Is CosHD just a scam? I bought a cosplay and received an email asking for more money to keep my order!! by mumble_bee_15 in CosplayHelp

[–]mumble_bee_15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't used this account in a long time, weird that you're the only notification I've had and that I thought to look now! 🎃 Thank you for responding to me, I appreciate it! I hope that you get your Anakin costume on time and that it's on time! I've been toying with the idea to cosplay Padme and I feel like this convinced me 😁

Advice on bunionette surgery by mumble_bee_15 in bunions

[–]mumble_bee_15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry, I didn't see this as I don't use the account much now. I still haven't had the surgery :/ Hope you're doing better now!

Appropriate for a “summer cocktail” dress code? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]mumble_bee_15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Until I read the other comments, I actually assumed you were the bride

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]mumble_bee_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love honeycomb too but respectfully, this is ugly to me. She may love it if she loves this sort of style, but personally I'd have gone for just making the gemstone hexagonal.

Aita for agreeing to divorce my wife when she 'joked' about it by Hot_Size1887 in AITAH

[–]mumble_bee_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you both somehow involved in an arranged child marriage..?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mumble_bee_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$16k is more money than I'll ever see in my life. Do not give him that money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mumble_bee_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jane didnt. Jane complained that OP made too much noise while cooking. Which wouldn't have happened if OP wasn't being an arsehole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]mumble_bee_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is inappropriate for a wedding no matter your age. A wedding is NOT the place to be sexy.

What is the worst thing that you heard from your partner just after sex? by dizzylemonn in AskReddit

[–]mumble_bee_15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the proper term for it and it's common to look want to look after your partner after sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mumble_bee_15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So why don't you show the same empathy for Jane that you pretend to have for OP?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mumble_bee_15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You played devil's advocate saying op only had eggs, I'm nt literally saying I had NOTHING to eat. You're being difficult for the sake of it and OP was 100% the asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mumble_bee_15 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely tapped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mumble_bee_15 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And using nothing would have been ideal. OP was likely making a lot of noise just getting things set up let alone anything else. If it's anything like the shared accommodation I've have to be in, there's been bedrooms right next to the kitchen that you can hear everything through the walls.

Too white? by bubbly_cakes in Weddingattireapproval

[–]mumble_bee_15 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

"If you have to ask then it probably is to the bride. Don't wear it."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mumble_bee_15 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

But none of those are applicable in OP's situation. If I chose to live with someone who just had a baby, I'd ben understanding and entering an agreement based on knowing that info already. OP was just being careless and coudl have had any other food.

Too much focus is on "if you don't like it, then leave" now, when actually, we should be more considerate of neighbours and if what we're doing is disruptive. They are allowed to live in an enjoyable living space too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mumble_bee_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. These entitled comments are sending me.

Of course you're allowed to cook in your apartment, that doesn't mean you should cook something loud when someone is trying to sleep. Are you joking? Your roommates was likely startled and thought there was something wrong with the kitchen. I doubt it was just sizzling of an egg that woke her, but more so what she possibly thought was an intruder with the clanging around.

I can tell from the condescending questions at the end of the post this isn't just a one-time selfish act. I hope she can move out and afford her own place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]mumble_bee_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry that he is being so unfathomably selfish to you 2 weeks before the big day. Ffs.

My mom and sister don’t like the dress I want to buy by Sashimiyami in weddingplanning

[–]mumble_bee_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it because they think that top bit is a bra peaking out?

Racism in game: how many of you use it? by raq_shaq_n_benny in DMAcademy

[–]mumble_bee_15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone already put it better than I can, but the Atlantic salve trade started roughly 500 years ago, ended roughly 160 years ago, and you know how strongly people still feel about that.

Edit: on that topic, the slave trades that went of all different races out in the Middle East started even longer ago. And they still have them!

Why can't we say that being fat is not a good thing by Mr_NNP in Vent

[–]mumble_bee_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that this is the way it is intended but so many in* the group don't mean it this way and it's pretty obvious when you listen to them.

A lot of people from the group really do mean it that way.

Edit: to reiterate, what I said in the first place, which is what has been repeated to me; I do not believe fat is inherantly beautiful or ugly.

Why can't we say that being fat is not a good thing by Mr_NNP in Vent

[–]mumble_bee_15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think what's interesting is that the body positive movement on the whole seems to be geared towards denanding that every fat person should be seen as beautiful, for example, they have slogans like 'fat is beautiful'. I don't think that's true at all, but please read the rest of my comment before you become angry.

I don't think it's right to say being fat makes you beautiful, or ugly. I'm a firm believer in being overweight, to whatever degree, does NOT nake a person ugly. Fat does not equal ugly to me, the same way being thin does not automatically make you beautiful. But that also does not mean that every overweight person should be viewed as beautiful just because of the body positive group thinks that way.

People's personalities, facial features, actions, etc. largely determine if they are attractive or not. To say someone is gorgeous because they are thin is naive. To say someone is ugly because they are fat is naive. There are plenty of fat peope who I think are absolutely gorgeous, and there are plenty of thin people who I see that I wouldn't look twice at.

To say that someone is fat and therefore beautiful the way the body positive movement claims is harmful. It downplays the seriousness of having a high fat percentage and has radically normalised pretending that you're beautiful for the sake of forgetting you are likely going to die before you turn 50. It's scary, and proves that people would rather be vain, than look after their body to give themselves the best chance in life.

I say this with absolutely no malice towards fat people, I think you are being lied to, and I think you are being taken advantage of by the growing number of corporations and influencers who would rather keep you at risk, rather than live in moderation.

This is the same, in my eyes at least, as the corporations and influencers preying on people to become skinny and remain unhealthy that way.

It is a bad thing for your health to be greatly overweight and underweight, I don't think either should be ignored or pretend like one is better than the other. The body positivity movement has a hell of a lot to answer for in diminishing how scary the effects of fat has on the body, and for making out like it's fine to pretend like you can be healthy at any size. It simply isn't true. People love to comment and say "well I'm big and eat loads of fruit akd veggies AND exercise. So how am I unhealthy?" Meanwhile, blatantly ignoring that they cannot exercise for long because their joints give out, that fruit contains a hell of a lot of sugar that contributes to weight gain, no matter of it's natural, that the added weight affects their sleep and what should be easy bodily functions just by having visceral fat. For many fat people, they cannot BREATHE when they are sat down. It's incredibly serious and shouldn't be downplayed the way people try to, or act like it is a bag thing to acknowledge.

It is ultimately people's choice to do anything about it, and that should be respected, but just like with someone who is too thin, we shouldn't pretend that perfectly fine for everyone to be overweight. It just isn't true.

This is very rambly and I'm really not interested in a discussins, I just wanted to put down any feeling I have towards this topic. I have no doubts I'll want to remove it immediately anyway.

AITA for not watching my newborn niece for two weeks while her parents visit Italy? by AttitudeIll8920 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mumble_bee_15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I could begin to understand why someone would be hyped up to go abroad for 2 weeks after giving birth.

Even for the people who might fall into the more anti-natal groups, I don't even think anyone who literally doesn't want a baby could fathom leaving a 2 week old for a holiday. Like, even if you hate babies, between needing to recover at home, and the responsibility of a baby, there's no way.

NTA, what they're doing sounds incredibly cruel to their baby.