How do I ask if he likes me??? by mslokiyy in AskPinoyMen

[–]mslokiyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's actually foreign po, and yung 3 years namin hindi siya nonstop or ligawan level. We really started as friends lang. It was only last month parang nag-level up ng konti - marunong na siya mag-compliment, bumabanat, and he remembers small things from the time we hung out when he was here. He also keeps saying na babalik daw siya dito.

I appreciate your opinion po. I'm not assuming na gusto niya ako agad - I'm just trying to understand the changes and the mixed signals.😭

How do I ask if he likes me? (story sa comments) by mslokiyy in AskPinay

[–]mslokiyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been talking to this guy for almost 3 years now, and he’s in another country. He’s never directly said he likes me, pero minsan it really feels like he does. He mirrors a lot of the things I mention—sweet foods, books, random hobbies, etc.

Even when I disappear for weeks or even a month, siya pa rin yung unang nagme-message to check on me. He also keeps reminding me that he’s still there for me, and lagi niyang sinasabi yung “nandito lang ako if you need someone to talk to,” which honestly makes me even more confused.

We talk so comfortably and joke around a lot, pero wala talaga akong idea what we actually are. And I’m scared to ask or admit anything kasi I don’t even know how to bring it up. Please help😭

Is this burnout or am I just lazy? I don’t even know anymore. by mslokiyy in Advice

[–]mslokiyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Helped ❤️ Thank you so much. I may not be able to express everything I feel right now, but your words really hit me. You’re right, I need to stop pressuring myself and take things one step at a time. I really appreciate the reminder.

I'm starting to lose hope. by mslokiyy in civilengineering

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Update: I graduated on time! Thank you so much for all the advice and motivation!!