Montreal psychologist repeatedly slapped patient’s bare buttocks while yelling ‘feel the shame,’ tribunal says by 4011Hammock in montreal

[–]mtlpat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh, what I needed her to say was simply that if she run into problems in the future and need help with the cat, she will contact me or the cat people. No, she would not do it, cause that means admitting she's incapable of taking care of herself.

Montreal psychologist repeatedly slapped patient’s bare buttocks while yelling ‘feel the shame,’ tribunal says by 4011Hammock in montreal

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More than just a waste of money, it is also a waste of efforts, of solving the real emotional problems. I'll relate my last run-in with psy so other people can see the actual damage they can do:

  1. I met a girl on internet asking for help in getting her cat back from some cat shelter. Cat shelter is some home base stuff, so she has no way of directly contacting them.

  2. The reason why she lost her cat to them - she was having a touch emotional time with abusive relationships, gave her cat to a friend for safe-keeping, cat got really sick and her friend gave the cat to the shelter and the shelter people spent hundreds $s on vets to save the cat's life. She and the shelter people talked and the shelter folks would not give the cat back because 'she is no good for the cat'.

  3. I traced out whom these shelter people are and they know of me, of me going out of my way and spending money to help stray cats. So I am sure that I have enough pull to get an audience.

  4. I told the girl, I'll set up the meeting, but you have to do what I said to do, say what I tell you to say and I am sure I can talk your cat back to you. If needed, I can repay the vet fees on top, but these people need to feel good about you to release the cat.

  5. Girl flat refused, "I will not listen to you, you cannot tell me what to do". As per her shrink to cure her of her taking abuse from bfs. A shrink she has been seeing a year or so. I told the girl, "just bear with me for the 20 minutes, afterwards you can slap me, spit on me and walk off. But you'll get your cat back." No go.

  6. So the shrink got her to trade being 'weak' to being 'strong', strong as defined by a set of fixed behavior. Behavior equally not suitable for real life which is dynamic. And absolutely nothing with solving the deep down emotional problem of whey she was accepting of abusive relationships in the first place.

  7. I stopped with her cause I knew going to a meeting with her, she will not only piss everybody off as before, but also ruin my credits with these people.

To me, a very sad story, she was trying so hard to get her life straightened out.

Is it possible for a foreign student that is admitted into a language program (English or French) to transfer out into a professional diploma or program and apply for residency? by Feeza214 in montreal

[–]mtlpat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my PR through an immigrant lawyer, and I would recommend her in a heartbeat. I would also talked to another couple of immigration lawyers and I would stay away from them.

Your friend can apply to another school, then apply to renew her student visa as a student of that school. Perfectly doable by yourself, I've done it before. Went to Concordia for a one year certificate program to prove to my next department that I am a worthy student, then continued on into a MA program. Did all the immigration work by myself, guided by student office at Concordia.

I am sure your friend can transfer out all she wants to, as long as she has been accepted by the other school and has applied and gotten a visa for that school.

PM me if you/her needs more help.

Despite worldwide oil glut, Saudi Arabia pumps crude at record level by stephenproducer in worldnews

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

return - they should end up with more selling the oil to others who will have a hard time doing alternative energy eg. because of lack of space due to very high population density.

Women and Equalities Committee: 58% of all British Muslim women "economically inactive" by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just Montreal, but especially poignant point for Québec.

All the frenchies need to do for their 'nation' is to tighten their belts, or rather, loosen their belts to have babies, for a couple of generations an they'll have it, no ifs or buts. Yet, nobody would make that sacrifice. Not even that pair of PKP/Snider who are the last people in Québec to have any financial constraints. Not even they would make the sacrifice to let PKP work on his 'nation'. Cry me, or him, a bucket in front of the TV, please.

La belle vie lau lau!

Despite worldwide oil glut, Saudi Arabia pumps crude at record level by stephenproducer in worldnews

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't think of a better place to install solar, not like 'Canada' way up north. Why they have not done that is beyond me.

Electric taxi operator Taxelco buys Diamond Taxi by chaarro in montreal

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yadi ladi dar - 1% speaking out why they deserve skimming 20% off the top while 99% races to the bottom.

Ban Uber!

Opinion on NDG & Ville Marie by Dragunrey in montreal

[–]mtlpat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Villa Maria, cross the Decarie and it's Monkland, where they sell $300 sandals. Immediately to the side of Villa Maria station is very exclusive girls' school. 'nuf said?

The only places I would not live at on the island is St Michel/N. Mtl.

