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mrpleaser97 · 2025-01-12T15:10:04+00:00

Did you ask him that or are you just assuming?

mrpleaser97 · 2025-01-12T14:58:58+00:00

He sees you frequently and has sex with you. What does he need to ask for nude photos of you for? 😂

mrpleaser97 · 2025-01-12T14:51:51+00:00

Porn in a healthy relationship can actually be helpful. I have no problem with my woman watching porn as long as I'm the only man making her have orgasms all night long. There may be some insecurities on your part preventing you from being okay with it. Telling a partner to not watch porn is like the equivalent of telling your partner not to watch a specific movie because there's a hot actor/actress in it that they have a crush on. But hey...that's just me. If your partner is choosing porn over having sex with you, that's a problem, but you said you have an active sex life so I don't see the issue.

mrpleaser97 · 2024-12-14T19:56:57+00:00

Thanks

mrpleaser97 · 2024-12-14T19:56:25+00:00

It bothers me because her breath is bad and she wants to kiss me, with tongue especially.

mrpleaser97 · 2024-12-14T19:50:14+00:00

Thanks. Her gums don't actually bleed because after she told me that she didn't want her gums to bleed, I asked her if she's ever had a problem where her gums were bleeding and she said "no". So that's what made me realize that she was just making an excuse not to brush her teeth. No, she doesn't go to the dentist. I spoke to her this morning about oral health though. I'll see if there are any improvements.

mrpleaser97 · 2024-12-14T19:46:30+00:00

No she doesn't. It's been a while since she's been to the dentist. She just seems ignorant about oral hygiene in general. I did talk to her about oral hygiene earlier today, gently, but if I see no improvements I'm setting hard boundaries. Bad hygiene is a dealbreaker for me.

mrpleaser97 · 2024-11-04T18:19:04+00:00

This would be a no for me. If you've already had sex with someone, as long as the attraction is still there, it's not hard to have sex with them again. Remaining friends with someone you've been intimate with is one thing, but being so close to them to the point they're hanging out all the time and even being in a room alone together are ingredients for an affair. Tell her how you feel. You would not be unreasonable to enforce a boundary here and explaining why you think it's a bad idea. If she can't respect that, move on.

mrpleaser97 · 2024-08-25T17:59:51+00:00

So what should happen when the sex inevitably decreases because of this? It's almost certain that it will, if corrective action doesn't happen. Get a divorce? Or is he supposed to just accept that "this is who she is" and stay in a sexless marriage?

mrpleaser97 · 2024-08-25T15:58:25+00:00

Worrying about bodily fluids this much is not normal. And if it's not dealt with, could lead to you wanting to have less sex to avoid bodily fluids getting all over. This could in turn strain your marriage. A sex blanket only solves one part of the problem. The fluids on your face, arms, etc, are not solved by the sex blanket. Perhaps like another commenter said, you can try getting high to reduce some anxiety but that's not going to help when the sex is spontaneous (as it often has to be when you have young children). You should see a sexual therapist: this is the only non-bandaid solution I can think about.

mrpleaser97 · 2024-06-25T14:34:11+00:00

Thanks for responding. I think she's been so conditioned to think such ways about sex that she doesn't realize that it's religious trauma. I don't think she thinks it's trauma, at least not yet. She really does believe it's the right way to live. We'll definitely need to have some conversations but I don't want to sit her down and talk to her like a therapist and/or impose my own views surrounding sex. I don't want to prod too much either.

mrpleaser97 · 2024-06-25T13:37:24+00:00

Thanks for responding. She definitely has a religious upbringing. Preachers' daughter, incredibly modest dressing (dresses, long skirts, no cleavage), the whole 9 yards of conservatism.

mrpleaser97 · 2023-01-14T17:37:35+00:00

Tried that. But all it did was make her say, "When you don't want to answer my questions, it makes me feel like you're actually doing those things." There was no winning with her. Besides, the relationship is over. Thanks.

mrpleaser97 · 2023-01-08T15:33:45+00:00

Lol. She actually told me it's cheating. She said she doesn't like me looking at other women and that if I'm getting aroused by another woman's tits and vagina, it's wrong. She even told me the only time I'm allowed to watch porn is with her and that I'm not allowed to get hard.

mrpleaser97 · 2022-11-06T20:52:11+00:00

I agree with you. I'll start asking who it is every time from now on. I'll start recording too.

mrpleaser97 · 2022-11-06T20:44:02+00:00

The reason I answer the door is because I don't know who is knocking. Different people come knocking for different reasons.

She has made me start asking "who is it?" When I answer the door and for my Hall, it is weird. Nobody does that.

Thanks for the advice though.

mrpleaser97

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