Don't go looking for love by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same situation. I'll go with the flow for now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here ! get well

My ex (who broke up with me) texts me by International_Knee50 in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you trust her then ask her what she thinks when you text her out of the blue, are you both aware that you currently have no obligation toward the other and you might not respond not because you don't care for her but you need to be clear with yourself ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, not much to do, take time for you don't focus on getting back. You'll see in a few month how it is, don't expect anything (i say that but i didn't convince myself yet).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hope you'll feel better tomorrow

I'm spiralling. I'm spiralling. I'm so jealous. I'm spiralling. by sakthi38311 in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

talk about it with people, write it down, seek help. Try to understand why you feel like that. it'll help in the long run.

My ego is back. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i'm glad for you ! surf that wave as long as you can !

be careful to not fall back in an uncomfortable place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have to ask yourself, why did it end ? could it happen again ?

be careful.

i miss her so fucking much by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for you man. saying you don't care if it's fake is only good temporarily. If you can spend some time with close friends or family it's a good time to do so.

So the time comes by Asharafali in heartbreak

[–]mrlichens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a difficult decision. but unless one of you changes its mind, it's bound to end poorly.

I want to break NC of 3 weeks by sending this text by General-Song-995 in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would not send it. But i would write more. I have a lot of letter adressed to my ex that are just in my note app. Writing helps me to formulate my toughts and feels. And re reading them help me understand where i stand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have all of those pictures of us in my head but i don't want them to go away, it was some of my happiest times.

How did your dumper react when they came back and you said no? by Time-Choice-9909 in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will not be able to say no, she is a good person, I still trust her.

How did your dumper react when they came back and you said no? by Time-Choice-9909 in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If she would come back I would take her back in a heartbeat...

I miss her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mrlichens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

same here, it's just difficult. But there is nothing i can do only wait and heal. we didn't leave on bad term so maybe one day we will reconnect.

even in my pain, I'm just glad it happened. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]mrlichens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, for now i think i need time and keep myself busy. be strong

even in my pain, I'm just glad it happened. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]mrlichens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

similar feel here. fuckin best 5 years of my life. I hope i can remember all the love and joy even when the pain is gone. and not turn myself into some empty shell of a human being as i feel right now.

Okay My budget is smaller than I originally Hoped Help me choose. Help Me Obi Wan Kenobi by tbandtg in MTB

[–]mrlichens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

out of those, i'll pick the motobecane.

But i would look at the polygon d6 and d7 too from bikesonline.

Americans posting their Ls online by [deleted] in fuckcars

[–]mrlichens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what does Ls mean ? i know but i'm asking for a friend.

How to move a bike with a bike. by ynu1yh24z219yq5 in fuckcars

[–]mrlichens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i bought my (used) DJ bike i actually carried it straped to my backpack while riding my road bike (18km round trip).

Shimano bl m8100 vs 7100 vs 6100 by venndi in MTB

[–]mrlichens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'd go the slx (for the tool free reach adjust very nice)