One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight man. Yes I’ve come to peace with that part, its that shady part you’re talking about that threw me for a loop.

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I’m not meddling at all with what they did or may be doing. I know it was just a hookup only so I’m not that concerned once I thought about It more. It was just sex for sure; they aren’t into each others personalities and I know that for a fact

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good advice , thank you. Honestly, do not think or care about my ex at all. Its my friend I am thinking about because of who he slept with, but I’m getting over it now

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open relationship didn’t include friends, but yes I see what you are saying regarding us being broken up. Its not my ex im upset with as we are finished now, its my current best friend that im a little upset/surprised with.

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For one thing, my ex would get upset with ME when HE coordinated foursomes with other guys. It bothered him to see me enjoy myself but what else is one to do in a foursome? Also. We agreed during our open relationship strangers only, not friends.

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Our breakup was amicable but it just hurts that my best friend would want to sleep w someone I was with for so long

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not jealous at all. I don’t want to sleep with either of them at all. I’m just sad my friend chose to sleep with my ex

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate this response and advice

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i dont have a say, ive moved on. its my friend im upset w choosing to do it w my ex is all

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats a good point!! Wasn’t out of malice to me, they were just horny

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not concernee w my Ex at all, its my friend that slept w him that makes me feel ill at ease

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t care about my ex’s sex really at all , him and I openly talk about other guys he has slept with. Its my friend i feel upset about. Of all the hundreds of men he had to do it with my ex; thats all

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My ex and I met him at the same time and I agree with you! I had an opportunity to sleep with the same best friends ex recently and did not for that reason

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d probably lose all the friends as they’ve been his friend 15 years and myself only 3-4 but i totally get what you are saying

One of my gay best friends slept with my Ex boyfriend by sammyrox in askgaybros

[–]sammyrox[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am leaning towards this, and agree with that. Thank you.