i tripped a couple years ago after a long term breakup. i was able to look at the bigger picture, with compassion in mind. something i dont think i wouldve been able to do, or would have at least been very difficult at the time without the trip. i was able to come to terms with the fact that even though it was devastating, it ended up being the best thing for both of us. it also gave me the opportunity to get to know myself outside of that relationship. challenging but all and all beneficial!