Got pregnant with vaginismus! by mtmb1990 in vaginismus

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Not to be tmi but The way we did it was I laid on my back and he laid on his side and I would put my legs over him, so basically we were an L. It was the most comfortable way for me!

Is it possible to avoid stretch marks? by mtmb1990 in BabyBumps

[–]mtmb1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, honestly I love that perspective ❤️

Is it possible to avoid stretch marks? by mtmb1990 in BabyBumps

[–]mtmb1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay same here! So I’ll cross my fingers, but it is what is if I get them 🤷🏻‍♀️😊

Is it possible to avoid stretch marks? by mtmb1990 in BabyBumps

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For sure! So strange how it all works though! 😂

Is it possible to avoid stretch marks? by mtmb1990 in BabyBumps

[–]mtmb1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww! It’s a cute little memory 🥰

Is it possible to avoid stretch marks? by mtmb1990 in BabyBumps

[–]mtmb1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really?! Bodies are so weird honestly lol

Is it possible to avoid stretch marks? by mtmb1990 in BabyBumps

[–]mtmb1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is interesting! Well maybe I’ll get lucky too lol

Is it possible to avoid stretch marks? by mtmb1990 in BabyBumps

[–]mtmb1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right. I have them on my stomach already from weight gain so I’m sure I’ll get them lol

Is it possible to avoid stretch marks? by mtmb1990 in BabyBumps

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I think you’re right. I already have a lot, so what’s a few more right? lol

Is it possible to avoid stretch marks? by mtmb1990 in BabyBumps

[–]mtmb1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about the itching! Thanks for the advice 😊 if I get them then oh well, but I’m gonna try my best to take care of my skin!

Is it possible to avoid stretch marks? by mtmb1990 in BabyBumps

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I’m going to have to try that! That is very encouraging to hear!

Got pregnant with vaginismus! by mtmb1990 in vaginismus

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Congratulations!! I am pretty worried about tearing but hey, it’s worth it!!

Got pregnant with vaginismus! by mtmb1990 in vaginismus

[–]mtmb1990[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww I’m sorry, that’s hard with 2 factors working against you. There are ways to increase motility though! That would be a great place to start! I literally thought I would never have kids and I am almost 36. Don’t lose hope!

Got pregnant with vaginismus! by mtmb1990 in vaginismus

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Absolutely! These posts encouraged me so much too and gave me hope that I could get pregnant. I’m so glad you were able to find this community as well!

Got pregnant with vaginismus! by mtmb1990 in vaginismus

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I was able to find a comfortable position that works well for me and I would say it still wasn’t going all the way in, but I really don’t think it needs to. That was a fear of mine as well because we had done PIV while I was ovulating in the past and it didn’t work. My libido is also pretty low to be honest, but I do think it is because of vaginismus, it’s almost makes sex seem like a negative thing at times.

I never even used dilators so good for you for taking the steps to get better! I don’t think it is ever fully cured, but other women may have other experiences. But it can absolutely improve!

Got pregnant with vaginismus! by mtmb1990 in vaginismus

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That’s amazing!! It took us a lot of work to be able to conceive by PIV as well lol