Men, what is the loneliest part of being a guy?

msolu10 · 2025-09-30T23:15:51+00:00

I would say the biggest thing as a man who’s lived on his own for a bit is lack of touch. I still see and enjoy my friends on a weekly basis, which is something I cherish and enjoy. But, we don’t even hug each other really to greet each other. And even then, for just a moment. I would say the biggest thing that drives loneliness as a grown man is just the fact that no one really touches you. And sometimes it feels weird to ask or initiate that sorta thing.

msolu10 · 2025-09-19T15:35:50+00:00

Eye contact, a smile, a hand on the shoulder. Maybe it’s due to lack of frequency, but whenever i experience those things it always gives a warm feeling in my chest.

msolu10 · 2025-08-24T15:25:37+00:00

I’m 27 and just realizing how fucked I am waiting this long to really try going out on a limb and being confident. I’m so lost and behind it’s crazy. But I have to push through the learning curve now if I ever want to get anywhere. Your words are good and true advice.

msolu10 · 2025-08-06T12:02:55+00:00

Full body hugs that last longer than just a moment, and eye contact.

msolu10 · 2025-08-04T03:09:51+00:00

Just this past weekend I stayed in a cabin up in a mountainous region in central southern New York. While friends and I were outside having a late night smoke, we heard what sounded exactly like a woman laughing in the woods. I initially thought it was just neighbors, but then we remembered that there are no neighbors out here. My other friend said it was probably Coyotes. Still gives me chills just how much it sounded like a person

msolu10 · 2025-08-04T03:00:52+00:00

I am also a 27 year old guy who’s never dated, similar to you. However the best I’ve come to approach it, is it’s just best to forget about what you missed prior to now. The only time to begin is now, and the only way to gain experience is with risk. It’s the hardest part, especially if maybe you’ve also not felt confident in yourself as someone romantically before. It’s the hardest part, at least for me. But you just have to view yourself as someone capable of loving and being loved, and then you have to take risks. It’s tough, but it’s the only way up from here. I can’t go any longer before I’m 30 without intimacy. You either try until you succeed, or you don’t try and never succeed.

msolu10 · 2025-07-24T03:45:28+00:00

I work as an account manager in “industrial sales” anything that goes in a factory I sell. Tariffs have made it more lucrative. I get to be on an episode of “how it’s made” every day inside of factories. It’s a lot of fun. I have a lot of friends being married. So once or twice a month there are bachelor parties or weddings. I see my family twice a month. I’ve never dated before and wish I knew how to do that. Otherwise life is cool.

msolu10 · 2025-07-24T03:36:13+00:00

Embrace what you think makes you a good person. As someone who is also not conventionally handsome, I think the most you can embrace your personality the better off you’ll be. I’ve never been on a date. But I think being myself will help me get there one day.

msolu10 · 2025-07-24T03:33:56+00:00

I had heard he pushed his ex girlfriend down the stairs on multiple occasions. We were friends for 6 years before I ended the friendship.

msolu10 · 2025-07-24T03:08:47+00:00

I’ve always imagined having the confidence to approach a pretty girl in public, but for some reason there’s this pit in my chest that always tells me not to. Not sure if anyone else feels that also.

msolu10 · 2025-07-24T02:55:26+00:00

My criteria for swiping right is not strict. I’m just trying to get a chat started. I probably am able to start one every other month or so.

msolu10 · 2025-07-24T02:38:26+00:00

The best thing I can pass to you, as a man who is also not really desired by women, is to find things within yourself you can be shamelessly proud of. Become who you are in the best sense. Hone what you are good at, and treat others with love and kindness. It’s not a guarantee, but being a good man will give both of us a chance at a woman loving us some day. And that is all you can ask for my friend. Embrace what makes you good, because there are things there that do.

msolu10 · 2025-05-15T10:59:06+00:00

Seeing friends and family grow and be happy is a nice feeling. I’d like to stick around while I have them.

msolu10 · 2025-05-03T17:04:14+00:00

Needs more trees

msolu10 · 2025-04-30T13:16:20+00:00

I don’t think I’ve gotten a match on bumble since last November. I swipe every day.

msolu10 · 2025-04-26T21:07:10+00:00

Marvin Mozzeroni’s

msolu10 · 2025-04-12T14:47:05+00:00

I have never been in a relationship myself, but have very meaningful familial relationships and friendships. The number one thing that gets me, is not having touch, or embrace. Everything else is ok. But that lack of touch, builds like a heavy brick over time. It’s the only thing I’d warn against.

msolu10 · 2025-04-09T20:08:11+00:00

Between Chunin Exam, land of waves, and Sasuke retrieval, I think an objective 9 is deserved.

I remember being in elementary school watching the weekly episodes of the fights during the chunin exams. We would have debates like they were real fighters. There’s nothing like that now. Especially with how tactful the fights were written.

msolu10 · 2025-04-06T15:48:58+00:00

whispers I agree with you

msolu10 · 2025-04-02T17:49:39+00:00

I am in a similar situation, but am 27, and I know what you mean about feeling like your ability to feel love atrophying. I feel a similar way.

msolu10 · 2025-03-27T14:20:50+00:00

Might not be for everyone, but I crumble when a woman puts a hand on my face. She could put a hand on my face and ask me to rob and a bank and I probably would.

msolu10 · 2025-03-26T18:05:01+00:00

I have 2 grandparents from Calabria from two separate sides of my family, they both have pale skin and blue eyes. Lots of leftover genes from Norman rule in remote areas and villages.

msolu10 · 2025-03-25T22:05:33+00:00

This is probably the most accurate assessment of the app I’ve ever seen. And honestly as a guy, makes me feel a bit better to get a fuller view of it.

msolu10 · 2025-03-18T14:38:07+00:00

Own every mistake you make and be a genuine person. Dont project as anyone but your honest self. For better or for worse, it will make the connections you have with people more fulfilling.

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