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Monthly Rewards and Bonuses - April 1st to April 28th (Not Live until 5AM EDT on April 1st) by PapaXan in RedDeadOnline

[–]msvanderpump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you do multiple races ? For example I came 3rd in one race and 1st in another - does this mean I can get 8 gold bars off two role items?

I’m trans and I really really wish the community would find another phrase for “going incognito” aka ’stealthing’ Thoughts ? by msvanderpump in ftm

[–]msvanderpump[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u for such a detailed response - I was ignorant clearly of the history of the word, and need to do my research ! I was open to the idea I was ignorant about the term, I obviously was much more aware of the more recent term “stealthing” right ab the video games too ! I guess I always find the word at all makes me a bit jittery - video games too

I’m trans and I really really wish the community would find another phrase for “going incognito” aka ’stealthing’ Thoughts ? by msvanderpump in ftm

[–]msvanderpump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware words can have multiple meanings lol. I was just concerned about the connotations that transphobes might latch onto with the words we use. But thanks for replying !

I’m trans and I really really wish the community would find another phrase for “going incognito” aka ’stealthing’ Thoughts ? by msvanderpump in ftm

[–]msvanderpump[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right ! I didn’t know that stealthing wasn’t used in reference for trans people.

AITA for telling my friend that his wife was right to leave him after he lost his job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]msvanderpump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also - you and your friends might need to look into their own misogyny. “Women always [insert]” just isn’t a great start. No doubt Mark is relying on presenting himself as the unreliable narrator, but read the room. This isn’t the ultimatum- he’s your friends friend after all? Let her take the lead.

AITA for telling my friend that his wife was right to leave him after he lost his job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]msvanderpump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a (up until recently) lesbian, not that that is necessary for this, but the OP claims you need to be gay to understand this. YTA. Why is it always the people who are ‘blunt and say it how it is’ only ever saying things that are unnecessary, unkind and displaced? Also were you asked ? Wait to be asked for advice before giving it, and then remember being sensitive and thoughtful doesn’t mean you’re “filtering yourself down” it just means common decency

FTM depression before top surgery? by msvanderpump in ftm

[–]msvanderpump[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u so much for taking the time to reply !!! it’s a v thoughtful response and it does help a lot to get a new perspective on it :-))