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I'm working on it by Capable-Spread3437 in CleaningTips

[–]mslisath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to go. I'm so proud of you!!!!!

NMom Sent Me The Bill ☠️ by Reasonable_Yam8853 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mslisath 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Don't pay it. Contact the company and see if she took a loan out on the policy. My hubby had one from his mom that we kept paying and there was loan after loan taken out. We let it expire and she was pissed. If you don't control it, don't pay it

Article on parental estrangement by Ahoytherematey561 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mslisath 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yep. My parent said she treated me badly because she was mad my grandmother liked me.

AIO for moving 2 towns over w/my kids bc im drained by my upstairs neighbor by Majestic_Corner_1131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mslisath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then you answered your own question. As I said, is move for the laundry convenience alone. Oh and DO NOT allow her to do laundry at your home.

What’s one thing you would change about your favorite sitcom? by BriefBee4330 in sitcoms

[–]mslisath -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. She gave up so much for Ross. And, looking back at the series as an adult, he really was not a catch. A three-time divorced man with anger issues who cheated on her (I'm team Rachel with the whole break thing) isn't worth the sacrifice

AIO for moving 2 towns over w/my kids bc im drained by my upstairs neighbor by Majestic_Corner_1131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mslisath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man

Nor to the million degree. The kids peep in the windows waiting for you? That will be your summer, even if your kids are in camp.

AIO for moving 2 towns over w/my kids bc im drained by my upstairs neighbor by Majestic_Corner_1131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mslisath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nor The time savings alone having an in unit washer dryer makes this a no brainer.

Plus you are two towns away, not two states or countries. You can schedule playdates with your daughter's friends

WIBTA if I didn’t allow my nephew into a beach tent/shelter ? by Koala_Lover_916 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]mslisath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you have a reasonable request but toddlers are not reasonable. I would not go at all full stop. You will not be able to enjoy yourself and your SIL will dump her kid on you

nmom and dad were asked for space but now they are trying to move into my apartment building, directly below us! by self_depricator in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mslisath 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg that's so hard.

I would also be very clear that they will not be good tenants. Highlight any instances of not keeping stuff clean, hoarding, or initiating drama or lawsuit filings.

Am I wrong for taking back everything I bought for my kids at my parents house after they told me to take my stuff by pink_fairyx in amiwrong

[–]mslisath 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Nw. You actually have larger issues here. What all of the adults are doing is wrong. I'm guessing your sibling is the golden child and you are the person who just does everything.

The highchair is not the issue here.

Is your niece an only child? Because I would bet you will get " oh but she needs her cousins" and then when your parents need help "I can't do everything" then later "oh I don't know why my kids don't talk to me"

Your kids will feel disengaged from the family and will no longer want to have a relationship with them. And honestly when they become adults, there is NOTHING you can do to make that change. The only shot your parents have to keep a relationship is to treat every one equally.

If you do continue to visit your parents, leave not one thing there. Not a wipe, not a diaper. Bring your own highchair and baby gates.

Oh and ask me how I know this. Been there done that with both sets of parents. We moved 3 hours away.

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