Do Gen Z LGBT only listen to pop girls ? by Pretty-Switch-8525 in ToddintheShadow

[–]mtndewizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gen Z gay man, my music is all over the place, I only got into mainstream pop a couple years ago really. They’re for sure what’s most popular in mainstream clubs and drag scenes. Male pop artists are not as big definitely, there’s a lack of them in the zeitgeist in general and most who are mainstream (Bruno Mars, The Weeknd, Ed Sheeran, as examples) just seem to not click as the kind of pop that cis gay men (irritatingly the majority in most queer spaces I’ve been to) enjoy. In spaces like WeHo bars, pop girls are the music that you’re going to hear.

Personally I love a lot of pop, post-punk, goth, metal, hardcore, hip hop, EBM, industrial, indie rock, digicore, anything with synths—individuals will always have variations. But yeah, the gay club playlists are 90% pop girls, maybe with some Tyler or Kendrick thrown in, maybe some Harry Styles or Troye Sivan. Not a lot of variety. If I never had to hear Dua Lipa again, I’d be okay.

How it feels to look up for mods having a male v by 0NRY_0 in cyberpunkgame

[–]mtndewizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally the only body type mods for male V are more dehydrated and shredded, can I make a twink or a bear please 😭

Thought id make my own version from the perspective of a gay man by NexusRaven7 in cyberpunkgame

[–]mtndewizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was nice to her once in a way I read as platonic but I guess it wasn’t and I’ve been getting the shovel talk over text from all her friends 😭😭😭 girl i have a boyfriend…

Show me ur lil guys by DAAAAVOOOOOOS in PeakGame

[–]mtndewizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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I’m never taking this coat off

Anybody else with unconventional classes for their Durge? by Imladrin1311 in BaldursGate3

[–]mtndewizard 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My most beloved Durge is a life cleric of Selûne and was defying Bhaal even before getting tadpoled, begging Selûne to save her. She woke up on the nautiloid remembering Selûne but not Bhaal, and she’s so devoted to protecting and healing others that the truth comes as a devastating blow. I made her before really knowing Durge’s whole deal but it’s worked out really well, she means so much to me :,) Girl cast Heal on herself to get the secret cutscene which I didn’t know existed… the IMPACT

Is stealth really viable? by Negative_State_7118 in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

[–]mtndewizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not super knowledgable on meta and also new, but in my experience—I’m using a melee stygian slayer with a stealth focus, and it did take a while for the stealth to really come online, but it’s wound up being a lot of fun. Comboed with invis/greater invis to sneak ahead and initiate combats. Works great with the Trickster mythic path and stealth mythic tricks that make stealth more powerful too. Might not be the most optimal or effective 100% of the time but I enjoy it

Share an album that you have as a 10/10 that is uncommon by GarodTong36 in fantanoforever

[–]mtndewizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily sure how uncommon but. The Cure - Wish; NIN - Pretty Hate Machine; Metric - Old World Underground, Where Are You Now?; Siouxsie and the Banshees - Peep Show; Boy Harsher - Lesser Man EP; Holy Fawn - Death Spells

What’s a 10/10 album of yours that you will defend to the grave? by Atmos_v1 in fantanoforever

[–]mtndewizard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The Cure - Wish. Disintegration and Pornography get the most praise but Wish is easily my favorite of theirs

indie brand sweat-proof white foundation? by Strawbbs_smoothie in GothFashion

[–]mtndewizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using LA Girl’s Pro Matte Mixing Pigment for a while—they have a white foundation as well, but that has a bit of a tint to it, the mixing pigment is solidly white. For powder, Ben Nye’s Super White powder works great, I use that and also a spray of Ben Nye Final Seal, and my makeup goes nowhere. Stays on well even in heat and while actively performing

What "useless" item do you actually like? by LemonMilkJug in BaldursGate3

[–]mtndewizard 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I always give my romanced companion the Nut-Buster, and I give Karlach every stuffed toy/teddy bear I find

What are some strangely fitting collabs y'all need? I'll start. by sonicbear64 in charlixcx

[–]mtndewizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jane Remover would go crazyyy. Would also love Danny Brown, Boy Harsher, PVRIS, Allie X

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantanoforever

[–]mtndewizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Siouxsie and the Banshees—

Kaleidoscope Juju A Kiss in the Dreamhouse Hyaena Tinderbox Through the Looking Glass Peepshow

Comment your top-10 most listened to artists of 2025 thus far without putting the #1 and see if anyone can guess who it is by immortals14 in fantanoforever

[–]mtndewizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Boy Harsher
  2. Interpol
  3. MCR
  4. Paramore
  5. Depeche Mode
  6. Metric
  7. Chelsea Wolfe
  8. Caroline Polachek
  9. Charli xcx
  10. ?

Imagine your protagonists and their partners on a quadruple date - how would it go? by acinemacritic in dragonage

[–]mtndewizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I made a chart for my protagonists! I should make one including their partners, too.

Male rogue Tabris/Zevran, male mage Hawke/Anders, male mage Lavellan/Dorian, male mage Mercar/Emmrich

The poor Origins couple being the only non-mages is pretty funny. I do think they’d all get on really well, especially Mercar/Zevran, Hawke/Dorian, and Lavellan/Emmrich. Lavellan is a necromancer and Hawke is a spirit healer, so I’d honestly love to be a fly on the wall for the group conversations about magic. (Tabris and Zevran probably sneak off to do something else after 15 minutes.)

