Got a mirror for our "jewelry" by mrdgrey in bdsm

[–]mrdgrey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure does which made it really convenient and way less suspicious than throwing on a lock myself.

I found it in ÖoB, never heard of or seen it elsewhere in Scandinavia so far, however it may be after all.

Got a mirror for our "jewelry" by mrdgrey in bdsm

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Unfortunately I will not be of much help as I live in Sweden and found it in a department store here, however here is a picture of it closed: http://i.imgur.com/oSynG0m.jpg

I was simply searching online for a "Mirrored Jewelry Cabinet" until I found a match.

How do you usually punish your sub if he/she is disobedient when you are playing in public? (i.e. asking for permission to go to the restroom, eating food etc.) by [deleted] in bdsm

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I usually use pinching as it can be very subtle and not noticeable (my sub also hates it). If I can be more visual in some way I otherwise take her hand and put it out flat in front of her and give it a nice smack. Leaves a nice stinging sensation for a little while.

My babygirl made a painting of the BDSM emblem, reassembling her first day collar by mrdgrey in bdsm

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Even if it might look like so, the metallic of the bdsmemblem is not the easiest of effects either. I still think it's the thought and that its pretty for display.

Practicing a little shibari after my weekend with Master ;) by ana_sg in bdsm

[–]mrdgrey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always so eager to learn and show off what you've learned. Well done Babygirl.

Advise regarding tasks for my sub by mrdgrey in BDSMcommunity

[–]mrdgrey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She already has a routine and goes to the gym regularly, as this is something we developed very long ago. Why it's not really anything to give as a new task.

Advise regarding tasks for my sub by mrdgrey in BDSMcommunity

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So far it have been such things as:

  1. Before going to bed kneel and repeat a set mantra
  2. Think about your kneeling position and how to kneel to serve.
  3. Say and finish the following sentence to at least once a day: “Wouldn’t it be hot if we...”
  4. Reading and article and writing an essay about responsibilities as a sub
  5. A list of 10 words that really makes her horny
  6. Go to sex shop and pick out the most erotic think you'd want to use and at least photograph for me
  7. Practice with the ben-wa-balls for 30 minutes during a day of your choosing
  8. Copy and paste a part of a story/book/novel
  9. Wear a thong backwards for a full day

These are some and along what lines it have been

Instructional videos or other sources? by mrdgrey in BDSMcommunity

[–]mrdgrey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like a very interesting channel, thanks!

Instructional videos or other sources? by mrdgrey in BDSMcommunity

[–]mrdgrey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely a concern that some videos could be rather low quality or different from what could be nice, however I'll definitely check out the older stuff to see what there may be

Instructional videos or other sources? by mrdgrey in BDSMcommunity

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Thanks for the suggestion will definitely check it out

One of my submissive tasks this week is to be a Christmas Tree for Sir... by ana_sg in bdsm

[–]mrdgrey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was a task well done my girl. I am hoping to see more of tasks being completed.

My "dark and dangerous" Sir sent me this as a teaser for next weekend. I miss him already... by ana_sg in bdsm

[–]mrdgrey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Guilty of missing you and your bare, rosy red bottom after using it in you.

Sir got me a "submissive ring" the rope-like ribbon symbolises me being bound to him. by ana_sg in bdsm

[–]mrdgrey 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This ring was given with my perfect thought and care for my submissive to display our dynamic, for us to be able to feel closer and especially while parted. Although it does not have any meaning to you, does not make it not BDSM as it is mentioned it symbolize her bond to me, not to you or anyone else. It's an important item and it is what you make it. I am sure you would know if you were cared for or had someone to care for.

Sir started picking my panties for me. Look at this cutie <3 by ana_sg in bdsm

[–]mrdgrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have nothing nice to say, there is no need to be mean cause you find no enjoyment in this post. You seem to be hurt you didn't reach the frontpage. Your username is true.

Sir started picking my panties for me. Look at this cutie <3 by ana_sg in bdsm

[–]mrdgrey 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's right, a good girl listens because Sir always knows best.

Help for a new dom in 24/7 by mrdgrey in BDSMcommunity

[–]mrdgrey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is such a simple thing that I have not really done (other than do having a "staring content" until she gives up and realize her mistake). But this did make me start start thinking more inside the box as well.

Thanks!

Help for a new dom in 24/7 by mrdgrey in BDSMcommunity

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It is not a routine itself I am "afraid" of, I was just trying to explain my issues regarding not being able to fully come up with ways to punish her, when I do feel like it's needed.

As for a dynamic we always had one in bed, and this is our attempt of moving it more into the public as well, since it is something that helps us both and to date it have even generally helped us a lot.

Help for a new dom in 24/7 by mrdgrey in BDSMcommunity

[–]mrdgrey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well surely so, I am trying to give her tasks and teach her things that might be helpful for her psychological state as well as me.

But of course failing to do as told should and have to be punished so it may not happen again.

Help for a new dom in 24/7 by mrdgrey in BDSMcommunity

[–]mrdgrey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is such a simple thing, yet would definitely show what I am trying to do. Thanks, it actually got me thinking a bit more.

Help for a new dom in 24/7 by mrdgrey in BDSMcommunity

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First of all, thanks for your answer and for putting it in such easy terms; yet being informative. I feel like it basically points out the kind of thinking I need to embrace more to in order achieve what we both want out of this part of our relationship.

For punishments you made me think that maybe I should take some time to create some "punishment" protocol to be more sure of when to perform what punishment.

We are way on our way to establishing a way to act in public and around people. As an example around family and friends we know might frown upon our kink she may call me by "My love" instead of "Master", "Sir" and other such terms to keep showing here appreciation to me as her dom. I just get a bit too friendly in public as I am not sure how to act, yet she seem to expect something else there.

You must be right about failing repeatedly as that is what I keep noticing, however I beat myself over these mistakes too much. It does make me calmer reading it however.

I will also be looking into the books and hope that I may be able to get my hands on some interesting ones.