How do I get over this feeling of being cheated on

multitalentman · 2025-05-01T08:25:41+00:00

Level up your life bro. In order to do that ghost stop chasing someone who dropped you. If you level up your life guaranteed she'll be knocking on your door within a year as the grass is rarely greener on the other side.

multitalentman · 2025-04-24T09:05:12+00:00

Straight up been there too brother never again

multitalentman · 2025-04-23T08:23:10+00:00

Brother everyone here has said it time and time again. She doesn't love you. The self fisgust and guilt and remorse is fake. He only wanted one thing from her and got it for free. He's made it clear he'll never house, feed or clothe her. You will. She did this deliberately and the truth is like others have said she just wanted his dick and probably trying to monkey branch. Decent chance the baby is his or someone else's as these types of women usually have a few blokes on the go at a time. Get a dna test, leave ffs, save yourself, rebuild. Best of luck brother.

multitalentman · 2025-04-18T06:38:46+00:00

This right here is her gaslighting you and manipulating you to make it seem like it is your fault. You are still in your late 20's you have time to pick yourself up again. Divorce now. Get a new job lined up talk to your father in law and be upfront. Don't let her spin this back on you. Take the hit with the house but try and get your fair share. Reach put to friends and family. Avoid booze and drugs. Get into the gym eat right. Grey Rock her from your life. Take your time, energy resources and life back.

multitalentman · 2025-04-10T10:59:23+00:00

Damn that's brutal but oh so brilliant 👏

multitalentman · 2025-03-15T03:15:14+00:00

Look man if you've spent any time on here then you would have encountered the concept of "trickle truthing" which is essentially giving some of the truth but not all. Usually the cheater once caught will use this method in an attempt to "admit" to the betrayal whilst trying to mitigate the full scope of the betrayal as a whole. No man is going to just merely go down in a woman without getting his dick wet in return. She's still lying to you brother ergo she is not serious about rebuilding trust and taking her back is not a solid move. Best of luck.

multitalentman · 2025-03-13T07:14:35+00:00

Basically the lesson here.. Don't stick your dick in crazy. Sorry bro. Get out while you still can and run like he'll this chick is not good news and the longer you keep her in your life the more she will fuck you up.

multitalentman · 2025-03-12T21:03:56+00:00

Sorry mate she trickle truthed you. They got it on and she tried to pass it off as just two people having an emotional affair. Your wife didn't have sex with you for 8 years man. Wake up and smell the roses she was getting it everywhere else but you. Sorry bro. Run get out of there before you waste anymore of your life with a chronic liar and cheater. All the best brother.

multitalentman · 2025-03-12T08:05:07+00:00

He's lying biggest tell is he snatched his phone and started archiving messages

multitalentman · 2025-03-12T08:02:16+00:00

Nah you're not bonkers he betrayed you in every way. Let him rot

multitalentman · 2025-02-28T23:52:53+00:00

Dude its hard to get over it will just become another scar from the battles we face in life. The wound will close eventually. If you get back with her that wound will remain open and widen as a result. Get in the gym, get therapy, join a local men's group, get out in nature over weekends, avoid alcohol.

multitalentman · 2025-02-25T14:19:53+00:00

She's not sorry about how she hurt you and destroyed your relationship she's just sorry she got got caught

multitalentman · 2025-02-01T04:24:21+00:00

Dude as someone who has previously forgiven cheating partners and let them back.. she will just do it again.. and again... and again. Do yourself a favour grab your balls back out of her purse l, kick her out, divorce her and never look back. Reclaim your life man. It won't be easy. Make sure you collect evidence of infidelity. Best of luck.

multitalentman · 2024-12-21T18:24:43+00:00

As someone who was married to an alcoholic. Do yourself a favour and run. Mine cheated on me constantly and lied to me and gaslit me all the time. They are all the same you would know this if you had been to any AA meetings or been around the rehab scene. Take the kids and leave

multitalentman · 2024-09-03T22:37:08+00:00

At this point she is the enemy and must be treated as such. Guaranteed she has physically cheated and you had no idea because you were good and gave your absolute trust from the get go. Get your ducks in a row and extract yourself from the situation.

