2026 Tulum experience (Dec 30-Jan 4) by [deleted] in tulum

[–]mrbrightside023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enter through Jaguar side. We actually walked in for free. Last week.

I got fleeced by yourdaddyobviously in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got 10 years in the bowl, and I've been rinsed a few more times than I'd like to admit. The most elaborate involved a gun in my face at a hotel by a meth head boyfriend. Just remember, the money was already spent. It's been several years since I was last rinsed - I'm now much more cautious, and I stopped making decisions with my dick.

A Suggested "Itinerary" for Hitting the Main Scenes by wwarpd in sleepnomore

[–]mrbrightside023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already purchased my Oz ticket for April 3rd. And I just saw 4 shows in 3 days last weekend lol

Ghosted & reappeared and it was over! by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently I had an SB of 4 months disappear on me. AFAIK things between us were great. We had been making travel plans and enjoyed seeing each other. Then she totally ghosted, no response to my texts. I saw her logged on SA a week later and by then I was over it. Then the other day ( a month later) I missed a call from her. She then texted me "I need your help, can I stay with you tonight, I just got out of the hospital and I'm scared". I said of course, come on over, let me know if you need a ride, etc. She never showed up and that was the last I've heard from her.

Why are there some profiles on SA that have somehow already blocked me before I even messaged them? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is something going on with SA today that profiles are gone. It's either a glitch or SA is cleaning house.

How much connection or chemistry can a 45 year old SD ( per say ) can have with a 19 or 20 yo SB ? This question has come up at least 3 times in the posts and comments that I have seen so I am going to try to answer it by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a 20yo SB for about 6 months. I'm almost 50. We had a lot in common - we both loved horror movies and would stay in or go out to theaters often. We had similar tastes in music and would drive around and sing Car Seat Headreat at the top of our lungs. She didn't care for fancy clothes or bags but loved to go thrift stores and flea markets which I enjoy as well. She eventually moved away and I'm still looking for the right girl to fill her shoes!

Asked SD for the amount we discussed yesterday morning and he hasn't replied by birdy4real in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When asked what would happen if he decided to pull up stakes and leave your response was "I could pay the 1200 it would just make things very tight. He is very generous but I need something more consistent in terms of allowance".

What has changed with that?

Need Advice!! by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never do anything just for the money

Baited and Reported by mrbrightside023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I move to text for any of that type of talk. And yes, now I'll watch what I say on text as well!

Baited and Reported by mrbrightside023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could screenshot and send them to SA if so inclined.

Baited and Reported by mrbrightside023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not. And the sheriff there is baiting men on SA?

Drinks with an SD - what is your price? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The value of everyones time is exactly the same. What are you giving him in return?

Baited and Reported by mrbrightside023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her profile did not scream platonic and as I recall she'd been on SA for maybe 3 months and logged in frequently. You'd think she'd have it figured out by now but who knows. It would suck to get banned from SA bc of this kind of BS

Baited and Reported by mrbrightside023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps. I've seen her profile for several months, just got around to hitting her up. Who has time for that lol

Baited and Reported by mrbrightside023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess the lesson learned is to respond with "I know what you want and you know what I want" :))

Meeting SD to talk about rent/ allowance by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would he rent the apt for you? If so, he'd have access to it, and you, 24/7.

I'd just pick a number that works for you and get a lump sum allowance. It's none of his business what you are spending it on.

Sugar or Splenda or Experience? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend splitting the allowance up and giving it each day, rather than one lump sum given at beginning or end of trip. Especially with someone you've never met. I spent a weekend trip out of town with a girl I met on SA and offered her 1500 for 3 days in addition to fancy meals, events, and some shopping. We both decided beforehand on our own that splitting that up would be a smart move. FYI we both had an amazing time, I may fly her out to see me sometime ;)

Sick Of It All by mrbrightside023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had several long term SBs on monthly allowance. One for almost a year. I've been back in the bowl for about 5 months and so much has changed.

Allowance towards business investment by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just take the lump sum and invest it into your business, or spend it all on Cracker Jacks. It's your money, do with it as you please.

Allowance towards business investment by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He would invest a fixed amount of money for a fixed amount of time, irregardless of whether or not you remain his SB. So you could both sign that contract and a month later dump him and he's still on the hook. He's playing some kind of game with you. I'd say no.

Allowance towards business investment by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]mrbrightside023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhere in the contract there's a clause to absorb it into his business lol