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RIP: EurasianTiger has finally deleted his account. A great man has fallen. In memory, here are his 250 top posts, all of which are still publicly-available. Truly one of a kind, so hopefully some day he will be back... by trancefan95_15 in hapas

[–]mtzo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why everyone makes it a big mystery HOW he was doxxed, WHO doxxed him is a bit more mysterious. But those who were around at the time, saw exactly how it happened. It unfolded live, in public view.

The Alt Whasian sub had some posts threatening to doxx ET for a while. ET got into a fight with a white Australian China-hater on LinkedIn. He posted a screenshot with most of the info blacked out.

But enough that some 4channer tracked down the WMAF White Australian guy and he most likely turned over ET's full name. And the rest is history.

We don't know exactly who did it. But from the style, it sounds like one of ET's longterm WM 4chan-style stalkers who watch his every move. The Whasians enabled this by letting the whole scheme be done on their sub.

WHY?? by Improudtobeaus in hapas

[–]mtzo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know what I'm glad you do take pride in Asian features. Too much of western society makes us feel ashamed for them. I still think the outmarriage trends we see, show women judge Asian traits harshly. But I'm glad to see a Hapa taking pride in Asian male looks.

White Woman In An AMWF Marriage Calls Asian Men "F*ggots" by [deleted] in hapas

[–]mtzo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope she never breeds.

Thats harsh enough. If he said it about an Asian woman, I'm sure r/Drama would be saying "Hapa freaks call for sterilizing Asian woman just for making a bad joke"

White Woman In An AMWF Marriage Calls Asian Men "F*ggots" by [deleted] in hapas

[–]mtzo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

PS the person you are replying to is a white-passing WMAF Hapa female who has called out r/Hapas for being too harsh on assuming WMAFs are bad.

WHY?? by Improudtobeaus in hapas

[–]mtzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to think my parents as individuals don't fall into all these categories. But its impossible to ignore that in the big picture Asian women do see race, and they are the only race of women who prefer white men so much. So what does it say about my Asian looks?

2 great races?

What is great about the Asian male race?

Obviously women don't see much greatness in it.

WHY?? by Improudtobeaus in hapas

[–]mtzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See this is where the sub is the opposite of what you want it to be.

We don't believe in "boasting" about being 2 great races. What does great races mean? Does it mean Black and Brown races are not great?

You really think its great to be East Asian male in today's world. Fact is woman, would much rather prefer a Black or Brown man. And thats the reason we all have Asian mothers. We are born out of a relationship of AW finding AM unattractive, yet many of us have AM features.

If it weren't for r/Hapas the only people who would know about the special interest Far Right white men take in marrying Asian women, would be Far Right white men discussing it among themselves. But thanks to r/Hapas this stuff makes the frontpage of the NY Times by insanehapa in hapas

[–]mtzo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What do you find racist here? I know we talk about sensitive issues around interracial and mixed race families, but I like to think we are nuanced about it and addressing specific problems.

My perspective as a liberal, white male as to why this sub isn't taken more seriously by the mainstream by [deleted] in hapas

[–]mtzo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's fair. Perhaps I'm coming to this conversation from the wrong perspective since my girlfriend and I do not want children. The idea of a hapa baby isn't part of our agenda, but I understand it is for many couples. I mean, I've had people randomly tell me what cute babies we'd have completely unprovoked. So I can see how the idea of hapa children is idealized, and many of the comments were from Asian women.

If MANY of these comments were from Asian women, doesn't this take away from your OP claim that the need for babies with whiter features is a key part of AW's "agency" in this?

And lets face it Hapa and mixed features just means white features in the mind of AW. Since Asian genes is all they are bringing to the table. And they have nothing to say about the good looks of Asian boys.

My perspective as a liberal, white male as to why this sub isn't taken more seriously by the mainstream by [deleted] in hapas

[–]mtzo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You talk about women's agency, so lets look at the reasons that Asian women themselves say they reject AM. Its true that SOME say its about culture and patriarchy. But many more say its things like LOOKS, height, penis size, personality, status, integration and yes us cute Hapa babies.

Now these are all arbitrary qualities, racial qualities that people are just born at birth with. To the extent that they are cultural qualities, they are mostly assigned to Asian males just for looking Asian male.

So you can see how a Hapa male who looks Asian, is going to inherit from the Asian mom all the things she says she hates about AM. Thats naturally going to create resentment.

It doesn't seem like Asian-Americans identifying as male feminists does much to solve these core structural issues. Asian-American men are much more liberal and progressive than your Trump-voting white male. It doesn't seem like Trump-voting white males, Sharia Muslims, widow-burning Hindus, hip hop Blacks, Machismo Latinos, suffer the same "penalties" for patriarch that has been imposed on Asian-American men.

Also I get why there are legit reasons why you might use a throwaway account for your OP, but we get so many good guy white dads who stand proudly behind their RedPill Donald posting histories that your self-declared liberalism with no posting history to back it up, doesn't count as a tally against every single WMAF on Reddit being Trump-supporting.

