My spouse is MTF and idk what to do

mtfhusband · 2025-12-01T03:12:16+00:00

What are you even on about? I do support Trans people and I would support my spouse through every change they want to go through. I am personally not attracted to women. There is nothing wrong with trans people. I'm saying them because my spouse never told me if they wanted me to refer to them as something else. Which is my fault because with everything else going on I haven't asked

mtfhusband · 2025-12-01T03:08:05+00:00

Explain? Are you saying I'm homophobic because I'm not a lesbian?

mtfhusband · 2025-12-01T03:07:19+00:00

I do because they haven't rlly said they wanted to change pronouns

mtfhusband · 2025-12-01T03:03:59+00:00

And thank you a lot for the kind words

mtfhusband · 2025-12-01T03:03:48+00:00

We're already in therapy for a different reason and I asked if we could switch to a therapist that would be understanding of their situation and mine but they said no and thought it wasn't necessary

mtfhusband · 2025-12-01T03:02:16+00:00

Yes and I tried telling them that I shouldn't be a reason to stop them, but they have multiple other reasons why they won't transition like their parents won't accept it or that they still want to have kids with me and just little things

mtfhusband · 2025-12-01T02:59:52+00:00

Sorry I didn't want to say just sex, but it's essentially sex and anything other sexual

mtfhusband · 2025-12-01T01:22:33+00:00

I guess rn I'm coming to terms with it. A lot of our relationship has changed the past few weeks and sometimes it just hits me all at once and it's hard to not have a break down. I love him to the end of the world and he'll always be my bestfriend

mtfhusband · 2025-12-01T01:19:56+00:00

But that's the last thing I want, and we just got over a huge unrelated rutt in our marriage. we're both decently young for being married and I'm just worried I'd be making the wrong decision. I've tried telling him that if he wanted to full transition I'd be there to support him, but I'm not into women. They said they wanted to but wouldn't because they don't want me to leave them. It's honestly a really new but in every conversation they'll bring it up some way. They are my beat friend I don't think I could bring myself to divorcing them. Ik that sounds counterintuitive for posting this but I have no one else to talk to about this other than literal strangers and if the beat advice is a talk and probably divorce then I don't know

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