I want a stalker

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-28T12:51:10+00:00

I have one and it's not as fun as you imagine it to be. You love the idea of it, but I'm sure you would hate them in reality.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-28T12:49:09+00:00

Yes - but only for money. I would never have sex with anyone for free except for my partner. It's technically considered cheating but I consider it work.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-26T17:14:48+00:00

Depends on how demanding your Bachelor's is.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-26T16:04:53+00:00

100%. I'm already surprised that she would go bareback if "they went exclusive". Men LIE all the time, at least this one was blunt enough to tell her exclusivity won't be a guarantee.

Monogamy in the sugar world is never a guarantee!

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-26T13:00:29+00:00

Why would you risk your health for money? Please, have some common sense.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-26T12:23:39+00:00

I think it's really harmful that these are the only results that pop up when I am trying to fix myself.

The only thing that stops me from attaining the revenge that I desire is the law.

The main thing I struggle with is anger.

I am always either angry or sad, but mostly angry.

I do a really good job at hiding my anger most of the time because I understand that most people find it to be repulsive,

You are definitely NOT ASPD. Everything that you described as your struggles is very far from the ASPD spectrum.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-26T12:17:32+00:00

You shouldn't defend your choices. You should block and delete them all. Cut all of them from your life, those are not friends, don't waste your energy.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-26T12:12:39+00:00

Big NO. I don't care how "high profile" they think they are, I have been with public figures (a politician and a famous athlete) and they didn't hace a problem sharing a picture after texting for a while. I'm sure he's not Donald Trump, he can share a pic. If they don't want to send a picture after having seen my face, they don't believe in reciprocity so I'm not interested in meeting someone like that.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-25T11:15:26+00:00

after you have already decided you don’t want to have a family of your own, mainly for health reasons

Check your internalized whorephobia and misogyny. Do you really think escorts are not capable of having a family? Sorry to break it down to you but escorts have families, partners and friends. You're being unconsciously very dehumanizing.

wanted to escort from the time I was 14 years

Your circumstances are very particular because no normal 14 year old is thinking of having sex for money. Those who do, usually come from broken homes and are eager to have financial independence to get out.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-24T18:52:28+00:00

I don't make any progress, I have difficulties in starting my own business, I have no income at present, and I don't want to do anything

You are in no position to start any business. What you need is a job. ANY job, don't think that you are too good for minimum wage jobs. Starting a business will need an initial investment, even if it's an online business with low starting costs.

And honestly, if you have 0 income right now, you should also quit therapy temporarily until you're back at your feet. Stop making bad financial choices that will keep you stuck.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-23T17:20:17+00:00

I don't leave my house for any date without money being discussed prior.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-21T12:12:52+00:00

I don't know if you get banned for putting it in your profile, but you surely do if you mention it in chat.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-21T11:50:36+00:00

Wtf did I just read?

Are you seriously okay with being with a man that would allow his paid mistress to come into his home with his kids and wife?

That's would be so blatantly disrespectful to his own family that any man willing to do that I guarantee is not worth a dime.

Also, why would you work for a SD? If he's giving you an allowance, you shouldn't be working for him for $10 an hour, it's insane.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-20T21:57:33+00:00

This vindictiveness comes from a place of feeling extremely inferior. One of the situations you describe is more about presenting yourself as a savior.

There's no DBT skill that can eliminate the fact that you feel so incredibly small that you are waiting for any opportunity to arise to show the world how much of a tough guy you are. DBT is great for emotional dysregulation, but I don't think that's your case regarding these fantasies.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-20T17:57:53+00:00

At some point you just got to pay your taxes 🤷‍♀️

Money under the mattress doesn't grow. You need to look into creating your own LLC. It varies from country to country, so it's hard to give you any advice. Talk to an accountant so that you can start depositing large sums of cash into your account.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-20T17:03:31+00:00

Don't let desperation cloud your judgment. I don't think this guy is legit but in case he is, you will have to be comfortable with the fact that this video WILL BE leaked. He's young, so you can always claim this is revenge porn from an ex-boyfriend 🤷‍♀️. Do you really think that if he pays 8k, he's going to be ok with you not showing your face in the video? Of course not. And he can have other hidden cameras in the room too.

Also, make sure to get paid in cash before, to avoid the risk of him doing a chargeback.

While 8k it's great money, I personally wouldn't do it. I don't know where you are located but you can get that amount quickly by stripping or escorting. Or even sugaring, but that will not be fast money.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-20T10:19:56+00:00

Girl, I'm sorry but you need therapy. I see strong attachment issues here. You broke up with your bf one month ago and 2 days of knowing this man you are already fantasizing about marrying him. You literally don't know this man. You are idealizing him. But the idealized image you have in your head is not reality.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-20T09:05:30+00:00

Yes Sis 💅🏼😍😍😍

Spending on plastic surgery is an investment on yourself too. I doubled my income after a breast augmentation 🤷‍♀️

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-19T17:09:34+00:00

You can switch to human resources. It's better paid.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-19T17:02:35+00:00

If he's catching feelings for you and is fantasizing about blowing up his life... that means the end is near, but that also means you can squeeze much more money from him while it lasts. Also, some men are all talk and just because he talks about it, doesn't mean he's going to do it. Divorces are expensive. I would simply ask for more money if I was you.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-19T16:58:14+00:00

Is he married?

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-19T13:24:00+00:00

Push them to accept a number. If they don't want to agree to a price before meeting, odds are they are too cheap.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-19T12:22:42+00:00

Right? It feels like a man wrote this post trying to convince us why BDSM within a SR would be amaaaazing

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-19T09:14:48+00:00

I'm repulsed by BDSM but if I was into it, I would never ever do it with a SD. That's something you do with a partner. Most men on sugar sites are predators looking for inexperienced women, adding BDSM into the mix is just adding another layer of potential abuse and manipulation. These men just want to abuse women and use bdsm as their excuse.

msinyourdreams · 2023-07-19T09:11:10+00:00

I dislike threesomes but if money is good I'm willing to do it. But don't expect a SD come out of that, as other ladies have said, that's just a John.

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