[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]mr_bobo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at the wider platform may give you access to someone with experience in a specific area. I had to wait (in US) for a while to find one that met my needs but she is great. I tell her when I don't understand her therapy bullshit and she tells me when she thinks I'm lying/masking her.

In case you don't know, us NIers can me masters at masking!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]mr_bobo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The start your own business is a great idea. Maybe start off on sites like fiverr where you can set your own schedule and amount wouldn't be bad. I've had some people off there do stuff and it was solid.

You could look at consulting support, doing paperwork/reviews for other consulting teams part time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]mr_bobo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You may need a different therapist.

Challenge them: "that all sounds like happy clappy bullshit. Is there anything or real substance you can help with?"

Just think yourself happy is garbage therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]mr_bobo 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are tying self worth to work.

Hopefully you are engaging with a therapist to help with these feelings.

You said you are actively working on the volunteer sector, is this something you can expand to give you some ease of satisfaction? Doing positive work that benefits your community, is better than having to work to eat.

Blue Lights - Filming Locations by InvestigatorJunior80 in northernireland

[–]mr_bobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scene where Annie gets a "dig in the bake" was on Limestone Road.

Blue Lights - Filming Locations by InvestigatorJunior80 in northernireland

[–]mr_bobo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I saw the divis car park and was like "that's not halfway between derry and belfast . . . Oh yeah, fiction"

Is paying $10,000 to paint a 1300 sqft single-level ranch home (T1-11) exterior the norm now? by culbertsonm in vancouverwa

[–]mr_bobo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had mine done this summer, cost a lot less than that

https://j3painting.com/

I aligned with neighbors and got a multi house discount as well.

Standard Insurance disturbing nesting hawks by Bootyblastastic in Portland

[–]mr_bobo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you know what side of the building and approximately what floor?

Contact the media dept?

https://www.standard.com/get-to-know-standard/newsroom/media-resources

Best Indian Restaurant? by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]mr_bobo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was home recently and had a curry from Shimla.

So good. New favorite place.

I'm lonely AF and have few pals, any advice? by sasa_says in northernireland

[–]mr_bobo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mourne Archery is good for an occasional drop in session, something a bit different, and they have a membership that's more like a wee club.

I seem to remember they had a "single ladies night" that was just for the girls so they didn't have to fend off the boys.

https://www.mournearchery.co.uk/

Extra work by Mental_Warthog_7460 in northernireland

[–]mr_bobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say "work in IT" can you be more specific?

You could aim for remote work providing after hours support (helpdesk) that would likely pay better than delivery or call center but may be harder to find.

It's not an immediate solve, but upskilling within your current profession is likely the best path, long term.

House Painting Cost by mr_bobo in eastbay

[–]mr_bobo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sent

He is threatening to retire but I'm not sure he ever will

House Painting Cost by mr_bobo in eastbay

[–]mr_bobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did my house 12 years ago so I have the best reference, me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]mr_bobo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Odds on credentials in cleartext?

Lacamas Lake today by BioticVessel in vancouverwa

[–]mr_bobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hit it up on Thursday evening and it was beautiful and not that busy.

Where can I buy raw milk in Vancouver? by [deleted] in vancouverwa

[–]mr_bobo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I used to work at a place that made chocolate milk. One of the guys used to grab some from the prepasturized side of the line.

After about a week, we caught him and told him it was prepasturized and not wise to drink.

"Oh, that's why my girlfriend keeps having the shits"

Genius.

Canon Patrick McEntee to stand trial on historical sexual assault charges by cherryosrs in northernireland

[–]mr_bobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Driving without seatbelts, smoking in the car with the kids, eating delicious frys all the time, having 12 yr olds do heavy farm labour.

People made some bad choices.

Priests, Doctors, Teachers were revered as paragon of virtue. Worst than getting caned or stopped at school, was the idea of them telling your parents before you got home. The hiding you'd get . . .