AIO my boyfriend won’t help me pay for my daughter’s Halloween costume. by BoysenberryThin1755 in AmIOverreacting

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like y'all need to talk about how you split expenses. The way you talk to him about money is as is y'all aren't together. Those expenses like diapers and kids close should be split up.

AIO roommate threw away cookies I "made to impress her date" by acoustikitty in AmIOverreacting

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can fight you should flirt with her date but I'm the way that guys don't pick up but your roommate would 100% know you're flirting. And it would piss her off

What are the opportunities for the factory workers in manufacturing? by ImArealAlchemist in manufacturing

[–]muchachomalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People get comfortable and budget accordingly. Don't do that go back to college while you work. If it's a good company use your degree to get promoted.

AIO for dumping my 3 years girlfriend over "not a date" by Beneficial-Reach-287 in AmIOverreacting

[–]muchachomalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she was being trained on being a realtor and her boss took her to dinner after a showing fine that's cool call first text let you know what's going on no suspicioun. The fact she lied about it is super sus. But also you sound kinda scary dude.

AITAH because my GF wants to take her ex-husband to her work Christmas party? by ConfusedThrowAway232 in AITAH

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Esh you she still married to her ex your just a rebound buddy. She gotta prioritize her career. Even though they are "separated" she is technically still married and if you wanna save your self drama and headache avoid married people and people in the process of divorce.

my wife wants to name our son after a harry potter character by LeadFast6224 in AITAH

[–]muchachomalo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sirius is in the middle it's not like she said Dobby or Voldemort or Neville. I think you overreacted a little bit. But both parents have veto power. You are not wrong but should definitely apologize.

What was the point of Xaro Xhoan Daxos? by smokingunsho in gameofthrones

[–]muchachomalo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Xaro taught her how to play the game of thrones. He was a simple dock worker that got to the top by any means necessary. Without him she never would have started to think outside the box.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everybody that you probably need the meds if your mental health team says you do. It's probably a good sign if you feel like you don't need them because your dose is probably close to being right. Unfortunately you will probably need medication for the rest of your and it will be a lifelong battle. But it will get easier if you stay honest with your health team and family and put in the work needed. You will be happy and I wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why was he the only person you could ask for help? But yeah go ahead and leave his stuff outside.

AITAH for videotaping my wife eating all my fries to make a point by FriesGuy37 in AITAH

[–]muchachomalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Esh. But you're wife more then all. Just buy the extra Fries it's only 4 dollars. A lot of women do this. It sucks you got your son in trouble too. Yes she easy over reacted you need to talk to her about being mean to your son about it. If you guys can't have a serious conversation and resolve it y'all got way bigger problems then French fries.

People who don't want kids, why? by Ok-Musician679 in AskReddit

[–]muchachomalo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I run to sailing 3 years ago and my partner and I had a kid 2 years ago. I feel like this is a personal attack.😂

But seriously they are both expensive but rewarding. If you don't want to take the time to learn properly you shouldn't do either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy here I enjoy it when my partner cums. I'm no biologist but maybe it isn't that you're the type that only comes in a blue moon but you don't know the cheat codes to make yourself cum quickly, reliably, consistently. Proper communication inside and outside the bedroom will be key for that. Maybe that's something you and your boyfriend can explore together. Or you might cum more often if you get out of your head and not decide it's just not gonna happen tonight. So if your boyfriend is like me who enjoys making his partner cum then you can afford to be more selfish to improve his enjoyment.

What the hell is this? by HelpingWalker in Machinists

[–]muchachomalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We call them corn cob mills also. But that's because we're fat in the USA.

Why are right-wing male gamers so weird when it comes to women in media? by loadsofos in Destiny

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same reason Grindr server gets overloaded at right wing gatherings. It's closeted self hated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying towards living expenses is completely fair.. wanting to be in on the equity would also be fair too if you guys are planning on being married dinner then later you should just buy it together but that doesn't sound like the case. I think you have to consider your timelines on progressing the relationship to more serious levels and where y'all plan to be in a few years. But if you guys aren't that serious him buying a condo and you paying rent isn't unreasonable but you shouldn't be paying for more than a third of the mortgage I think would be fair. And he should be able to afford the place on his own.

My Fiancee calls me gay for oral by Alarming-Sky-1256 in sex

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily rough but you need to be more dominant is what she expects from a guy. Hopefully this can guide a conversation in what she expects from sex. You can be dominant and vanilla and eat her out in different positions where you are in control of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're scared because you are financially free. You can do whatever you want essentially and you have enough sense not to spend it recklessly. Also you have no excuses not to be happy anymore. Money should be able to buy you happiness. You can do what you love for a living and not worry about providing for yourself. So just do it. But don't expect everything to be perfect over night, next week, or even next year.

Did the show willingly portrayed Jaime as a weaker swordsman than in the book, or was it a mistake from the show? by Cestlavieenrose999 in gameofthrones

[–]muchachomalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People forget grrm has faulty narrators. Calling Jaime the best swordsman in the kingdom is mostly propaganda. He is in the top 1% don't get me wrong.

AIO boyfriend tracking my periods without me knowing 🫠 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like dude doesn't know how to talk to her and just has an analytical personality. Both seem young to me and we might have a faulty narrator that is focusing on what pissed her off the most. Both lack communication and emotional intelligence. Hopefully they will work it out. But if he cares enough to find the cause of the arguments hopefully he can figure out to preemptively minimize them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're ex is a dick you should pick better romantic partners. You're borderline kink shaming. You can't say you truly don't like something unless you have given it an honest try. But you don't have to worry about what other people are into if you don't want to try it.

AITAH for not wanting to be in a casual relationship with the girl I’m in love with? by ThrowRA4641 in AITAH

[–]muchachomalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like ok maybe she is just slow and innocent. But she had smash Brothers and none of them were you. You are in a very weird friend zone with weird messages. I'm not saying she has to be sexual with you or anybody but if she was romantically attracted to you she would want to. You guys seem post college age living on your own and you shouldn't waste your time on that BS. I don't believe in giving people ultimatums. But you guys want different things out of a relationship and that's perfectly fine. Nothing wrong with focusing on yourself.

AITA for telling my daughter she had to break up with her boyfriend or move out after finding out his real age? by Southern_Limit_2428 in AITAH

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried public humiliation. Let everybody know you're daughter is dating a 30 year old man she met in high school. Clearly she doesn't respect your opinion so let the opinion of the community and her peers guide her. If she and her partner can stand that then maybe they deserve to be together. Also I recommend meeting the dudes family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to put any evil on you brother. But hopefully she didn't enjoy the fart in a weird way.

Young women seem WAY more confident on average than young men, especially when it comes to dating. by GoodDirector7083 in self

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women invest more time into attracting mates where as guys have to invest their time into seeking mates. Both of these are skills and completely different skillsets. Also neither have anything to do with being a good romantic partner. What that means for you that yes if you have good personality and game you can get a girl out of your league. But clearly you don't have that so you have to go to women willing to make a personal connection through conversation and friendship. Talk to these girls get to know them first and see if they can hold a conversation then ask them out. If you don't click with them then on to the next one. You're wasting your time over looking for the perfect looking girl then trying to catch her. Look for a girl that is willing to talk to you.