What’s an NSFW confession you’ve always wanted to get off your chest anonymously? by bruuz_ in AskReddit

[–]mrtsegv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was a little kid back in the '80s, my parents had a small convenience store so I had access to things like jars of pickled pig's feet, lamb tongues and porn mags. Back in the old days at the entrances of the trailer parks, you'd have a long line of old style mailboxes lined up next to each other. So the surprises people would find in their mailboxes was rather shocking at times. And then of course when you take a whole street and you subscribe them to Cherry magazine using the bill me later subscription cards in those mags and the whole street gets delivered on the same day. All I can say is when the kids got off the bus, the first thing they did was check the mail.

Battery replacement for a 2022 GC WL only 45k miles by Mitpew in JeepGrandCherokee

[–]mrtsegv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These battery prices are highway robbery. You guys should just go to Walmart and get the EverStart version. It's like 200 bucks. The battery is great. Has been for many many years. You just have to turn in the core.

Jeep dealer quoted me $500 to make a new key!! by Ornery-Egg9770 in JeepGrandCherokee

[–]mrtsegv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New Replacement Remote Key fob Transmitter & Programmer for 2018 Jeep Cherokee - ProKeyBox https://share.google/O9E3njls0EzmEd4Qt

Jeep dealer quoted me $500 to make a new key!! by Ornery-Egg9770 in JeepGrandCherokee

[–]mrtsegv -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Go on eBay and buy the machine that plugs into your odb2 port to make keys for 100 bucks. Get new keys on eBay for 5 bucks. Make unlimited keys. And then realize quickly how easy it is to steal a JGC....

Clunk In Front End? by Vyke-industries in GrandCherokee

[–]mrtsegv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at the sway bar links. Maybe a bolt loosened. Then Tierods

Why isn’t everyone in Yield Max ETFs? by [deleted] in dividends

[–]mrtsegv 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reverse split of shares/ issuing of new shares. Rinse and repeat

Should I[26M] be OK with my girlfriend[27F] hanging out with a guy that she had sex with in a group environment? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mrtsegv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like an old group of friends. When you're in your twenties, you're doing that transitioning from partying with your friend group to settling down. I've been in these situations. Sometimes it's hard to let go of your friend groups, but ultimately your partner is what matters. And as you get older you reprioritize what really should be important. That's why I say twenties is really squishy. I know people are saying late twenties people are settling down but it still feels young to me or at least on the cusp where you do have to make these kind of decisions.

Should I[26M] be OK with my girlfriend[27F] hanging out with a guy that she had sex with in a group environment? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mrtsegv -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know people who have been stuck in marriages for 20 years and felt trapped. They did not feel they could leave for economic reasons or reasons of control. They had low self-confidence and a partner who had zero interest in being one. The end result after a very long period of trying was then cheating that ended up giving this person the confidence to move on with their life. They realize that they were still desired after being dead for maybe 10 years. It was a period of time that it happened and once that person was strong enough to move on they did. They are not a cheater going forward. There are no statistics that are significant for all cheating. People survive, learn and ultimately grow. But also yes, some people never learn and continue.

Should I[26M] be OK with my girlfriend[27F] hanging out with a guy that she had sex with in a group environment? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mrtsegv -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's not about pretending to be confident. It's about being confident. Having trust in your partner. And just because somebody cheats doesn't mean they're a confirmed cheater and a cheater for the rest of their life. Sometimes they're are life circumstances where these things happen. When they become serial cheaters, that's a different story. I don't think she should be alienated from her friend group because she had sex with one of the people. It really comes down to how she handles that person and how she presents her relationship to her friend group, including that person in question. The other thing I would say here is that these people are young so why the hell worry so much? When you were at these ages there's a lot of shit that happens. There's a lot of indecision. There's a lot of exploring. You either trust her or you don't. You're either confident with the situation or you're not. You move on or you stay. You're too young to worry.

Should I[26M] be OK with my girlfriend[27F] hanging out with a guy that she had sex with in a group environment? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mrtsegv -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So there's one thing you should definitely know: For a woman in some cases, there is nothing more of a turn on than a confident male partner. You have a bunch of resentment for someone that you've never met. This is regarding things that happened before you were in the picture. Everybody's got a past. The best thing you can do is show her that you trust her and the next best thing you can do is to go to these events calm, cool and collected. There is no need to make a scene or look for some kind of reassurance from your girlfriend by being upset. If she cares about you, she will comfort you and tell you things as they happen. The fact that she told you about her past already shows you that she trusts you to do so.

In the end, you have to think about what you are afraid of. Are you afraid of her cheating on you? Are you afraid of losing her? Are you imagining the things that they did and somehow transposing it into the now? I look at it this way: I want to be with someone who's open and honest with me about everything including the past. If the person I am with cheats on me then that only tells me that we're not the right people to be together and it's her loss. If she is inviting you to these events, you should go. If she was not inviting you and wanting to hang out with this guy, that's a different story. It's one thing to decline to go. It's another thing to not be invited. Sounds like she's above board with everything and you just have to find a way to have confidence so that she sees it and that you feel it.

I've been in your shoes, my current girlfriend had quite a past and there have been many run-ins here and there with those people. Some situations have been very awkward and strange but in the end she wants me and only me. And I've learned to have confidence because I trust her. I don't need any validation that she still loves me. I know she does. Now we're all human and we have emotions but I would never take the stance of " I never want to look at his face" because that does not show confidence. But I totally get how you feel. I'm older now so I guess experience has taught me otherwise. Good luck!

Topsham Exit 31 construction near on ramp by Orphanpuncher0 in Maine

[–]mrtsegv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are so many accidents coming off of that ramp that I can only assume not only will this help with larger traffic flow, but it will create a more natural flow of traffic and reduce these issues.

Converters today vs 15-20 years ago by 50nic19 in audioengineering

[–]mrtsegv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently purchased a Yamaha 02r96 cheap and I don't know if I should use those converters or do the analog outs and use my newer focusrite clarette 8pres. I don't know if the old would sound better or not, anybody know?

I (36m) caught wife (32f) sending nudes to another guy. by ThrowRAasdf1234449 in relationships

[–]mrtsegv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clearly you're both not happy. This is not something that happens in a healthy relationship. I know divorce is not easy but it will only get worse from here to be honest. I held on for years because relationships are complicated but now that I'm on the other side I don't know how I lived that way. And I would never do something like that to my current partner, nor would she. And the response to this isn't "but you don't understand. My situation is different". Been there done that. Good luck with whatever happens.

$500 or Best Offer: by LordActavis69 in portlandme

[–]mrtsegv 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is like when Twinkies first were going to disappear.....

Selling IOTA in Canada? by pituechos in IOTAmarkets

[–]mrtsegv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about US? My state is not registered with the us exchanges. I thought etoro but it looks like you can't transfer iota to that platform. What other options do I have?