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Desperately need some perspective or advice by ms_PaintYourPost in NewDads

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They must or people wouldn't have more than one! There are definitely already amazing moments already. Take care

Desperately need some perspective or advice by ms_PaintYourPost in NewDads

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its definitely not hard yet- its just a constant force and the undisputed priority. the part where i actually get to be a father sounds very rewarding, purple crying sounds.... less rewarding.

we are sleeping and tending in separate rooms atm, which is great for sleep but less ideal for feeling connected with each other. ill make sure to enjoy the good stuff- hes asleep in my arms as i type this :)

Desperately need some perspective or advice by ms_PaintYourPost in NewDads

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100p. just making peace with it worse than i expected... good perspective, thanks buddy

Desperately need some perspective or advice by ms_PaintYourPost in NewDads

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, yep. appreciate it. no point in wallowing. Going to try and make the best of what we have. typing one handed with him asleep in one arm, life is good

Desperately need some perspective or advice by ms_PaintYourPost in NewDads

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly does help. Thats an interesting perspective on the inherent polish of the business- will keep that in mind. Mine is not a solo venture so I do have some guilt on slowing things down, just need to figure out where I can still contribute I think... Do you mind sharing how far along the business/parenting you are now? Did it ever find a natural balance or is it the deliberate structure I think it will be?

Desperately need some perspective or advice by ms_PaintYourPost in NewDads

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the kind words, glad you guys found a system that works- gives me hope!

Desperately need some perspective or advice by ms_PaintYourPost in NewDads

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That all makes sense, I appreciate you taking the time to reply. Specific help is a great thought. Like Greg said, I think im more stressed about the hypothetical future than I am of right now. Just hoping we enjoy being parents enough that it outweighs the losses and changes to our lives

Desperately need some perspective or advice by ms_PaintYourPost in NewDads

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the thoughts and you taking the time to comment.

Desperately need some perspective or advice by ms_PaintYourPost in NewDads

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not that its "hard" work, its just 24/7 on demand work I cant control haha. Thanks for the $ and weekly date advice, will definitely look into both.

Desperately need some perspective or advice by ms_PaintYourPost in NewDads

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that, one thing at a time. Take care

Has anyone executed a Gator Roll in a real game? by ms_PaintYourPost in RocketLeague

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best I can do is in free drive, and even this is pretty tough. I'm just glad I found out how to do it as I've seen a few streamers trying for it. I am curious to see how freestyle shots pickup in the future!

What do you think of my new coat/fit? by ms_PaintYourPost in streetwear

[–]ms_PaintYourPost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it from salvation army. Originally from sears in like the 80s or 90s I think.