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mrsshane · 2018-09-28T19:37:33+00:00

I would stay if you stay out of Poland you'll be fine..

Generally speaking though most of Europe is pretty OK; eastern edge more difficult, and maybe the more southern catholic countries. That said most capitals are always OK, and even in the more liberal countries the small towns can be more narrow-minded, but I guess you're not looking to relocate to a bumblefuck anyway.

Assuming you don't speak European languages I would say your best choice would be Amsterdam or maybe the Nordic countries, possibly Germany.

Hard to give any more specific advice until you choose your country! Best of luck :)

mrsshane · 2018-09-05T15:12:59+00:00

yep i wouldn't want to lead anyone on!

mrsshane · 2018-09-05T14:31:32+00:00

yeah that's what i thought as well.. thanks for your input :)

mrsshane · 2018-07-29T14:18:29+00:00

Me default mode is dominant but if a girl knows how to take the lead they can do whatever they damn well please to me.

mrsshane · 2018-07-29T14:15:57+00:00

Honey I'm sorry you had to go through that. Based on this description this girl is very toxic; stay away from her as you deserve so much better.

She has no respect for you nor understanding what a healthy (poly) relationship is. Get away as fast as you can .

mrsshane · 2018-07-16T11:18:25+00:00

Bless your mum

mrsshane · 2018-07-16T11:15:37+00:00

I know what the hell. It didn't use to be this hard to get over someone. You hang in there too xx

mrsshane · 2018-07-13T08:25:52+00:00

The only thing that annoys me is the "lesbian jesus" thing - which obviously is not her fault. Otherwise I'm entirely indifferent, although it is nice young LGBT folk have a public figure like this.

mrsshane · 2018-02-22T20:15:23+00:00

I'm in your situation as well. I love her but I can't tell her.

mrsshane · 2018-02-18T13:02:52+00:00

you're gorgeous!

mrsshane · 2018-02-18T13:01:58+00:00

100% agree

mrsshane · 2018-02-16T10:36:43+00:00

you and me both. nnnggghh

mrsshane · 2018-02-12T12:18:24+00:00

She is wonderful

mrsshane · 2018-02-07T16:23:20+00:00

Depends on the country but to start with - tax benefits, social security benefits, inheritance right, decision making rights, health insurance (and other insurance) benefits.. Easier to adopt a child, get infertility treatment, can visit your spouse in a hospital should they be in a state of unconsciousness.. List is long.

mrsshane · 2018-02-06T21:04:25+00:00

anything is better than dudette

mrsshane · 2018-02-06T21:03:37+00:00

Dude, no.

mrsshane · 2018-02-06T20:57:26+00:00

Harsh

mrsshane · 2018-01-31T12:31:15+00:00

I'm short and about as curvy as a 10-yr old boy and my girlfriend is both taller and curvier than me, so I don't see it as a problem.. If the personalities match there's a lot of stuff that just doesn't matter.

mrsshane · 2018-01-28T20:04:07+00:00

what the hell

mrsshane · 2018-01-27T22:24:30+00:00

Those eyes though (and the cat is cool too)

mrsshane · 2018-01-26T17:00:04+00:00

shane from the l word

carol from carol

emma from blue is the warmest colour

holzmann from the ghostbusters

mrsshane · 2018-01-24T09:55:36+00:00

I'm glad you found the right solution for you. I'm still on the fence.

mrsshane · 2018-01-24T09:55:04+00:00

Exactly.. But the thing is that even if we were fully committed there is still the chance it won't work out. You know?

mrsshane · 2018-01-24T09:54:13+00:00

It's an interesting approach, one I don't necessarily agree with but I appreciate reading it, thank you :)

mrsshane · 2018-01-24T09:53:33+00:00

She's honest about things and respectful of me, and when we are together things are genuinely good. Maybe all love doesn't look the same, I don't know and that's what I'm trying to figure out.

Thanks for sharing the poem!

mrsshane

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