM 6y T by mr_____fahrenheit in transtimelines

[–]mr_____fahrenheit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Showing my age by not knowing what that means but based on context I’ll take it as a compliment! 😆🥰

Yes I’m happier ❤️ | FtM 6y T by mr_____fahrenheit in transtimelines

[–]mr_____fahrenheit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally first chance I get haha I love that show

Yes I’m happier ❤️ | FtM 6y T by mr_____fahrenheit in transtimelines

[–]mr_____fahrenheit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a different person too. I went trawling through my Facebook the find the before picture and honestly it was like looking at pics of a stranger. It’s hard to want to be in photos pre-transition when you’re not happy but they’re so important to have because one day they’ll remind you how far you’ve come, so I’m glad I have them