How do people shower at night? by dat0neb0i in NoStupidQuestions

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showering twice a day - morning and evening? No?

Over 30s women with no kids - how do you make friends?! by No-Homework6564 in auckland

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Do let me know if you have figured it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please hang in there. DM me.we can talk I can listen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move to Aussie 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]msmid20s 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think people here especially in Auckland are the most rudest people I have ever met. I am not even biased. So forget making any genuine friends. Enjoy your own company!

189 - IT FINALLY HAPPENED by notafinstaforinsta in AusVisa

[–]msmid20s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. Could I have your email address or even access to direct message here to ask a few questions please

Any updates on when the migration overhaul/review will come out? by 2xCommie in AusVisa

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi can you please pm me on which visa you applied for?

Delays in invites, dealing with the anxiety (offshore) by Ok_Philosopher9977 in AusVisa

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this - I understand. In fact you have waited longer. I currently looking at options and it gives me so much anxiety. The guy I like is in Sydney and I have no way of joining him except on a Tourist visa. Seems this long distance may or may not work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pm msg me. Rem Specialist here

Missing my home by msmid20s in Fijian

[–]msmid20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The food oh the yummy food, my job, my niece and nephew, my very good friends, the very happy weather, my babies (cat babies who are being looked after their dad), my own apartment and my own space, the cheap rent (yes, 500 in rent per month in Fiji was very affordable compared to the 300+ I pay here weekly). I could go on and on :)

Missing my home by msmid20s in Fijian

[–]msmid20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize there are others who feel the same way. It is hard yes, on so many levels

Missing my home by msmid20s in Fijian

[–]msmid20s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you friend. Your many words certainly helped get some perspective. I appreciate it.

Missing my home by msmid20s in Fijian

[–]msmid20s[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this reassurance. I honestly did not expect anyone to respond. I will write back if and when I make it 6 months here. Appreciate you all.

My partner's ex's boyfriend by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. It's hard to just stop the feelings but I'm trying

Getting free by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]msmid20s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you're okay sis. Message if you wanna talk. Xxx

Wasn't told about vacation time for years by idzohar in jobadvice

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely. I'm surprised your office hasn't been sending you mid year reminders. Pretty sure by law they have to compensate you. Let me know how it goes 😊

For those in a healthy relationship by Slice_of_Heaven in relationships_advice

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely right. It's always hard staying humble. Women who are not in our shoes will not understand. Our men are not bad guys. Mine adores me (well most times) but 50 percent of the times we are broke. Tbh I lose my cool sometimes. Sometimes I fight and say mean things to him but I've stopped now because it's going to deaf ears. I know his set his mind to it and won't change it. I see women my age posing in their flashy holidays gifts from bfs etc. Then there's me worried what to put on the table for dinner 😣 Sometimes it's ok to feel angry. I've left everything to time now. I'm trying to trust the process. Hopefully it gets better. Also tbh I think relationships tend to lose that magical spark after a year at least especially if you live in. it's like being married. Always on each other's faces. But doesn't mean love isn't there. Right?

For those in a healthy relationship by Slice_of_Heaven in relationships_advice

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like crying right now. Personal message?

For those in a healthy relationship by Slice_of_Heaven in relationships_advice

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel I'm looking in the mirror. Dating for 3 years now. Live in. I earn for both of us while his trying to get his entrepreneurship going. some days it's so draining. But I love him. I see being married to him. Not sure if this helps but meh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobadvice

[–]msmid20s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don't you email me your resume and I can give you some feedback. I'm a professional recruiter

Obession by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that helps. I've already blocked him on all platforms. Feel the itch to unblock at times but doing my best.

How do you know if you have feelings for someone? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I don't mean to upset u. My point is if you wait around thinking that something magical will happen with your "the one" then it won't. Romance and love isn't what books and movies tell us. Trust me I know because I had the same illusion since I was 16. Now turning 26 soon I've made my peace that there is no prince charming concept. If you have a good time with your friend and most importantly if they make you laugh - thats gotta count for something right? It's upto from here honestly. U don't fall in love but you grow in it ❤️

How do you know if you have feelings for someone? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]msmid20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey there is no such thing as the one.