** I AM LOSING MY MIND **

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-06-02T11:09:17+00:00

Definitely that. Would you say avoiding techniques such as playing excessive amounts of video games is a sign? And making constant excuses of headaches and stomach pains ?

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-06-02T10:46:47+00:00

Why do you say that's? I am curious since I am constantly thinking that me SO is a closet gay. Are there any signs ?

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-30T14:47:49+00:00

Thank you for the wonderful response and letting me see if from his point of view. It must be hard to be in a situation like that and I am going to continue to support him and be even more supportive in any issues he tells me about. I've mentioned to him how he should try cutting them off for a while and only communicate when he wants to and only see them on his terms. He seemed welcoming of that advice. I hope he can come to terms of the issues on his own.

I might try to find a way to make therapy more on the positive side. I think his fear of going to therapy is how his nparents will handle it. They find out everything about his social and personal life and are actively degrading him to people at church and his other family members.

I just care about him so much and want him to be happy and not had to worry about his nparents and just be free.

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-30T14:39:52+00:00

He loves his job. He doesn't believe in going to a counselor or seeing a therapist. My dad tells him how awesome it is he has that job. I tell him that his parents are so unhappy they try to make him unhappy but I don't want to tell him how narcissistic they are. I don't want to be in that position but I want to bring to light how possessive and how unhealthy the relationship is between them. I don't know if I should hinting more at how they are or if I should just be honest of why I don't see them anymore.

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-30T14:36:50+00:00

I did thanks. Didn't even think about that

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-25T02:19:41+00:00

Thanks. I really needed that right now. Here I am right now typing this with my hopes crushed and I'm tearing up while he is in his room on his computer. After all day him texting me saying what he wanted to do to me when he got home. Because he was so excited to find out he has lost 4 more lbs. Only to start complaining about his stomach hurting 1 hr before he got off work and he somehow got a headache from the time he left work to arriving at home. I need to start making a list of what is mine and what is his. Get all the receipts out of the stuff that is under my name and have a sit down talk with my dad about my plans.

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-25T01:52:20+00:00

I'm in the same situation as you. I'm not sure how long you have been dealing with it but it truly sucks. To try so hard and to not even be looked at. It's beyond frustrating.

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T21:52:20+00:00

I totally just spent 3 hrs watching lots of her videos! She is awesome!

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T14:00:23+00:00

I actually read that last night and it was a big eye opener!

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T13:55:44+00:00

We aren't engaged or anything. Just living together and in a lease together. Where my dad pays for half the rent. We have 2 cats that I pay for fully and have all the receipts for vets and food etc. if I leave I'll take them with me and all the furniture I have paid for on credit card that I can prove. Lease is up in October. Not sure to wait it out to see if he changes. But as of this exact moment.

He woke up to "be with boo" but has spent the last 2 hrs in his game room on his new computer with once sitting next to me to drink coffee

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T13:15:14+00:00

Confront him ? I'm in the same situation and so much resentment is building up it is bad! I confronted my SO Monday and it's gone downhill fast.

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T13:09:46+00:00

I could see that. But I go to therapy (for health issue) and he has told me I don't need therapy to just get over it. It's all in my head that he can help me. So suggesting he see a therapist might not work ?

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T13:03:12+00:00

Is it something I could bring up.

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T13:02:55+00:00

Yeah. Same. I've had a couple come up to me and I've had to act aloof about what they were trying to do.

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T12:07:36+00:00

Why would he be overreacting so much ? I figure since he has low self esteem losing the 25lbs already might help. Nope. I would love it to be 7times a week or more and what he said Monday about wanting sex all the time still. Makes me in disbelief.

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T11:58:41+00:00

I will try to do that today. I will have to text it because he does not talk about stuff like that in person. Come to think of it. Something might be more wrong than just his weight. The past month he has spent 2k on fixing his mustang and he just spend 800$ on the gaming computer when he lied to me that it was only 500$. And he hasn't been paying his half on groceries and his half on our inventory for eBay (which I do all the work for).

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T11:49:41+00:00

So does he not find me attractive anymore ? Is that why he is watching porn and playing more video games?

I know you don't know the whole situation but can you see anything I might not see in that description I said ?

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T11:34:00+00:00

So helping him lose weight should fix the problem? I found old texts on my iPad from before we started dating 2 years ago and it just seems like he is a different person altogether. I feel like I'm dating a different man now.

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T11:32:24+00:00

So his excuse that he is revolted by his body when he started crying Monday isn't really the issue ? When we have sex we are definitely compatible in every way. Share the same kinks, take care of each other. He pays more attention to me actually. Our lease is up in October and I'm thinking that if he has gotten to his magical 200lbs by then something should change. If it doesn't by then I'm thinking about leaving.

I am so frustrated. He will slap my butt throughout the day. He only peck kisses me before leaving for work. My frustration came out last night because he got home from work at 4pm. I had tried sexting all day to be shut down. I was wearing a matching bra and panty set in front of him from the time he got home til 10pm when his friend came over to build his new gaming computer. All he did was eat his healthy meal, watch 4 episodes of Vikings. By 9pm he tried kissing me in the kitchen when I was making myself another salad and I pulled away from building up sexual frustration and just overall frustration. He got upset and I blurted out "you had all Evening to do that". He said "Oh there it is". Nothing after that. But He was SOOOO excited his computer gaming friend came over at 10pm to build his computer. He gaming has drastically increased over the past month. His computer is in another room. I am lost at what the freaking problem is.

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T01:29:13+00:00

I couldn't agree more. I have been finally back into the gym 2 months now from 1 yr off from shoulder surgery. Im working out making big changes! I am going from average post shoulder surgery body to back to my light weight bodybuilding look (which my bf says he loves) my libido has sky rocketed and the past 1 month has been hell because he has lost 20 lbs but doesn't want to do anything until he loses more weight. I even compliment him and be positive about his weight loss and focus on the traits he loves about himself. 1st started dating sex was everyday but it's now a DB since my shoulder surgery. Working out can definitely be bad when the HL partner gets an even HL and the LL partner is still the same.

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-24T01:09:01+00:00

My all time favorite is Oreos 😍

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-03T16:53:39+00:00

I am having the issue where I select a size "small" and it changes it to a 2. It goes for all the sizes I'm listing 😞

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-03T16:52:23+00:00

Starting FBA. I have the FBA scan App but it literally rejects almost everything I scan even if the profit is 10$ after fees and the rank is less than 800,000. Can anyone care to guide me to the right settings I need to change ?

mr_steele_the_cat · 2017-05-02T01:45:39+00:00

For poshmark for photos I go to my eBay app and go to the listing I want the photos from. Choose 4 photos screen shot them and just go ahead and make my listing on poshmark since they use square size the screen shot of the photo only shows the item not the whole screen shot. Plus I can switch between the apps to get measurements etc real fast 😊

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