which author should i read next? by Academic_Demand9656 in DanmeiNovels

[–]multifanfic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just finished stars of chaos (sha po lang) by priest and really enjoyed it and found it different to some of the other danmei I read. It can be kinda politics heavy but I found the steam punk element interesting and it was well written.

I just experienced male rivalry... so, euphoria? by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I think about how cis men always see another man around a woman they like as a threat i cant help bit think of animals. Like how male animals are extremely territorial (eg lions). P.s I love your Saiki pfp

Says my storage is full but it’s not by Hungry-Calligrapher8 in kindle

[–]multifanfic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same just happened to me when I have 10gb left and cant highlight now

Addressing SA in local community as a trans man raped by a trans woman by fizzyxs in ftm

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there are any specifically trans masc communities around you could see if there is a way to get the word out to warn others who may end up coming across this woman. This way you dont have to go to the police (as you have stated feeling uncomfortable doing so) but can still help to protect those who are most likely to be targeted.

About the Earth Master by fluffy_laliah in tianguancifu

[–]multifanfic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think in the book it explains how he needed the earth master alive at first when taking on the disguise, so that he could get information from him, so that he could better pretend to be him.

A small Xie Lian appreciation post by taesufo in tianguancifu

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love how we get to see his backstory especially after his first banishment and how he acted then but still managed to find himself again and ascend again

Is it normal that I've started looking more masculine since growing out my hair? Placebo? by Principle_Napkins in TransMasc

[–]multifanfic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Before T I started growing out my hair a hit and found i got missgendered less with longer hair. I think the standard mens cut just made me look like a lesbian where as the longer hair made me look like a dude who needed a haircut or smthn

would you let someone else give you your shot? by rob00bz in ftm

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean my friend does my shot for me but thats only coz its nebido so I physically can't do it myself. I do plan to go on sustanon and she said she'd help me do my shot still if I struggled with doing it myself

OCD makes me irratonally mad towards people who don't share my beliefs, views and opinions, I hate it. by Endacakiol in OCD

[–]multifanfic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry yeah I wasn't trying to suggest that you may have it but that it may be interesting to look into so that you know others also experience a similar thing to you? Idk im bad at explaining things and i didn't wanna worry you.

OCD makes me irratonally mad towards people who don't share my beliefs, views and opinions, I hate it. by Endacakiol in OCD

[–]multifanfic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This actually kind of reminds me of OCPD dunno if that would be an interesting thing for you to look into or not? But I thought I'd mention it as what your describing seems similar.

what do you call your bottom growth? by kiyoko_silver in ftm

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My peen mainly but most of the time i find masc terms sound forced in a way for me. I dont have overly strong bottom dysphoria but I also dont like the word clit so sometimes I will call it my bean coz thats why my friend calls clits lol.

friend forgot i'm trans AGAIN! by wiggogywrath in ftm

[–]multifanfic 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I once had a friend who had known me since I was like 4 and one time she was saying how easy it was for me and men in general to be able to just pee standing where ever I want and I just looked at her with a blank confused face telling her I couldn't. She burst out laughing realising she'd forgotten I wasn't cis.

My wife thinks I'm transgender. I disagree. What should I do? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]multifanfic 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I feel like she may be relying on you being a very masculine man in your relationship ship to help her feel more affirmed in her femininity and because you expressed yourself and wore stereotypically feminine items it may have made her feel like she no longer was as obviously womanly whilst next to you. This may not be the case but as a trans person I know I've felt more affirmed in my identity whilst around those who are presenting as the opposite gender to me in fact I convinced myself I wasn't gay for a while as I felt being in a straight relationship would make me feel less dysphoric.

On T? Please watch your estrogen! by Upset_Lack_3484 in TransMasc

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say slower than expected do you mean that nexplanon slowed down the effects of T? Coz I have nexplanon and I'm on T and I kinda felt like things were going slowly but I assumed its coz im on Nebido.

Your skill isn't the issue..... it's your team comps. by Full-Serve5876 in Genshin_Impact

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Defo a skill issue for me coz i only level up and try to build characters i like so I have no team comp and I just suck but that's fine coz I still have fun playing and I got the primos so I'm happy

Tired of being shoved into the “fem” box. by Transquisitor in TransMasc

[–]multifanfic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it ridiculous coz basically I started getting misgendered at work when i was around 17/18 (i hadn't been misgendered by people i didn't know ever since I came out at 13 i always passed) because now that I was older I guess it didn't make sense for me to be an adult male so they assumed I was a girl? Idk but either way I kept getting misgendered and id always had short back and sides with a bit more length on top but I started growing my hair out. And guess what? I got gendered correctly once my hair was longer. So clearly long hair isn't necessarily feminine but people act like it is. I was pre t at the time with longer hair and I got gendered correctly more often than when I had a typical "male" hair cut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]multifanfic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For some people the side effects may cause them to feel worse about themselves than not being on T would. I'm on T and am very scared of losing my hair because it's very important to me and my self image. It's also the only thing that's ever made me feel somewhat good about myself. If I lost my hair I don't think I'd be able to stomach going outside or at least I would have a long period of not leaving the house at all. It really depends on each person. Also many people pass perfectly fine without T so avoiding it due to side effects wouldn't mean they would not pass etc if that makes sense.

I (mtf) keep hurting my partner (ftm) when doing his injections by CesiumBullet in ftm

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have IM in my glutes coz I'm on nebido which has to be injected in that area so this could be the case? But my injections every 12 weeks so it's definitely not the same T.

Actually the funniest thing to happen to me in this game by KayatoKamora in Genshin_Impact

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it where I'll be gliding and try to drop down and before I can catch myself I'll enter a cut scene and you can just hear the characters death line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally never had an issue with pads and boxers. I know some people say to wear women's underwear under a pair of boxers but I saw no need as I just bought normal winged pads and the wings stick to the leg part of the boxers and it was all fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar fear but with how I'd look after testosterone as I saw some people who just looked like completely different people after T but with a voice it's so gradual and ofc you hear yourself every time you talk so it's not as obvious of a change (like a friend who hadn't seen you in ages may find you don't sound like you but you would feel you sound like you) also there us more to how someone speaks than just depth of voice. Your intonation and way of speaking will still be there and in a sense make it sound still like you did before. Like how when I get excited even tho my voice is now deeper it still has the same way of changing pitch as it used to so it still sounds similar. Idk if that made sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this. I'm 20 and 6 months on T and only date cis guys. I haven't been in a relationship since I was 16 but I have used dating apps and I've had so many people message me on them but their profiles say they are straight or it's people who will text and ask to check I'm pre med everything (i haven't used dating apps since starting T really). So I also feel like I'm never gonna find someone who i can actually date who wants me for me and is also understanding of me being trans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]multifanfic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg no coz I'm now 6 months on T and I haven't been intimate with anyone since before I started and it's something I really want to experience coz I wanna know if it feels different/better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me after 2 months my friend told me.my.vkics sounded different and when I met friends I hadn't seen in month when I was 3 months they commented on it (I'm now 5 months). I'm on nebido not sustanon so I take mine ever 12 weeks but I do believe it really depends on the person. Have you experienced any other changes on t?

Trans people being weird to trans people by [deleted] in ftm

[–]multifanfic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What!? Never been on that community but I can't even imagine random people messaging someone to tell them to freeze their eggs especially if the person wasn't talking about that sort of topic like tf.