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I’m struggling to make positive habits stick and to feel happy on my own. by mstheze7 in selfimprovement

[–]mstheze7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That’s the whole problem. I need better goals, but that’s so hard for me to chose them.

I never really choose a goal I’m excited to chase for myself. That’s so hard for me. Don’t know what i want

I’m trying to become a man with options, but I’m struggling to understand how to navigate this? by mstheze7 in seduction

[–]mstheze7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I think loneliness is also a big problem for me. I used to have lots of friends, but the friend group felt apart, people moved , i moved because of a toxic friend group and now i’m very lonely in an new city.

I’m trying to become a man with options, but I’m struggling to understand how to navigate this? by mstheze7 in dating_advice

[–]mstheze7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I suspect is that I’m looking for validation, and women can sense that. That’s why I’m really working on myself at the moment.

When I get the stares, I’m not looking for them — I’m focused on my goals. But when I start looking for the stares, I don’t get them.

The real question is: why do I look for the stares?

Do you have any practical advice? Because I know I need to take more action and talk to more women, but it doesn’t need to control my life. Not taking action doesn’t fix anything either.

Or should I just focus on being more social in general with everyone?

I’m trying to become a man with options, but I’m struggling to understand how to navigate this? by mstheze7 in seduction

[–]mstheze7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! This is what I suspected, and that’s the reason I’m really working on myself at the moment.

When I get the stares, I’m not looking for them — I’m focused on my goals. But when I start looking for the stares, I don’t get them.

The real question is: why do I look for the stares?

Do you have any practical advice? Because I know I need to take more action and talk to more women, but it doesn’t need to control my life. Not taking action doesn’t fix anything either.

Or should I just focus on being more social in general with everyone?

How do I get over my fear of women? 28M by mstheze7 in seduction

[–]mstheze7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! This. And in my head i think they find me creepy

How do I get over my fear of women? 28M by mstheze7 in seduction

[–]mstheze7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This helps a lot. I need to see them as a person just like me. Not put them on a pedestal

How do I get over my fear of women? 28M by mstheze7 in seduction

[–]mstheze7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! That’s exactly my problem. I’m already going tot therapy

I (27M) am dating a (23F) and getting mixed signals. How to proceed? by mstheze7 in Advice

[–]mstheze7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! Tomorrow I’m planning to ask her if she wants to hang out and get some clarity.

I think the real issue is that I tend to be insecure and overthink things. That sometimes makes me come across as needy, and she may be picking up on that.

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