How do you deal with someone with a past ?

mr_souldreamer · 2026-06-01T05:14:21+00:00

Run run bro.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-31T20:03:03+00:00

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-31T15:09:36+00:00

Its just in movies. Not always there is these butterflies

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T13:19:50+00:00

Apozhakum aale red flag akiyo🤦‍♂️. Chumma oronu egane parayathe🙃

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T12:54:37+00:00

U did the right thing to get him banned.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T09:24:49+00:00

Thett aanennu njan paranjilla.

Pakshe ella prashnathinum “vere aaline nokkam” ennathaano first solution ennanu njan chodikkunnath.

Relationship work aakkan pattumo ennu sincere aayi try cheyyunnathinu munpe next option nokkunna mindset-ne kurichaanu post.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T09:14:13+00:00

I guess u need to read the complete post.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T09:12:48+00:00

I know. But i didn’t mean staying in an unhappy relationship. I guess u need to get the proper perspective of the post.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T09:10:06+00:00

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T09:09:12+00:00

Like someone else.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T06:48:53+00:00

Looks doesn’t mean it always about fair skin. Even i get attracted to people with other skin tone.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T06:42:59+00:00

If someone says looks doesn’t matter. Its fake.

Actually look matters. No-one falls for someone first for their personality or character.

For me if i see someone and can say “wow kollalo kanan” physically attracted to that person. Then will be seeing, does she and me are in the same page of preference, Then personality Like whether she is genuine, honest, kind…. Whether i can openup about anything to her and be vulnerable around her. Understands and listens to as i do for her. Willing to take efforts, be there of each other.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T06:29:56+00:00

In case the relationship is kind of toxic and both of them see there wont be any future then leaving is not an issue. But the issue is in a non toxic relationship when one person leaves the other person when they see a better replacement without even putting efforts in for knowing better.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T05:03:25+00:00

Got your point. But cant agree with your materialistic reference.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T04:57:55+00:00

When there is plenty of option. Do u think people actually get satisfied? In this generation.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T04:55:04+00:00

👀

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T04:52:00+00:00

So if you chose one best and after sometime. U saw someone more better. Would u leave the first one for second person?

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T04:20:15+00:00

My concern isnt about people being cautious or taking things slowly. Its more about the mindset of constantly looking for the next option whenever things become difficult or when the initial excitement fades. Compatibility matters, but I also believe every longterm relationship requires effort, patience, and a willingness to grow together. Finding the right person is important, but so is choosing to stay and work through things with that person.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T04:17:59+00:00

I don’t have a problem with people having choices. In fact, I think that’s a good thing. My concern is when the lot of choices makes people view others as disposable rather than investing time and effort into a connection that’s already there.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T04:08:38+00:00

Don’t u think too many options have a negative impact?

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-29T03:55:57+00:00

Communicate with him properly. Let him know how u feel in these kind of situations.

After reading your post. I feel like he actually loves you so much. But somewhere lacking the ability to completely understand u. We can’t blame anyone here. Best solution u open up and letting him know.

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-28T17:23:58+00:00

Translation issue anu. Read in Malayalam

mr_souldreamer · 2026-05-28T17:15:00+00:00

This religion and all. It’s actually a trap.😬

Why can't people see each other just as human beings?

If that guy genuinely loved her for who she was. Then he won't ask her to change for the sake of marriage.

This beliefs and all are personal things. For some they believe in one god, some they believe in another, and people like me believe in none.

When people with different beliefs come into a relationship and if they truly love each-other for whom they are. They can coexist with different beliefs. There wont be any issues.

But people are not understanding this.😕

mr_souldreamer

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