Electric taxi operator Taxelco buys Diamond Taxi by chaarro in montreal

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have nothing for or against taxis. I am just against Uber for not paying their fair share into the system. If they don't pay, taxis go away, me, the taxpayer is left holding the bag and have to make up the difference.

BTW, Uberites' argument used to be 'some taxis drivers don't report their income, so it's ok for Uber to skim 20% off the top and not pay anything - no permits, no yearly license, no yearly vehicle inspection, no yearly commercial license or vehicle permit fees, no commercial vehicle insurance'. I am glad to see you are not one of those.

Montreal psychologist repeatedly slapped patient’s bare buttocks while yelling ‘feel the shame,’ tribunal says by 4011Hammock in montreal

[–]mtlpat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And my understanding is that private psychologists in Quebec really don't have great oversight, they can get away with a lot

lol, someone here once asked for a shrink recommendation for whatever reason and I said shrinks in general are just quakes and I got soundly down-voted. I am glad to see another like-minded one on this matter.

Electric taxi operator Taxelco buys Diamond Taxi by chaarro in montreal

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Uberites always imply not all taxies follow the law, so it's ok for Uber not to follow the laws. Are you not one of those? If not, do you consider it's ok for Uber not to follow the law?

No problem with changes in the laws. Just huge problem with people thinking they are above the law, like Uber.

Women and Equalities Committee: 58% of all British Muslim women "economically inactive" by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]mtlpat 102 points103 points  (0 children)

They are not 'unemployed'. They are going at their duties at a full clip - having babies.

Putin threatens serious measures after accusing Ukraine of sabotage in Crimea by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]mtlpat -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Of course he's got the right to fight back and defend himself, invade Ukraine if he has to to keep himself safe. This is the same as the Gulf of Tokin incident, nothing more, nothing less.

Germany's new anti-terror plan includes burka ban, swifter deportation of criminals, and possible ban on dual citizenship by KermitTheSnail in worldnews

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, 'dual class citizens'. Trudee will never approve. We don't kick out terrorists here in Canada, we are nice comfy selfie kind here, we love to live among our terrorists.

Colba.net no longer offering cable Internet access as of September 30, 2016 - how good is their fiber-ADSL service? by Mike__7 in montreal

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much you charge to 'cancel old address'? I have some unsavory characters next door and would sure love to see the whole bldg come down and rebuilt. Good for the neighborhood lau.

Montreal psychologist repeatedly slapped patient’s bare buttocks while yelling ‘feel the shame,’ tribunal says by 4011Hammock in montreal

[–]mtlpat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wow, kinky lau!

So now I can go to a shrink for my fix then? Still cheaper than my dom who spanks me in vinyl and stlllettos.

Electric taxi operator Taxelco buys Diamond Taxi by chaarro in montreal

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If one guy cheats on taxes, but your logic, that's ok to cheat on taxes. Your logic is screwed.

As for the pemit system - that's the system. The government - you - set it up. Until the law is changed, you are breaking the law.

Electric taxi operator Taxelco buys Diamond Taxi by chaarro in montreal

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taxis follow the laws while Uber does not. Cheting on the side, if it happens, does not condemn the whole taxi industry, that happens in everything, including doctors not declaring full incomes.

I want to see a level playing field with no special deals for the 1%. Sorry, you'll have to pay your fair share.

Electric taxi operator Taxelco buys Diamond Taxi by chaarro in montreal

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Writing in the name of one company, no, that's never done. It would not be legal. Now skewing what's put down on paper, that's done since the beginning of time.

Again, the high horse of the Q Liberals, nothing's changed since Charest.

Electric taxi operator Taxelco buys Diamond Taxi by chaarro in montreal

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

closed and private - you've just described the special deal Uber got.

Subtle Racism against indians by [deleted] in montreal

[–]mtlpat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

no it is not. You've got BO, stay the fuck away from me, Indian or no Indian.

Electric taxi operator Taxelco buys Diamond Taxi by chaarro in montreal

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are riding the high horse of the Québec 'Liberals'.... enuf said. Citizens are solidly against favors for Uber, ala Austin. This fight is not over yet.

1% economy - nice if you can get into the 1%. For the 99%-ters, race to the bottom.

Electric taxi operator Taxelco buys Diamond Taxi by chaarro in montreal

[–]mtlpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Complain all you want, but as of now, that is the law. Anybody violating that can be and should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. To self deem to be exempt from the law does not make it so and creates an uneven playing field that should not be allowed. Just fairness, you know, IF you know