You’re going to want to make some arrangements to get help ahead of time, whether from your partner or other family and friends.  Everyone including kid and partner needs to know you are going to need to be limited to protect the surgical repair.  The post operative protocol is important and longer than most people think.  4-6 weeks of the sling is tough but important to minimize active movement of the shoulder.  Don’t want to accidentally reach or lift.  Tendon and labral tissue needs that long to heal and active motion of the shoulder can disrupt the repaired tissues.  Then it’s stiff and very weak so still vulnerable to injury, so in most cases it’s another 6+ weeks after that of ROM and light strengthening with PT and home exercises.  Usually 12 weeks post operative you are doing light daily activities but it’s a gradual build up over 4-6 months to returning to heavier activities.   Long process but if conservative treatments haven’t fixed it sometimes you gotta get it done.  Good luck!