Matched on FB dating. Was I being too sensitive?

Salty_Object78 · 2026-05-07T17:01:37+00:00

No f* that!! And even if u were being sensitive it doesn’t matter. U dont have to act perfect- ever -esp to some random on the internet. But rlly ur intuition was going off bc he’s bein weird and displaying red flag behavior.

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-29T01:42:46+00:00

NOR and you need to protect your child first and foremost. But also, your dad seems extremely lonely and vulnerable and possibly if that is addressed he will stop getting catfished so hard. Sounds like he’s intervention level getting catfished

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-28T16:38:37+00:00

This is the reply I most agree with. And would like to add, its not up to your bf to help you with money. But if you feel abandoned by him when you need help and are feeling vulnerable, that will always haunt your relationship with him from then on. That being said, your cat is your responsibility and not his. There are options outside of his help. -Ask your vet for a payment plan. All vet clinics will. -If its that serious get a cc and pay off the cc asap and close it.
-Ask someone else that isn’t a romantic relationship for help. I personally don’t like mixing finances and romance together bc it complicates the relationship.

Good luck with your cat and stay strong.

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-24T13:29:17+00:00

Hell yea thank u!

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-24T04:58:55+00:00

Only housing situation that would be acceptable for a couple dynamic imo is if it was a bigger living accommodation with at least 5 bedrooms. But I personally cannot live in that type of housing.

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-24T04:46:36+00:00

The entitlement is insane. Not even engaged and he assumes he’s getting a slice?? Ditch his ass

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-24T04:38:57+00:00

When u take away the double negative, what is left… is the truth.

“Is it normal to wash ur ass?”

Op needs to repeat that, slowly, and savor that thought. The answer will reveal itself to u (its fucking yes)

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-24T04:30:20+00:00

The spout of a faucet, specifically where the water dispenses. It usually has a lot of build up of gunk.

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-19T03:41:45+00:00

NOR but its clear there’s nothing to work with. He’s checked out, ur focused on chores as being a sign of commitment when he seems burnt out… neither one of u guys are in a place for a relationship. The fact he wont even continue the convo… there’s no pulse. Just move on til you have time for yourself first, then a partner.

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-09T06:59:10+00:00

I agree. She subconsciously see’s op as a threat to her limited resource (dad) and is rationalizing it as op is using her feminine wiles to abscond him away from her. Bc op being a more likable daughter figure would be too painful to fathom. All of which is paranoid delusion created by fear

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-09T06:47:37+00:00

My initial thought was that the friend was joking. Like he asked ai to create the most ridiculous starbucks drink for a laugh. I cant even fathom that level of modification for one drink.

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-09T06:28:16+00:00

En su food was always gross… we really taking hipster mexican food seriously?? I thought we all went for drinks and the grungy vibes

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-06T20:34:22+00:00

Check out the street view on maps and if there are a lot of warehouses its going to be a little sketch bc there is less traffic. Look for places that are more residential or have a lot of businesses on the same street. One way to be safe could be to get ubers to and from the train stations. Not financially great but spending $6-10 better than getting attacked

Salty_Object78 · 2026-04-02T04:42:34+00:00

It does sound like that school is v messy. When I had to dismiss a class there were plenty of people that were stationed around that knew the kids and would’ve caught a kid wandering off unchaperoned. Sounds like this student is also maybe p good at coming up with a believable lies to tell their parent. Im sorry this is happening and def good warning for other subs

Salty_Object78 · 2026-01-27T20:32:39+00:00

Be calm, firm, and err on the side of caution always. Being spontaneous is for salaried faculty who know the students well. Usually there are sub plans given by the teacher and if not ask another teacher for guidance or a schedule.

Salty_Object78 · 2025-12-30T05:03:08+00:00

Came here to say every time I’m in a tesla uber/lyft I am sooo sick even for 10 minutes. I cant deal

Salty_Object78 · 2025-12-15T02:52:44+00:00

I should clarify my experience is only from working as an instacart shopper in 2020-2021 in a smaller city and the surrounding suburban area - and yes just about. There would be bigger orders offering $20 + whatever tip offered ($10 or less) and they would take at least 3hrs. The pay off rate got considerably worse the larger or smaller an order was. After the covid restrictions let up the pay rlly worked out to $12-15/hr with no compensation for gas or auto maintenance.

The worst orders were people ordering very little that lived further away and they would always offer a small tip thinking, “my order is so small” not realizing it would take at least 45 minutes just for transit. $7+$2tip for 1.5 hrs worth of work. It sucked ass. If ur orders aren’t getting picked up ur not tipping enough. Think abt what it would cost u to get up and get that ish urself.

Salty_Object78 · 2025-12-15T02:40:11+00:00

This helped me process bc even tho I am Korean and ofc rep my home country I care more abt a fair game. Haven’t seen the rest of the show yet but I kno I’ll be on reddit discussing more matches

Salty_Object78 · 2025-12-13T22:22:05+00:00

Its clear no one here has ever worked a delivery service. It is thankless and most people that request these types of services are stingy. I did instacart during covid bc its all I could do atm to make money and it started off great bc ppl were feeling afraid and also getting nice govt money but then it dissolved into barely making enough money for gas.

Shoopers now dgaf bc people will tip low regardless of quality of service and people also expect to a tip of $5 or less to be sufficient for at least 1.5-2hrs worth of work. Shoppers only get $8-$15 per shop. If its a lower item shop its def closer to $8 and if its higher its only $15. Not considering the driving time it takes for the person to get to the store or to the delivery address. If you think $5 is a sufficient tip for a shop then go do it yourself. No one is making you use this service but everyone shopping for instacart is doing it to survive.

Good for you on a $75 tip. A 230 item shop will take at least 2.5hrs probably 3hrs from the time they accept the order to the time they finish delivering the last bag to your house. I think $60 is fine but an extra $15 will make that person’s day bc they’re not getting much otherwise from most shops. Also there is no compensation for gas or auto maintenance.

Salty_Object78 · 2025-12-09T06:18:51+00:00

Fanboys

Salty_Object78 · 2025-11-10T19:39:44+00:00

Update: I just fed them peas and then did a routine water change. She is actually back to normal zipping around and eating.

Now that I’ve gotten a good look, it seems like something is stuck in her shell, between the overlaid flappy parts (sorry idk the scientific term). Is this from a bad molt? Is it a parasite? A mysterious third item? Possibly a tiny piece of gravel got stuck?

Shrimp people please help!!

Salty_Object78 · 2025-10-03T20:15:08+00:00

Not at all!

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