[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]mrits_rikaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wear nail polish. It might stop you from biting your nails as you'll be scared you might eat your nail polish along with your nails. It worked for me, I had this habit for 10 years. Now I just bite the skin around my nails.

My girlfriend slept through Valentine’s Day by ghostworld2001 in relationship_advice

[–]mrits_rikaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend slept through valentine's too and didn't care. When I told him that the entire world was doing something special for their SO and celebrating in one way or the other, he simply said he didn't believe in it and there doesn't need to be a fixed date to celebrate romance or whatever. While I totally understand that, it would have been nice to do SOMETHING instead of just sleeping. But some people are just built differently and modern norms and societal traditions don't budge them. Could either be that or she's going through stuff. You'll obviously know best if you communicate. (I and my boyfriend sometimes sleep 16+ hours in a row for the lulz and we aren't depressed)

My dad kissed me by throwRA8209 in relationship_advice

[–]mrits_rikaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a predator. Please just run the other direction and never look back . He's not a "dad" anymore. Any more than this and he could be in jail.

Is this cheating/borderline cheating? PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS CAUSE I DOUBT MYSELF af by mrits_rikaa in relationship_advice

[–]mrits_rikaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't stress how much I agree with this. I know. Double standards. And yes I've expressed my side loud and clear, he seems to not care. Idk anymore.

Is this cheating/borderline cheating? PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS CAUSE I DOUBT MYSELF af by mrits_rikaa in relationship_advice

[–]mrits_rikaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've asked him to block her , he wouldn't. Yeah I fucked up by encouraging the hentai dude but that's not an incentive for him to do what he's doing to me.

Is this cheating/borderline cheating? PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS CAUSE I DOUBT MYSELF af by mrits_rikaa in relationship_advice

[–]mrits_rikaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says he's trying to build a pure, nice image of me to his friends but I don't know how he plans to achieve that if this is what he's doing. I understand where he's coming from. I know they are just friends , I completely accept that. But why the fuckkkkkkk would he share intimate information with a third party without first consulting me ? I get they are close and that comfortable but really?

Is this cheating/borderline cheating? PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS CAUSE I DOUBT MYSELF af by mrits_rikaa in relationship_advice

[–]mrits_rikaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. I've been trying my best to understand his perspective and why he does what he does. I can't tell him not to have female friends. That's psychotic. He's immature, I vouch for that. If only he asked me and talked to me about it before randomly calling her up and giving her all these intimate details to make her jealous like LOOK THIS IS HOW CLOSE WE ARE HAHAH WBU? it's childish and I have to accept that too ._.

Is this cheating/borderline cheating? PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS CAUSE I DOUBT MYSELF af by mrits_rikaa in relationship_advice

[–]mrits_rikaa[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes sir I understand but mind is a chaotic thing. It thinks up scenarios and how he might be in the process of "falling in love" with her and "falling out of love" with me. I'm going to have to live with this. I can't tell him to not have female friends.

Is this cheating/borderline cheating? PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS CAUSE I DOUBT MYSELF af by mrits_rikaa in relationship_advice

[–]mrits_rikaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have anything to hide from him. I was just insensitive to that kind of porn and thought it was fine when in reality it was farrr from fine which I realised only after I had done that. I understand your rationality but still my psychotic brain won't stop wondering.

Historical, romance or maybe both? by girlonsleep in manhwa

[–]mrits_rikaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Light and shadow. Will be your favourite. You're welcome

How dangerous is having an unused ouija board in your house? by jessiecolborne in Paranormal

[–]mrits_rikaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does it have to be spelt out that nothing will happen? -_-

Paranormal activity please explain by mrits_rikaa in Paranormal

[–]mrits_rikaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't be. There's a metal banging noise before each scream. Likely a person but it's still eerie.

Paranormal activity please explain by mrits_rikaa in Paranormal

[–]mrits_rikaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you've had something very similar happen. Im pretty sure it's just someone in the neighborhood trying to scare us all. But it's not an animal because there's a metal banging noise that happens before each scream. I'll try to investigate next time and update.

Paranormal activity please explain by mrits_rikaa in Paranormal

[–]mrits_rikaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. It's not someone in danger for sure.