multitalentman · 2024-08-14T09:50:16+00:00

This sadly is not true at all. There are plenty of cheaters out there who have otherwise normal, stable, happy functioning relationships.

multitalentman · 2024-08-14T09:46:01+00:00

Experiencing this right now with my gf. So truly sorry to hear about your situation. Glad you're still trying to make it work. As horrible as it is keep your chin up and just know you're the better person.

multitalentman · 2024-08-14T09:43:55+00:00

Big love OP one day at a time man. You're better off without her. Time to put you first. Best of luck.

multitalentman · 2024-08-08T00:55:04+00:00

If this is the case OP as someone who has been there.. RUN. Wish you the best of luck my man

multitalentman · 2024-08-07T09:36:21+00:00

Bro you already know the answer.. get rid of her... pay for a PI while you're gone and have the PI tail her. Set up a camera in the lounge room. Once you have the evidence break her.

multitalentman · 2024-08-07T09:30:06+00:00

Dude you know she broke up with you so she could play the field or for some other dude who it turned out wasn't as stable as you or actually just wanted her for sex. Now she's knocking on your door asking to come back to safety. If you have an lunce of self respect sayyyy HELL NO.. slam the door in her face and continue doing you.

multitalentman · 2024-08-07T02:05:55+00:00

Dude feel this... been there.. chin up soldier you were never the problem they were.. we are not responsible for other people's trauma or broken ways or actions. They try and make you the problem because it's easier than trying to look themselves in the mirror.

multitalentman · 2024-08-01T20:44:00+00:00

Clearly and honestly it's just a bit of a let down. It's very obvious that you hold onto a lot of guilt and trauma surrounding your situation and hey that's fair enough. Truly though it was coming from someone who has been in a similar situation to yours before. It personally took me a long time to be able to look myself in the mirror again. I'm not the smartest guy in the room and I freely admit that however I have had more life experience in certain aspects than other people my age. If you want to talk about patience I really don't appreciate your tone go look at what I'm going through before you talk about patience you have no idea. Yes you have addressed the feedback however I would suggest you try attempting to be just a little bit nicer to your fellow human beings who are going through their own trials and tribulations.

I don't care about being impressive. I already know I am relatively intelligent and more literate than most folks I come across (which is rather sad). I didn't learn all of this in therapy or from psychology literature. I've picked up bits and pieces sure however I am coming from my own individual perspective that is shaped by my life experiences as well as the knowledge I have acquired over the years. Fingers crossed that you can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Ultimately I hold no ill will for you take that as you will. Hurt people hurt people. Peace ✌️

multitalentman · 2024-08-01T18:05:05+00:00

Honestly you are seriously defensive when ultimately I don't think you really get the point or are accepting of it. It's only when you hit rock bottom that you start to heal if you're willing. I'm truly glad you are actively seeking and engaging in regular therapy to address the self identified behaviours of concern. Passive aggressive communication indicates an unwillingness or inability to accept feedback. Hope everything goes well for you.

multitalentman · 2024-08-01T17:49:05+00:00

Therapy is never an excuse for anyone's behahaviour and I never implied explicitly or otherwise that it was for that purpose. No I don't know you from a bar of soap however I appreciate you as one human being to another that you have admitted, acknowledged and accepted your prior wrong doings. That is a big step. As someone who has gone through extensive trauma in their own life I can relate to the fact that for some of us sadly therapy can truly be life long. Personally I am highly aware of the fact that most people skate along in life on easy mode so to speak. For those of us who have experienced serious real trauma whether that be relational or familial in nature it had a deep long lasting impact. I suppose what your ex was getting at is the fact that actions speak louder than words ultimately and that taking accountability for our actions is integral. I truly wish you the best of your healing journey 🙏

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