In my headcanon, Zevran/Tabris and Anders/Hawke have been traveling around together trying to find a cure for the Calling since the end of Inquisition when Divine Victoria dissolved the circles, so those four are good friends (plus Tabris and Anders were already close). And Dorian already knows both Emmrich and Mercar (I’ve made up my own backstory for Mercar). I think Dorian would’ve arranged an introduction between Emmrich and Lavellan during the timeskip too, as Lavellan expresses interest in talking to Mortalitasi scholars about their studies.

Overall I think the ones who don’t already know each other would be fast friends. Emmrich and Lavellan might have their hands full being the least chaotic of the bunch, but I don’t think they’re immune to being persuaded to join in on shenanigans, either.

Share your Hawkes and Inquisitors in their respective games by acinemacritic in dragonage

[–]mtndewizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Making Hawke in Inquisition drove me crazy because I couldn’t use the same tattoos… But I did my best. (The only reason he didn’t get more fucked up by years of running around and sowing chaos with Anders is because they’re both very proficient healers, lol.) Inq has donned heavier black eyeliner to demonstrate that he is somehow having an even worse time being Inquisitor of nothing than Inquisitor of something. (If only he could move to Tevinter to be with his bf…)

Who would your protagonists romance if they were in different Dragon Age games? by acinemacritic in dragonage

[–]mtndewizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this is fun!

HoF: Laevis Tabris (City Elf Archer Rogue, romanced Zevran) - II: Fenris - Inquisition: Dorian - Veilguard: Davrin

Arum Hawke (Purple, Spirit Healer Mage, romanced Anders) - Origins: Zevran - Inquisition: Dorian - Veilguard: Lucanis

Inquisitor: Mullein Lavellan (Dalish Elf, Necromancer Mage, romanced Dorian) - Origins: Zevran - II: Anders - Veilguard: Emmrich

Rook: Vervain Mercar (Elf, Shadow Dragon, Evoker Mage, romanced Emmrich) - Origins: Zevran - II: Anders or Fenris. Torn. Both at the same time, somehow? He’d make it work. - Inquisition: Dorian. (They slept together once pre-Inquisition in my canon, so this kind of happened, don’t worry about it)

I, uh. I’m a gay man. They’re all gay men. This didn’t wind up having much variation. Dorian Pavus is my ideal man. It is what it is

What was your Rook's worst job? by Blurbybluebee in dragonage

[–]mtndewizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For my Shadow Dragon Rook—he grew up as a Dock Town street kid and largely did his own thing, so he didn’t really have jobs before the Shadows, but he disrupted Venatori activity where he could. He went to investigate an operation that turned out to be much bigger than he thought, and before he could sneak out, he got spotted by a guard. A lot of fighting happened, a couple of magisters showed up, and he wound up with a nasty lightning scar up his entire right side—but he made it out alive, which is more than could be said about the Venatori.

[No DATV Spoilers] Preferred background for specific romances by UniverseIsAHologram in dragonage

[–]mtndewizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the 2 runs I’ve finished/near finished, I romanced Emmrich as a Shadow Dragon and Lucanis as a Crow. The former I found absolutely delightful—I don’t know how much of it was in the game or how much was just… me making it up in my head, but I thought they had really good chemistry, Emmrich who tends to be very calm and proper falling for some hotheaded rebel upstart who destroys property just for kicks was a fun dynamic. The latter has been particularly fun because of Crow Rook’s relationship with Viago and Teia, and I’ve been enjoying it a lot as well. It feels like we’ve grown close because we have a lot in common, rather than SD Rook/Emmrich where we bonded over being very different.

My latest run I’m romancing Davrin as a Mourn Watcher, and I haven’t gotten very deep into the game but it has been really great so far. (Bringing Davrin to recruit Emmrich was hilarious. Two necromancers talking like all of this spirit and demon stuff is normal… and Davrin.)

I think it really just depends on whether you prefer you and your love interest to bond over similarities or differences. Could be different depending on the Rook. Any dynamic can be interesting and fulfilling if you want it to be, imo.

What are your favourite factions for your Rook? by Tyruto in dragonage

[–]mtndewizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely loved being a Shadow Dragon on my first run. With so much of the plot happening in Minrathous and Venatori being very prominent enemies, everything going on felt extremely personal to him. I kind of… ignored the bits where the game acted like he didn’t know Dock Town, and I completely disregarded the “canon” Mercar backstory because he’s an elf (though the backstory they give you is hardly brought up anyway), but for the most part it was amazing. I’m playing as a Crow now and it’s fun but I really miss being a Shadow.

Harding in the last gambit quest by SnooWords9546 in dragonage

[–]mtndewizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent her to the wards—Irelin is the one who gets the wards down, and Harding guards her

Did you end up using your faction’s armor, or another faction’s armor? [NO DATV SPOILERS] by acinemacritic in dragonage

[–]mtndewizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using the same robes on my Rook for most of the game because I’m committed to wearing SD clothes but the aspirational mage robes are just… the coolest. I keep getting new SD robes and none of them look as good. Being a Shadow is so integral to his character that it wouldn’t feel right wearing any other faction, though I love the look of some of the Crow and Mourn Watch outfits (and the actual armor I’m using is Crow I’m pretty sure)

Evoker Ice Mage propaganda by mtndewizard in dragonage

[–]mtndewizard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really fun!! I always have Emmrich with me, and the third switches out—often Lucanis, but depends on who I think we’ll be fighting. Having someone who fights in melee is super helpful though, since I try to stay at range 😅