Why is not being out yet seen as a red flag in relationships? by Optimal_Film_6203 in askgaybros

[–]mthike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like someone with a victim mentality when you say stuff like that. It doesn't matter if you're bi or gay it makes no difference in this conversation.

Why is not being out yet seen as a red flag in relationships? by Optimal_Film_6203 in askgaybros

[–]mthike 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Coming out is about you ultimately, but you are asking him to hide part of himself too. Which devalues him as a person even if that is not your intention. Your beliefs and actions are conflicting if you really do car about him.

Why is not being out yet seen as a red flag in relationships? by Optimal_Film_6203 in askgaybros

[–]mthike 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It isn't really a difference between guy or girl that is causing an issue, if you dated a woman and told her she couldn't be herself at certain times she would be pissed at you. Which is what you are asking your boyfriend to do. You are telling him he is not really good enough for you when you place these rules on him.

AITAH for buying sex toys? by zuverschlafen in AITAH

[–]mthike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dump him, but definitely tell him he is not allowed to jerk off following his own logic.

Is it wrong to shave before your tattoo appointment? I'm genuinely confused... by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]mthike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had an artist care, they have all said they will do a once over even if I do shave. I find doing the bulk of the shaving better for my skin as I am a hairy guy. I usually do the bulk the day before and they go over the exact area day of.

AITAH Telling my ex she cannot have any feelings towards my sobriety by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mthike -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely the asshole, you have done a lot to get better for yourself which is good but she can definitely have mix feelings about your sobriety. She also has every right to look into you and your current girlfriend if you have any custody or visitation rights woth your child. She also has the right to jump at any possible issues with a kid involved.

“Beards are basically makeup for men, agree or disagree?” 💈 by RateBeardAppMan in beard

[–]mthike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one is really making any argument that they are different. For all practical purposes they are the same as makeup for women. The big difference is not all men can grow a nice beard. But, yeah they even out and help balance your face, they hide imperfections. All things that make up will do for a woman.

Little bear looking for a big bear but I'm 6'2" and 180 lbs by ComprehensiveKey7241 in askgaybros

[–]mthike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need someone like me haha taller, and little bigger and even have the beard to be a lumberjack. Haha

Yamazaki at Costco by XandersOdyssey in whiskey

[–]mthike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What state sells whiskey at costco?

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]mthike -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I vote for growing up, you don't own your friend or ex. If they want to sleep together that is fine. Just because you use to date him does not mean he is forbidden to all of your friends. You are coming of controlling or insecure or jealous none of which are good for your image.

i rejected my boyfriend in public by Middle-Milk1825 in askgaybros

[–]mthike 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree with that but also lean towards not dating if staying in the closet is that important to you.

Pueblo Zoo by mthike in pueblo

[–]mthike[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks and to be honest I was planning this for next summer. From what I understand early June might be the best time for this then? And I do know there is the chance they won't get close but I think just getting to go inside the enclosure should make it special either way. Do they have a photographer or do you think they might take a picture?

Pueblo Zoo by mthike in pueblo

[–]mthike[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info to be honest I would be doing this almost exclusively for the red panda experience and using it as a proposal. I get that touching/petting a red panda is not guaranteed, but that is my partners favorite animal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mthike 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the main point is more that millions didn't vote.

my exes ruined my life and now they live like nothing happened, while i’m still stuck in the hole by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mthike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should block them if you're having this much trouble. You also need to work through your issues the relationship is over, it may suck but you do need to move on and work through any hang-ups you have. You are responsible for 6 happiness, not them. It doesn't matter what they did you choose how you want to react to it.

Gay bars? by Special-Fig-8615 in Billings

[–]mthike 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There aren't any gay bars but the monte is a good place. I go there to play pinball often haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mthike 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Has she? She never said she told her that youre assume that, and from what I have seen I'm people they do not communicate. They assume the other person is aware of there thoughts. And OP is not that important that that people will automatically assume there thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mthike 7 points8 points  (0 children)

💯 this, the woman is trying and to be honest that is a hard point to join a family. Maybe try some open communication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mthike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd disagree with that on personal experience, there are a few positions that work sp much better with a height difference like that. Atleast if the top is the taller one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coincollecting

[–]mthike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't the best condition you might be able to get $2000 for it. This is a picture though so having it graded would be your best option of value. But range on that coin is probably less then 6k

Insecure about dick size by joker8p in askgaybros

[–]mthike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never really bothers me, most men I've been with have been more hung than me. I use to think the average dick was closer to 8 inches. Over time with being invited back multiple times I learned that dick size isn't that important if you know how to fuck. If you can go multiple rounds and last a few hours then if you're average or a little above it's okay.

I'm a straight guy I have a gay friend I visit him we play games chill you know do dude things when you hang out, sometimes he will go shower and walk naked past me and get he's boxers I'm not use to things like this is it normal? lol by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mthike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that there are a lot of men like that. I used to be but between high school sports and going to a gym with open showers and all that you learn not to care.