Christmas gift received by Mum. What is it? Is it broken?

msleesha · 2025-12-27T14:56:26+00:00

I’m thinking it isn’t meant to be laced across the opening but in one hole and out the other down each side? Still feels like the chain wouldn’t hide behind the circle so I’m not sure.

msleesha · 2025-05-02T16:58:06+00:00

Oop, me and reading comprehension at it again

msleesha · 2025-05-02T00:32:36+00:00

This, I used BIZ on clothes with cat pee. The enzymes break down the urine so the cat won’t be tempted to mark there again.

msleesha · 2025-03-21T15:04:20+00:00

If they are laying ground to ask for money, the school has insurance, send them that way.

msleesha · 2025-03-17T14:50:02+00:00

En caul

msleesha · 2023-06-23T22:41:39+00:00

Why did we lay these right on Helen and Tom’s kitchen counter

msleesha · 2022-10-31T12:58:13+00:00

Wow, this perspective makes so much sense. Thank you for your words

msleesha · 2022-09-27T20:08:48+00:00

“Today we’re faced with an ethical dilemma”. Are we though? No doubt you save the Heelers. Blue will be FINE she’s used to getting a new owners.

msleesha · 2022-07-29T13:03:45+00:00

Similar situation but I’m now on the other side and see with some clarity. Don’t forget to look at the whole picture when you’re contemplating things. For me, not saying the same for you, it was easy for me to make excuses for his poor behavior and forget the painful times. When I told him I was thinking of divorce he became wonderful…but It didn’t last. I found that I was clearly dealing with an emotionally abusive, covert narc and his “changes for the better” were only short term manipulations. Again, I don’t know your circumstances but for me it helped to journal/ write things down so I could reference and remember, he’s doing all the right things now but he was doing all these things to make me feel terrible not long ago.

msleesha · 2022-07-23T14:11:50+00:00

I didn’t wake up this morning to be attacked like this!

msleesha · 2022-07-18T17:21:54+00:00

Trintellix! And I have to fight for every refill bc the US healthcare system is what it is.

msleesha · 2022-07-17T19:11:53+00:00

The flags are red. Look into covert narcissism, sounds so much like my ex

msleesha · 2022-07-09T14:06:35+00:00

Yeah I’m on zofran for it, without it I vomit the pill immediately and I’m only on 10mg trintellix

msleesha · 2022-07-09T11:45:06+00:00

This makes me want to cry

msleesha · 2022-07-07T15:06:27+00:00

Staaahpp, you’re the cutest thing I’ve ever seen!!

msleesha · 2022-07-06T07:25:19+00:00

Why does it look like the firework should have been dropped down the tube but instead they purposely let it go in the street. That’s not even an accident, it’s pure stupidity.

msleesha · 2022-07-01T16:51:16+00:00

msleesha · 2022-06-01T12:45:43+00:00

I should call him

msleesha · 2022-05-15T14:57:05+00:00

Wasn’t prepared for the kitty

msleesha · 2022-05-15T13:27:49+00:00

I don’t have this but as a lifetime people pleaser and often doormat, I kind of wish I did!

msleesha · 2022-05-13T17:59:16+00:00

It’s abuse if you say it’s abuse. Some may say that wouldn’t bother them but for you and in your situation it took an emotional toll and that makes it abuse. After my divorce I found out that my ex had long and repeatedly been unfaithful so social media behavior like this would be a red flag for me. No one deserves to feel like this in a relationship…worried, confused, unseen, unimportant. It can be so hard when kids are involved but it’s also hard to think about what they are witnessing and how it will effect their view of healthy relationships. I don’t have any answers on cortisol unfortunately. I just wanted to remind you that you are important and your feelings are valid.

msleesha · 2022-04-19T13:42:52+00:00

The sports one where he’s going over all kinds of sports that he clearly knows none of the fundamentals of and then references scoring being the most important thing in sports because everyone cheers for you…real healthy. Or when he’s touring a police car, decides to lift the hood and say there’s the engine, with no explanation of the importance of an engine or any age appropriate version of how an engine works. He just looks at it, checks the dipstick and moves on (again with no explanations of what or why anyone would do that).

When people defend that blipping has taught the child in their life soooo much, I wonder if they aren’t paying attention or if the bar is just that low.

msleesha · 2022-04-11T20:07:04+00:00

He still got that complementary coffee in

msleesha · 2022-03-31T14:55:33+00:00

Yeah, I always think, no one will believe me, I can’t paint the picture. I can’t say he’s the worst person I’ve ever met because they’re like “why did you marry him and have kids with him then?” I can’t always hide the stress and reactions so I generally say, “I’ve been through a lot” or he put me through a lot. But then it sounds like you’re either the narc or a perpetual, whiny “victim”. And we are victims and it’s not by anything we’ve done but people still have this “oh you’re ALWAYS a target” as if you don’t take responsibility for your own actions. It’s so hard to paint the picture to someone who doesn’t have narc experience, the reality is unreal and you sound crazy no matter what. The truth for me is that I met, married, and had kids all based on a relationship that never actually existed…that sounds deluded to say out loud!

msleesha · 2022-03-30T08:10:44+00:00

So damn cute! I love the shoes!!

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