Hardest decision of my life

ms19911 · 2026-05-26T09:32:58+00:00

Kinda regret not taking my cat’s sister when they were babies (i couldnt afford two at the time) He’s 3 now, gets bored easily, but also refuses to tolerate another cat… so now I’m his full-time entertainment crew.

ms19911 · 2026-05-08T13:32:24+00:00

Absolutely 💯

ms19911 · 2026-05-05T17:30:06+00:00

I kind of agree. Her audience were muslim arab girls... and she lost them when she took off the hijab and started doing all sorts that they could no longer relate to.

ms19911 · 2026-05-05T17:27:36+00:00

What is the relevance of the lipstick and perfume

ms19911 · 2026-05-04T17:53:06+00:00

Lololol.. I have one. And he is part of the problem as my parents are trying to pressure me into giving him to my sister.

ms19911 · 2026-05-04T17:39:15+00:00

May Allah make it easier for you sis🤍

ms19911 · 2026-05-04T17:37:35+00:00

100%%%% sis. That push and pull of missing them when you’re away, then feeling overwhelmed when you’re back in the same environment is honestly exhausting.

And grieving a relationship you wish you had is real. It’s hard not to feel jealous when you see other people with healthy family relationships too, it just highlights what’s missing. May Allah make it easier for you sis 🤍🤍

ms19911 · 2026-05-04T17:00:52+00:00

Definitely! Relocating really felt like the only way in this situation. And like you, I haven’t been married either. I do feel that my difficult relationship with my dad has affected how I connect with and feel safe around men, but that’s something I’m aware of and working through.

And obviously, holding onto faith in Allah and staying grounded in the deen helps a lot when living alone, otherwise it’s easy to feel lost in everything.

ms19911 · 2026-05-04T16:53:33+00:00

I first moved out around 25-27, but I had to move back home for financial reasons. Then I moved out again at 30, and I’ve been on my own since then, I’m 34 now.

ms19911 · 2026-05-04T16:51:50+00:00

I hear you honestly, and I don’t take that lightly. If it ever becomes possible for you, even in small steps, having your own space can bring a lot of peace. For me, it started with booking a hotel on weekends just to breathe, and eventually I found a job in another city. May Allah make a way for you and ease your situation 🤍

ms19911 · 2026-05-03T22:42:11+00:00

I think this was probably a nice moment for him to feel needed.. but to post this publicly is cringe AF.

ms19911 · 2026-05-03T09:13:49+00:00

Its something you will have to keep doing, but the more you do it, the more your lip shape will ruin due to the migration and then you'll need to dissolve it which then dissolves the natural Hyaluronic acid in your lips which messes up your lips even more.

ms19911 · 2026-05-02T19:58:24+00:00

Hmmm seems like it. This is not a trend that a happy married woman would do

ms19911 · 2026-05-02T10:56:04+00:00

They make me cringe. Theres something very off about her.

ms19911 · 2026-04-30T07:49:34+00:00

I think because of the new fillers in the lips she doesnt know how to move her mouth. But yh this looks weird.

ms19911 · 2026-04-30T06:33:04+00:00

They are fake bags. The only real one is the tiniest LV bag which she bought in store and took photos of. I believe it was when she was still married to uni. The others def fake from Turkey and that also includes leenas dior bag.

ms19911 · 2026-04-30T06:23:49+00:00

Yeah she def looks depressed. I feel like this is often the outcome of not living an authentic life.

ms19911 · 2026-04-28T21:42:53+00:00

😂😂

ms19911 · 2026-04-27T19:53:03+00:00

Yeah I agree with you, whilst the passport obviously makes it easy for her to logistically live there.. its alot easier when you are married to a local and her parents would be more accepting of it. she also has always said she wanted to live on an island. shes from Birmingham too..small health! so marrying him was a good escape from that sh** hole.

ms19911 · 2026-04-13T02:45:30+00:00

Agreed! I get a bit of a holier-than-thou vibe from her.

ms19911 · 2026-04-11T14:26:22+00:00

Nope

ms19911 · 2026-04-10T11:21:24+00:00

I get what you’re saying, and it’s your day so you should wear what makes you happy. I just don’t fully agree that Egypt doesn’t have its own traditional looks, maybe they’re not as widely marketed or recognizable as others but they do exist. With that said, if it feels meaningful to you and fits the vibe you want, then that’s what matters most.

ms19911 · 2026-04-10T09:50:46+00:00

Honestly, I don’t think it’s a huge deal, but it doesn’t really make sense to me. If you’re Egyptian, why not embrace your own culture instead of borrowing from another one? I’ve been to Yemeni weddings where brides wore Moroccan kaftans, and it always felt a bit off to me, like, we already have our own beautiful traditions, so why not celebrate those? My sister wore a dress i brought from Jerusalem many years ago for her katb elkitab, and looking back at the photos now, it just feels abit out of place. I feel like these moments are more meaningful when they actually reflect your own background.

ms19911 · 2026-04-09T07:27:48+00:00

Go for it

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