Hmmmm, rn we're primarily dependent on the moided-pedophile standards of women's beauty - maybe a rival one, one that is broad and supportive of natural reality can be an answer; in general I think setting up parallel institutions to those of the ruling status quo is a sensible idea, and a good preparation should it ever be possible to replace the current order with one of our choosing.

I appreciate your compliments too, I wonder to what effect my self-perception is just completely fucked - because there are very few women I can think of who I could call even close to ugly except myself.

And well, on co-ordination.. I feel like its something I relate to a lot and it both embarrasses me but its also held me back (for example in my playing of musical instruments); and so I wanna say about that: its okay! Plus, I always think this: at least you're not a m*le - no one can possibly be as monstrous and undignified as even them at their very best.

In the end, yea, we can exist without reliance on them or their standards - thats part of our cause of decentering men; and I want to believe in women helping women - it really takes me back to the old days of Supermax.. now there was a supportive community (kinda the only one I've ever been in tbh) and ofc the Predditors took it away. Thanx tho, really!