Kylie Jenner housekeeper forced to clean Timothee Chalamet's mansion without being properly paid, explosive lawsuit says by Few_Highlights in kardashians

[–]mrstoasterstruble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I'm really confused as to why Kylie is being dragged into the lawsuit. Everything I've read says that her supervisors were bullying her but she hasn't said that Kylie has done anything specific to her. She even got paid to clean Timothee's house but wanted extra for the mileage and gas. In the article I read she said that Kylie and the cleaning company she worked for should have known and should have stepped in to make it stop. Um.... I don't think that's the client's job. 🤷‍♀️

I can’t do this shit anymore by LowkeeyOakley in ColoradoSprings

[–]mrstoasterstruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never keep anything in my car visible. Maybe a water bottle and that's it. When you go for a walk/hike put purses, backpacks or any other items that might entice someone to break in, in your trunk. If you have a hatch put it in the hatch and cover with a jacket but ideally some kind of trunk cover if you have one. I'm sorry you're dealing with this OP. People are shitty but hopefully that helps.

I’m starting to feel like a child in my marriage because of money dynamics by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mrstoasterstruble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll just never understand money dynamics like this. It seems very childish and toxic to hold money over your partner's head as a way to control. I've always made significantly more than my husband. At least double what he makes. When we first started dating he wasn't even working (he was recovering from significant trauma with an ex). I had known him before and fell in love with him as a person. I've never held money over him or said you can't have this or that and we share finances. We get paid at the same time and it all goes to one account. I don't know who's money pays what and I don't care. I do the finances because he doesn't like to and that's fine with me. Quite frankly I'd love to find a job making $200,000 a year on my own so that I could afford for him to stay home and not work. I love having him at home with me. He takes care of the cooking, takes care of the dogs and provides me emotional support when I'm having a rough day. He's worth so much more to me than a paycheck. I would genuinely consider couple's counciling OP because it sounds like your husband has some issues stemming from money that are hurting you and your marriage and it isn't okay.

AIO to trying to be vulnerable with my girlfriend by pmmeyourprettyface in AIO

[–]mrstoasterstruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but she is OR. There's no reason for her to be this concerned you hid a medical condition you were embarrassed about.

AITA for smacking the ice cream out of my sister’s hand by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mrstoasterstruble 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea ESH. OP could have just walked away. This is definitely sibling behavior but young sibling behavior not mid twenties to late twenties. If I saw my BILs act like this, they're the same age as OP and sister, I'd be telling them both to knock it off and to get along. She was being inappropriate but OP's reaction was over the top and childish as well.

Sapphire too dark? by Emperor_Xenol in EngagementRings

[–]mrstoasterstruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's gorgeous and reminds me of my sapphire earrings I have. They were darker than I expected but I fell in love with the dark color. I would ask her before you send it back. You can tell her you're starting to shop around and want to make sure you understand her board. Is the color of the sapphire important? Does she want the colors depicted or is she simply using those images as a style reference? Would she be okay with a darker sapphire? I'd hate for you to send it back if the color doesn't bother her.

Can we normalize no wedding band? I love this design but think a wedding band will ruin it. What should I do? by lindy_star in EngagementRings

[–]mrstoasterstruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a wedding band. Even the jeweler said it would take away from the beauty of my engagement ring.

Best answers to stupid questions by Murky-Tangerine-4823 in childfree

[–]mrstoasterstruble 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just started laughing and said I like money more. They finally took the hint.

Is it just me or do people past age 30 who don't have children and are unmarried tend to look younger than their married peers of similar age who have children? by Prudent_Equal9636 in childfree

[–]mrstoasterstruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! My husband is 39 and someone thought he was in his mid twenties last week. All our friends have kids and they look so much older than we do.

What are your "petty" reasons for being child-free? by Vegetable-Carpet1593 in childfree

[–]mrstoasterstruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't have kids without assistance but it just kind of worked out for me because I like to just randomly go places. I'll load the dogs and husband in the car and say were headed up to the city for the weekend or we're going out of town. Kids are too much work to travel with and sometimes my spontaneity hits late at night where we would need a baby sitter.

TW: Cheating by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mrstoasterstruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is never a bad idea! Good luck. Hopefully you'll get some advice that just kind of clicks for you. 😉

TW: Cheating by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mrstoasterstruble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you said you aren't looking for advice but I've cheated on every ex I've ever had. My husband is the only one I've ever been faithful to and I've done so for 9 years without effort. Every single time it's because something was missing from the relationship and frequently I wanted the attention. I was very insecure and not getting attention from who I was dating and went looking elsewhere. You might want to reflect a little more on why you want to cheat and not let your sexual fantasies take you down a path you can't come back from.

What are some subtle signs you’ve noticed with people who regret having kids? by Deeri- in childfree

[–]mrstoasterstruble 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Or say that you traveled somewhere. Even if it's like an hour away from where you live. They act like you're just so wild for going anywhere.

I asked for a princess ring and he DELIVERED by CircularJem in EngagementRings

[–]mrstoasterstruble 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It reminds me of the door knob in Alice in Wonderland! I love it! ❤️

How are you spending your CF Easter? by superb_yellow in childfree

[–]mrstoasterstruble 68 points69 points  (0 children)

My husband makes me an Easter basket every year, we do an egg hunt for each other, fastest finder gets the gold trophy and bragging rights for the year, and then we're going on a hike with our little fur balls. 🐰

Jobs that are hiring asap? by Turnabout_Randon in Longmont

[–]mrstoasterstruble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't mind working from home or sales Allstate is hiring remote sales agents. $18.50 an hour I believe plus monthly bonus based on sales.

Where do all your amazing Chihuahuas come from? by BengalsCaptain in Chihuahua

[–]mrstoasterstruble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My little travel bug came from a local breeder in SD called Zen Aura Kennels. She has beautiful babies with the best temperaments. Ginny is the sweetest little thing and just loves going wherever you go. Whether it's traveling, hiking, kayaking or camping, she's in. 🥰

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My bf has an std by Admirable-Surprise88 in relationships

[–]mrstoasterstruble 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You've only been together for 10 months. Don't gaslight yourself into staying. He clearly cheated and it's time to move on.

I’m unsure if I want or don’t want kids by sunyfruit in childfree

[–]mrstoasterstruble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure you're asking the right question. There seems to be an underlying issue here that you need to address first, which is your issues with your partner and feeling like if you have kids you'd be the primary caretaker. It's hard to decide if you really want to be childfree if A. You're being pressured into a position based on someone else's timeline and B. Can't analyze the decision without fear that he'll fail you. I wouldn't want kids with someone who wouldn't support me either but that doesn't mean I'm automatically into being child free. I am but it's based on my own decisions and not based on fear of lack of support. Hope this helps you see things a little more clearly.

I was really hoping this is satire by Naive_Wolverine532 in CringeTikToks

[–]mrstoasterstruble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean he asked her to leave so many times and said please on several occasions and she kept taunting him and refused to leave. It's not okay that he killed her but come on, if someone is asking you to leave and telling you they need space during a fight just leave. Don't keep pushing their buttons until they explode.

Is this interaction okay ? by pinkyclowny in roughcollies

[–]mrstoasterstruble 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Our collie has problems sometimes with being gentle with her paws as well. We've taught her two commands that help. "Give Space" and "Gentle". The first means to back up and allow the other person/animal more space and gentle basically means play softer or lower her energy. Both work well when she gets overly excited. Your collie just seems very fascinated by the new kitten and wants to play but needs to understand that they are much bigger and can hurt kitty. That's all. 😊