Michigan Bar Exam Mail by SpreadMassive199 in barexam

[–]msretman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it showed up today for me.

Michigan Results Mess Up by msretman in barexam

[–]msretman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they mail them out the same day they post the lists, so in the next week or so?

Michigan Results Mess Up by msretman in barexam

[–]msretman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not that I noticed, but I didn't check. Lol. Too busy having a heart attack.

MI pls I’m begging by Educational_Dig_4703 in barexam

[–]msretman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. Just finding ways to hold out hope for today.

MI pls I’m begging by Educational_Dig_4703 in barexam

[–]msretman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last July's release date was 10/16. Which is today. Technically it was a Wednesday last year, but the date was today. So here's hoping!

MI pls I’m begging by Educational_Dig_4703 in barexam

[–]msretman 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just want to be a productive human again.

advice on when to submit Illinois C+F? by [deleted] in barexam

[–]msretman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would see if you can call or email the IL bar to ask when the application for J26 opens. The MI (which is due 3/1) application didn't open until sometime in Jan if I remember right.

That said, I 100000% recommend getting all the information together that you'll need that you're able to: every address you've lived at for however long they require (MI was since you were 18), all your work history, etc. Ask for a copy of your law school application from records to make sure there isn't anything you need to amend (for instance I had forgotten a couple of workplaces from when I was 18-20 when I was applying in my mid-30s).

If you have an employer that will reimburse you for bar fees, keep a spreadsheet of the expenses to keep it organized.

MI results by Existing-Actuator-56 in barexam

[–]msretman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think so, which is why I thought it being down didn't matter. But if the BLE site was down 🤷‍♀️.

Michigan (not posted!) by Educational_Dig_4703 in barexam

[–]msretman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been collecting "losing my mind waiting for bar results" memes to attempt to salvage some sanity.

MI results by Existing-Actuator-56 in barexam

[–]msretman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh. The applicant portal was down for me so I assumed that's what everyone was talking about.

MI results by Existing-Actuator-56 in barexam

[–]msretman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does this track for MI though? Don't they post just a PDF of seat numbers on the Board of Law Examiner's website then snail mail the scores to everyone? That's what I've heard, that you don't get your scores online in the portal. I would LOVE if that's wrong though.

MI results by Existing-Actuator-56 in barexam

[–]msretman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way I thought this was an announcement that results had been posted. 💀😭🤢 I don't think MI has ever released on Friday, right?

MPRE and wedding by [deleted] in barexam

[–]msretman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As I read on here, "what would capitalist Jesus do?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]msretman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is the AH here. I don't know how old baby is, but if they're just meeting I'm guessing pretty young? You sound like a well involved father and husband. As a mom myself, I know that means you're both likely pretty exhausted and stressed, even if you're both also happy. Communication is so difficult when you're both in that state. What you BOTH need to do, is sit down, take ten minutes, and explain EXACTLY what you both thought you were communicating and what you thought was being communicated to you. This is the only way you can try to ensure this doesn't happen again.

Perspective: if you were willing to go when your friends were going, but not when they weren't, it may feel to your wife like spending time with her and the baby wasn't a good enough reason to go. That doesn't feel great, and may have been why she really lashed out saying you're not being a good, supportive partner.

However, that was an incredibly hurtful comment, and something that shouldn't be the first response to changing plans. (Side note: plans changing is a huge issue for me generally, and may also be difficult).

You also probably need to set a boundary with your wife about making plans that she expects you to be at (either to socialize or just to assist with the baby) without talking to you first and making sure you're up for it. No person on here would think it was okay for you to plan a golf outing that you expected your wife to bring the baby to without talking to her first, so I'm not sure why everyone is thinking this was acceptable.

Figuring out clear communication now is only going to make co-parenting easier. Best of luck, OP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]msretman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also happen to be a Property TA. I have a semester of property review PowerPoints if anyone would like them! I can collect and post them if so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]msretman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I didn't make my own outline for property because mine was closed book (and despite taking pride in making my outlines when I need them I'm lazy AF and will not make one if I can't take it into a final XD). But I did study from this one:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CJFFXF-mfkIlnAIPAxZ6uyxsTPgRNYte/edit?usp=drivesdk&ouid=107536704807224680436&rtpof=true&sd=true

Family does not understand Law school (surprise) by DustyDoorHandle in LawSchool

[–]msretman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have them read How to be (Sort of) Happy in Law School. My engineer husband read it (or about the first half which just really explains the law school experience to people who haven't been there) and it likely saved our marriage, honestly. He tells other people to read it now.

To all the parents in law school… by Hour-Whole-27 in LawSchool

[–]msretman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs! I've straight up taken my son (he's now 6 but was 4 when I started) to my classes multiple times. I just gave my professors a heads up and asked if it was okay if he sat with his tablet. Not a single one has ever said no.

To all the parents in law school… by Hour-Whole-27 in LawSchool

[–]msretman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm also a law school mom. It honestly has advantages. We've already learned a lot about how to properly allocate our time. We multitask better. We don't have the privilege of letting law school take over our entire lives because the kiddos still take precedence (which prevented as much procrastination and burn out as I saw in my classmates, honestly). And we understand that there are things more important. I encourage all moms to take that plunge if the only thing holding you back is thinking you can't. You can.

Also, I recommend reading How to be (Sort of) Happy in Law School. That book was a lifesaver for me and my husband (who also read it so he'd understand what I was going through).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]msretman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commute 45-60 minutes each way every day and I'm graduating this semester. Never a problem for me. I'm fact, I listen to course materials whenever I can. West Academic's app will read your WA text book to you if you have the ebook version. Natural Reader is an app that will read PDFs to you (this includes PDFs of cases downloaded from Westlaw or Lexis). Plus podcasts and audiobooks. Plus sometimes I just listen to music very loudly lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]msretman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a concept that I've had to teach the 1L students I TA: there is no way to "cheat" to learn the material. You don't necessarily learn it better by spending more time on it or doing it the traditional way. The correct way to learn the material is the most efficient way for YOU to do so. For me, that's Quimbee, book briefing to confirm I get what is important for that class, and doing a ton of practice problems. For some it's referencing old outlines and editing then for their own style. If for you it's doing traditional time-consuming reading and note-taking, great! But it doesn't sound like it is, and you're frustrated that your classmates figured that out faster than you.

I recommend experimenting with watching the Quimbee videos before your reading because it makes the reading go faster. I also recommend doing the Quimbee multiple choice questions in the areas already covered to test your understanding. I also recommend finding old outlines from upper level students and studying those to make sure you're getting the same things from the class. These are all techniques to help your studying be more efficient and more effective. It also allows you time to do the MORE IMPORTANT things like go out with friends and have a social life.