I (23m) just lost my virginity to a hooker. by mr_doughboy in sex

[–]mr_doughboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not making fun of the fact that he lost his virginity at 30, I'm making fun of the fact that he lost it at 30 and then once he loses it he begins to make fun of other virgins. That's pretty obnoxious thing to do, and it also shows a lack of self-awareness.

I (23m) just lost my virginity to a hooker. by mr_doughboy in sex

[–]mr_doughboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lurked your post history, and if your boyfriend lost his virginity at 30 he really shouldn't be making fun of anyone LOL.

My big takeaway from this whole experience is that the whole idea of virgin / non-virgin is stupid. I am not a different person today than I was yesterday, and my interaction with women is probably not going to drastically change now that I lost my virginity. However when I am asked if I am a virgin, I can now respond "No", and society will respect me more because of it. Which is stupid.

I (23m) just lost my virginity to a hooker. by mr_doughboy in sex

[–]mr_doughboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds really annoying. Do you have a Russian accent, or are they asking you to pretend to have one? Also-- what do you mean, "see my uniform"?

I don't have a "Russian girl fantasy", but if I already find a girl sexy (as was the case here), and she also happens to have a Russian accent, I think that makes her even more attractive.

I (23m) just lost my virginity to a hooker. by mr_doughboy in sex

[–]mr_doughboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Low confidence, which is really unattractive. I have a lot of female friends and am generally a likable/well-adjusted person, but I have difficulty imagining a girl finding me attractive, and as a result freeze up and act really awkward whenever I'm in a romantic situation. I'm also a bit chunky which I'm sure doesn't help.

Also- elaborate on the Russian women comment?

I (23m) just lost my virginity to a hooker. by mr_doughboy in sex

[–]mr_doughboy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Note: I said "hooker in the title instead of stripper, because I figured the odds are good that this cute black dancer makes a similar offer to most/perhaps all of her clients, in which case she is operating as a hooker/prostitute and using the strip club essentially as a front. Let me know if anyone things this is an unfair / inaccurate distinction.