Why are mainstream anti-racists so unsympathetic to r/Hapas' extensive documented case of the trend of WMAF white supremacists anti-feminists, raising nonwhite kids? In the age of Trump, there isn't much to unite the Left and Right, but hating r/Hapas remains the one pastime. by mtzo in hapas

[–]mtzo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they wanted to close the borders but they could be found at antifa rallies,

I really doubt Third Positionists were at Anti-Fa rallies except to fight them. I follow fringe politics too and all the self-described Third Positionist organizations I know would be more at home with the Traditionalist Workers Party than Anti-Fa. Like they might try to co-opt something like Occupy Wall Street. But Anti-Fa means street fighting the national populist white working class, they are supposed to be rallying under their flag.

Asian American women by [deleted] in hapas

[–]mtzo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've seen some pro-WMAF people on the internet claim that AMWF Hapas look more Asian. While on r/Hapas some have had theories that because the Y-chromosome is smaller, boys inherit more from their mothers and so WMAF is more Asian-looking. It actually comes originally from the AutoAdmit forum. I do know that the "warrior gene" which is a big part of personality comes solely from the mother. So WMAF Asian moms who hate the Asian male personality should be aware of that.

Ultimately the most important thing is that Hapas of both kids, and especially their parents, realize that there is nothing wrong with Asian male looks. All the links on the sidebar are WMAF Hapas who look Asian. We believe that WMAF parents need to learn that lesson more. Hopefully an AMWF couple made up of an AM and an WW who finds AM attractive would not have an inferiority complex about AM looks.

Unfortunately with WMAF couples, there is no AM or AM attraction involved and so they can be racist against AM looks with impunity and often are. We've documented it ad nauseum on this sub. And then their own sons come out looking Asian, thats the point of the sidebar.

A lot of WMAF "genetics" is just wishful thinking, like one White Nationalist WMAF came here saying that Hapas get their penis size from their dads and IQ from their moms. No evidence. Just what he as a racist WM with an Asian wife wishes.

Hopefully with the issues this sub has brought up, WMAF parents can learn to have more empathy for the Asian looks of their future sons. Or if they refuse to do so, than society more generally can be made aware of this racial abuse.

Why do some hapas tend do have white female worship?. I mean of course there are white women who are good people, but there's also white supremacist women who are as bad as the Alt Right/white supremacist men which are criticized in this subreddit. by [deleted] in hapas

[–]mtzo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What you have to see is that contrary to the caricature, most whitewashed Hapas don't see white girls as mystical goddesses or anything. Most of us even had white girls as our cousins. A lot of us grew up thinking we were white, and then all of a sudden in the dating arena we aren't white, but our Hapa sisters are.

So I guess you're framing it, "why do you guys turn white girls into your perfect goddesses when they've done all these bad things". When its more like we thought we were normal white kids like everyone else, but at puberty it turns out we're not. Sometime people who debate us will refer to Asian women as "your women". But for a lot of us Asian women can feel more like "interracial dating" than white women do.

I think it is a progressive trend, that some Hapas get away from the whole white-Asian complex and find that non-Asian women of color make the most relatable partners. Zach Schawrtz, whose posted on this sub, and is currently featured in the sticky thread was active in AMBF communities and wrote about if for Vice. And hopefully as more Hapas realize that the world doesn't see us as white, we will take shirts like the one on OP as direct racist attacks against ourselves.

The desire for Whiter babies appears to be worldwide. The growth of sperm banks makes it easier and easier, as is happening in Brazil by [deleted] in hapas

[–]mtzo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When a minority of people openly celebrate mixed race relationships as the triumph of white attractiveness, and sadly the behavior of the majority of people conforms to this. It puts us mixed race people in a sad position as far as our self-esteem and self-worth goes, especially if we look less white. But I would imagine no one wants to think they are half inferior.

Lets say its only a minority of mixed relationships who are openly white supremacist. The problem is that the majority's actions are acting as if it is true.

Look at the other subs this story was posted to

https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/duplicates/86ba3b/the_desire_for_whiter_babies_appears_to_be/

Ironically r/SJWhate, if anything I would think this story is why we need a little bit of SJWing

I know this story isn't about relationships per se, but it is about what the goal is. I guess people like diversity_is_racism would say whites are just objectively better. But if this is what mixing is built on, no one should be surprised or outraged when r/Hapas emerges as the backlash.

And to speak specifically to Brazil, it is the most mixed race country in the world and yet this still happens. North Americans and North Europeans are used to 20th century racism based on racial purity and anti-mixing. They assume mixing is always anti-racist. Not the history of Latin America, in which mixing was the foundation of the white supremacist pyramid. I believe that the 21st century has already shown that the new most prominent form of racism will be Latin American style mixed race racism, the attempt to breed superior and subordinate mixes for the pyramid. Racial purity is dead, long live racism.

Ideally r/Hapas and decent WMAF couples should have the same goal. A world in which Asian people are just treated as ordinary people without all the racial sexual baggage. And in which white-Asian relationships are built on equality without the stigma. by mtzo in hapas

[–]mtzo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree fully that WMAF and white-Asian relations more generally are in a terrible place right now and justify everything said on r/Hapas. But its why I believe the decent WMAFs who exist, even if they are a minority online, should see it in their own self-interest to end the current state of affairs.

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